Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At this moment I am living for myself and my two boys. I’m
concentrating on the person I want to be and not looking for
someone. That is not to say I know what’s suppose to happen and
would ignore the possibility of a new direction if it's placed in
front of me. We're not in control of what happens in our lives,
just what we choose to do with the life we are given. I’m a firm
believer of going where life takes you, making the best of it and
keep moving forward. I have an 9 and 8 year old. My younger is
autistic and even though he is a challenge he is also the happiest
boy I have ever met. There is no doubt he is a special spirit that
doesn’t need this world but is here for everyone that meets him. My
9 year old has such an empathetic heart and is a great big brother.
For most kids having a little brother like G would make them angry
and bitter. But with T, he realizes the wonderful things about
having a brother like G.
***** Some random facts that might be of interest to you
~ I'm not a flowers and chocolate girl. I much rather have a hand
written note... Or some power tools.
~ one of the reasons I'm not a flowers and chocolate girl is
because I'm pretty frugal and flowers just seem like a waste of
money. I would call myself a practical girl.
~ I don't like to cook. I have fun being someone's sue chef, but it
is a rare treat for me to cook a fancy (or not so fancy) meal on my
~ I would love to have more kids, but I won't be having anymore
~ my older son is wise beyond his years, and my younger is a
~ both of my boys are awesome!
~ I'm dyslexic. I mean really dyslexic. I ask how to spell random
words all the time. But remember, dyslexics are teople, poo.
~ I have a horrible short term memory. It can drive a person crazy.
I know it drives me crazy.
~ I'm not a fan of big trucks unless they are actually needed for
there intended use.
~ I was an only child until I was 18 when my parents became legal
guardians of a 15 year old girl. She is my sister and my best
friend. (I do not have any spoiled brat in me. Ask anyone)
~ when I was 12, President Bush the elder winked at me when he was
playing in a pro-am at Pebble Beach. It thrilled me and was a very
memorable moment. I'm sure it was for him, too.
~ I'm allergic to chocolate. (Not really... I just tell people
that, so no one offers me any. I have no will power.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The only real goal I have is that I will be a better, happier
person. That is my expectation of my self every day. I want to keep
moving forward, and to be better than I was the day before.
I have plans and goals but I know from experience that life can
change and go down paths that I never even knew existed. So I am
determined to enjoy where I'm at in the present, work towards my
goals for the future, but not be so focused on how I think my life
should turn out that I miss another better road that is placed in
front of me.
Some of my favorite things are ALL movies, snow boarding, water
skiing, and learning about what others love and discovering new
things about this world. I love other cultures and enjoy
discovering new foods, arts, music, and different ways of doing or
thinking about things. I’m actively trying to learn the Korean
language and Korean history. Even though I feel like I'm learning
really slowly, I'm having so much fun and the more I learn the more
I am fascinated by the country and the people.
I'm pondering the idea of going back to school and working towards
a master’s degree. I want to earn a masters in Social Work. If you
asked me what I would want to do if there was nothing else to
consider I would say, “I want to work with 16 to 19 year olds and
help them make a successful transition from the foster care system
to being on their own.”
I really can’t think of anything right now that I don’t like
because when I am with someone that loves something I can see it
through their eyes and can’t help but love it too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to think I’m good at making people feel safe and comfortable
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm a bitch. KEEP READING!!!
I'm not sure why but often my shyness is interpreted as bitchyness.
It is quite common that when people get to know me, they often feel
safe enough to tell me what their first impression was of me.
Then it's my kindness and nonjudgmental outlook.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(My number one) It Happened One Night, (1934) with Clark Gable and
Claudette Colbert. This is the original boy and girl hate each
other, are forced together, and through a whole bunch of romantic
folly, eventually fall in love.
I'm a Cyborg, But That's OK, (2006) with Rain and Lim Su-Jeong. A
girl who thinks she is a combat cyborg checks into a mental
hospital, where she encounters other psychotics. Eventually, she
falls for a man who thinks he can steal people's souls. Showing
that everyone has someone out there for them and we all have a
Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, (2008) with Neil Patrick Harris and
Nathan Fillion. An aspiring supervillain must balance his career of
evil and his love of the do-gooder, Penny. His plans are always
foiled by his arch nemesis, Captain Hammer, and now Hammer has the
girl too. It’s not really a movie but could not just leave it out.
I’ve watched it so many times and every time it seems to get
funnier and funnier.
Elf, (2003) with Will Ferrell and James Caan. A man raised as an
elf at the North Pole is sent to the U.S. in search of his true
identity. All I can say about this move is it has beaten out all my
past Christmas favorites.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday nights rock! I spend them snuggled up with two of the
most awesome guys I know, watching a movie and eating pizza.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a human that has many years of experiences that make me who I
am, just like everyone else. The only way to start learning all
that, is to have a friendship that grows deeper with time and where
you slowly discover each other.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to gain a really awesome friend and you're:
- a positive person to be around. (Don't want anyone bringing me
- not a begot, racist, sexist, or have any other prejudices.
- not the type of person that gets a strange thrill out of fighting
but can talk calmly, without saying cruel things that have no other
purpose but to hurt another.
Or if you want to see if I'm your "one" and you're:
- completely OK with the fact I have two other guys wanting my
attention, too. (My kids)
- funny!!! Not just a little funny but hilarious. Milk coming out
of my nose, hilarious.
- smart and clever. They say intelligence is the greatest
aphrodisiac. I completely concur.
- a big cuddlier. The kind of person who wants to snuggle and hold
hands all the time.
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