I'm a So.Cal Native who’s cool, sexy, curvy, flirty, positive, happy, affectionate, quick-witted, sharp-minded, supportive, energetic, focused, sweet, warm, grounded, reliable, empathetic, pliable, monogamous, patient, FUNNY, wild, silly, giving, rambunctious, childlike - in a GOOD way, a good partner and both beautiful on the inside and out! Oh and I’ve been told I look GREAT without makeup! whew! I’m quite the handful of personality, spunk and energy & really seek someone that enjoys THAT FIRE and has a fire of his own too!
I think we all learn from past relationships, what we are made of. I learned so much about myself and it molded me into a better person. Learning from each other and ever-evolving is key. Relationships ARE hard work, BUT they shouldnt be "grinding work". I just feel they need daily cultivating to make them ever-better. OH, and I AM of the mentality that the "honeymoon phase" does NOT ONLY have to be the first 6 months ding-dangit! If you want a lifetime relationship of happiness, love, lust and true friendship with your partner...then WORK IT BABY!
I seek an emotionally available San Diego guy who wants to find an amazing relationship that will last a lifetime. He digs & appreciates the coolness & comfort of a 40-something women and doesn't look back. He'll see the sparkle in me and dig me for the very down to earth, personable, sexy loveable girl I am and make sure I know it! He believes in chivalry and romance and forever treating a woman truly like a lady YET ALSO HAS A FIRE WITHIN him that'll DEFINITELY get MY attention! I'm a strong women who really seeks a STRONG man both in mind & body! He’s TALL, VERY affectionate, monogamous, warm, sexy, personable, intuitive, playful, NOT FIRMLY set-in-his-ways, and has NO problem communicating in an adult manner - all things can be talked through. Oh and FYI “texting” is not the be-all-end-all in communition for me. If you can't CALL me it just wont work for me. He knows that a brilliant witty and smart mind is JUST AS SEXY as what is seen on the outside, if not more! He finds that those he loves and cares for are MOST important: his spouse, family & friends. He enjoys his career but it doesn’t consume him. He's got a healthy attitude & appetite about his sex life. He's NOT AFRAID of the words: LOVE, COMMITMENT, MARRIAGE. He'll be excited by the touch of me and me of him. He gives & takes with ease & kindness. BIG ONE: He says what he means and means what he says and MOST IMPORTANT, he FOLLOWS THROUGH ON ALL OF IT!! He's sees and accepts his faults and is able to work on them. He's also knows what is GREAT about himself & offers that to others. He who stimulates me with his personality and wit, will be the best gift I could receive! He'll take the lead & be the man he is. And most important, he'll let me know he's interested and not give up till he wins my heart.
I want each of us to introduce the other to new things ALWAYS! I love sports: trail-run-hiking combos,snowboard, ski, blade, swim, sand-jog, v-ball, bike etc. I love all beach stuff, festivals, wine events, music stuff, arts, anything outdoors, but also love cuddly indoor activities too! The company makes the outing that much sweeter! I just like a balance of get-up-and-go blended with kick-back-and-chill and no agenda. I also like that you want to take me to do things you like and you are also open to me taking you to things I like! Its give & take, ya know?!
I have 2 cool kitties I adore, therefore I ask for a non-allergic man who enjoys pets and all animals! I'd love 2 dogs somewhere in my future too! I think people either "get" animals or they dont. I need you to "get" animals and KNOW they are indeed real family members.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE NFL Sundays! SERIOUSLY, I'm a BOY when it comes to football! GO CHARGERS! My home team! And yes I can talk-the-talk about plays and players & teams, not to worry! I'm also in a Fantasy Football league so yea... its bad! :) In a good way!
I LOVE to travel and dig the excitement of planning trips near and far. Some of my ventures have taken me to Vancouver, Belize, New Zealand, Australia to enjoy world music festivals and wine tasting! If you can dig my love for NFL, wine, and nutty love of worldly music, we're off to a good start! I'm also a glass artist & have a hobby-biz on the side. I was in the music biz earlier in life & my tastes evolved alot! I've grown into a lover of ethnic, world, groove, lounge, jazz music therefore listen to my Ipod, Pandora, KCRW (NPR) the most nowadays, also for news and to learn new things about the amazing world around us. Oh and I also absolutely LOVE meeting people from other countries & cultures! Bring it on! Teach me!