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29 Solana Beach, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 16
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In short, I write novels. I just finished the second in a series called The Ronin Saga that is my utter passion. I'm a dreamer, a bit of a romantic, a workaholic, I'm independent, but ultimately thrive off good company.

I value generosity, silliness, and people who enjoy the little things in life.

Car dancing is a past time I'm known for, and I got some sweet moves.

I don't watch TV really, I social media for the book mostly, I can be a hermit but I like to go out. I dig pool, darts, soccer, etc (I have a streak in pin-the-tail-on-the donkey that I've yet to lose) and generally down for anything.

Being active is really important to me; I enjoy running, hiking, and martial arts. I was a Kung Fu instructor for several years. I miss it, but plan to go back at least part time once I take a break in the series (if that ever happens).

All in all, I love trying new things, and so far so good--it's gotten me into some pretty interesting places and made for great memories.
What I’m doing with my life
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In general, I spend a lot of my time shackled behind a computer spinning worlds. Then I realize what day it is. I scramble to shave and shower (ideally) and then go to schools, libraries, and the like to talk to crowds of kids or travel for conventions across the US and sometimes world to rant about my book and lull people into the dark world of reading and fantasy. But I love what I do. Shameless plug:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm, hopefully writing :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure.. probably humor. Or how my butt looks in heels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: Lotr (not because it's punchy, but it's a classic), Wheel of Time, Sword of Truth, The Alchemist, Night Angel Trilogy, Ender's Game, Mists of Avalon, Redwall series as a kid
movies: lotr, hobbit, braveheart, pixar, any mel brooks movie, all miyazaki.
shows: spartacus, sherlock holmes, daily show, colbert, arrested development
musica: too many, but phoenix, passion pit, nin, pinback, radiohead, say anything, taking back sunday, tool, yeah yeah yeahs, minus the bear, emancipator, empire of the sun, at the drive in
food: sushi, mexican... umm, if I travel somewhere I enjoy sampling the local fare. mostly pretty darn healthy. i salad it up a lot. love me some kale
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My novel
Books in general
working out
kung fu
good friends
I guess most things i could do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmmm, i'd like to say i don't overthink and I'm just constantly in the moment... alas that's a lie. I have quite a few long term goals and i contemplate how best to see them done... (the book and my career, etc), but sometimes I ruminate on natures of the universe, to how awesome it would be to fly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes going out, or hanging in--it depends really. Lately I've been more of a workaholic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can woodcraft? I'm also a little bit, aka a lot a bit of a perfectionist
You should message me if
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I'm down for new friends, and seeing where that takes us

If you're passionate, if you like to do spontaneous adventures, can be silly and love to laugh, then we're on the same page