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34 Chesterfield, MO Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 10
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Korean (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At this moment I am living for myself and my two boys. I’m concentrating on the person I want to be and not looking for someone. That is not to say I know what’s suppose to happen and would ignore the possibility of a new direction if it's placed in front of me. We're not in control of what happens in our lives, just what we choose to do with the life we are given. I’m a firm believer of going where life takes you, making the best of it and keep moving forward. I have an 9 and 8 year old. My younger is autistic and even though he is a challenge he is also the happiest boy I have ever met. There is no doubt he is a special spirit that doesn’t need this world but is here for everyone that meets him. My 9 year old has such an empathetic heart and is a great big brother. For most kids having a little brother like G would make them angry and bitter. But with T, he realizes the wonderful things about having a brother like G.

***** Some random facts that might be of interest to you *****

~ I'm not a flowers and chocolate girl. I much rather have a hand written note... Or some power tools.
~ one of the reasons I'm not a flowers and chocolate girl is because I'm pretty frugal and flowers just seem like a waste of money. I would call myself a practical girl.
~ I don't like to cook. I have fun being someone's sue chef, but it is a rare treat for me to cook a fancy (or not so fancy) meal on my own.
~ I would love to have more kids, but I won't be having anymore biological kids.
~ my older son is wise beyond his years, and my younger is a handful.
~ both of my boys are awesome!
~ I'm dyslexic. I mean really dyslexic. I ask how to spell random words all the time. But remember, dyslexics are teople, poo.
~ I have a horrible short term memory. It can drive a person crazy. I know it drives me crazy.
~ I'm not a fan of big trucks unless they are actually needed for there intended use.
~ I was an only child until I was 18 when my parents became legal guardians of a 15 year old girl. She is my sister and my best friend. (I do not have any spoiled brat in me. Ask anyone)
~ when I was 12, President Bush the elder winked at me when he was playing in a pro-am at Pebble Beach. It thrilled me and was a very memorable moment. I'm sure it was for him, too.
~ I'm allergic to chocolate. (Not really... I just tell people that, so no one offers me any. I have no will power.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The only real goal I have is that I will be a better, happier person. That is my expectation of my self every day. I want to keep moving forward, and to be better than I was the day before.

I have plans and goals but I know from experience that life can change and go down paths that I never even knew existed. So I am determined to enjoy where I'm at in the present, work towards my goals for the future, but not be so focused on how I think my life should turn out that I miss another better road that is placed in front of me.

Some of my favorite things are ALL movies, snow boarding, water skiing, and learning about what others love and discovering new things about this world. I love other cultures and enjoy discovering new foods, arts, music, and different ways of doing or thinking about things. I’m actively trying to learn the Korean language and Korean history. Even though I feel like I'm learning really slowly, I'm having so much fun and the more I learn the more I am fascinated by the country and the people.

I'm pondering the idea of going back to school and working towards a master’s degree. I want to earn a masters in Social Work. If you asked me what I would want to do if there was nothing else to consider I would say, “I want to work with 16 to 19 year olds and help them make a successful transition from the foster care system to being on their own.”

I really can’t think of anything right now that I don’t like because when I am with someone that loves something I can see it through their eyes and can’t help but love it too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to think I’m good at making people feel safe and comfortable with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm a bitch. KEEP READING!!!

I'm not sure why but often my shyness is interpreted as bitchyness. It is quite common that when people get to know me, they often feel safe enough to tell me what their first impression was of me.

Then it's my kindness and nonjudgmental outlook.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

(My number one) It Happened One Night, (1934) with Clark Gable and Claudette Colbert. This is the original boy and girl hate each other, are forced together, and through a whole bunch of romantic folly, eventually fall in love.

I'm a Cyborg, But That's OK, (2006) with Rain and Lim Su-Jeong. A girl who thinks she is a combat cyborg checks into a mental hospital, where she encounters other psychotics. Eventually, she falls for a man who thinks he can steal people's souls. Showing that everyone has someone out there for them and we all have a place.

Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, (2008) with Neil Patrick Harris and Nathan Fillion. An aspiring supervillain must balance his career of evil and his love of the do-gooder, Penny. His plans are always foiled by his arch nemesis, Captain Hammer, and now Hammer has the girl too. It’s not really a movie but could not just leave it out. I’ve watched it so many times and every time it seems to get funnier and funnier.

Elf, (2003) with Will Ferrell and James Caan. A man raised as an elf at the North Pole is sent to the U.S. in search of his true identity. All I can say about this move is it has beaten out all my past Christmas favorites.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights rock! I spend them snuggled up with two of the most awesome guys I know, watching a movie and eating pizza.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a human that has many years of experiences that make me who I am, just like everyone else. The only way to start learning all that, is to have a friendship that grows deeper with time and where you slowly discover each other.
You should message me if
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You want to gain a really awesome friend and you're:

- a positive person to be around. (Don't want anyone bringing me down)
- not a begot, racist, sexist, or have any other prejudices.
- not the type of person that gets a strange thrill out of fighting but can talk calmly, without saying cruel things that have no other purpose but to hurt another.

Or if you want to see if I'm your "one" and you're:

- completely OK with the fact I have two other guys wanting my attention, too. (My kids)
- funny!!! Not just a little funny but hilarious. Milk coming out of my nose, hilarious.
- smart and clever. They say intelligence is the greatest aphrodisiac. I completely concur.
- a big cuddlier. The kind of person who wants to snuggle and hold hands all the time.