I know what I want and I'm clear about it. If you're insecure enough to lie about your age, weight, etc., we are not a match.
If you like what you read and want to capture my attention, sending a message to me simply saying "hi" or asking me about my day will not suffice. If you're interested, tell me why. What in my profile caught your eye, struck a chord or tripped a trigger for you? What questions that we answered similarly let you know we are simpatico? I'm a writer and seek someone else who understands and plays with words and can show me that from the start.
A recent observation: Gentlemen, If you're still living in the same house as your wife, you're NOT separated -- it simply means she won't let you touch her pink parts any longer.
Please be local if you contact me - I have zero interest in a long distance relationship. Local means within about a 30 minute drive. Visiting the area from time to time doesnt make you local, nor does being a contractor stationed here for a few weeks or months.
Now, on to the meat:
Drown out the noise, please! I swear, if I read one more cookie cutter profile, I won't be responsible for my actions... Where's the man original enough to maintain his individuality while still flying low to avoid the radar? I eschew the same old thing too, but don't want someone who finds it necessary to publicly put down others' choices in order to SEEM different. I am filled with wonder about life and want someone who approaches life that way too.
If your MAIN or ONLY interests are camping, fishing, motorcycles, etc., we probably are NOT a match.
I am a classy, professional and well-educated 50-year old sapiosexual woman who neither looks nor acts her age. Standing just under 5'9", I have auburn/red hair and deep blue eyes, and am blessed with that archetypically female shape, the hourglass. I am warm, empathetic, sincere, vivacious, intelligent and have a great sense of humor. I read voraciously (cereal boxes to professional journals), work efficiently, bake exquisitely, play Trivial Pursuit fiercely and live succulently and passionately. My trivia skills served me well this past year, and I made it on to Jeopardy! last fall. Carpe Diem!
An English major in college, I have a deep and abiding love of language and how we use it, and I am very drawn to men who know how to express themselves and their emotions clearly.
I have very eclectic, wide-ranging and ever-changing interests in music, film, literature and art. ENFP on the Myers-Briggs temperament sorter, I am passionate in everything I do. Life is a journey of growth to me, and I am a lifelong learner. I watch my diet, workout and meditate to feed my body and my soul. If you seek a strong woman to stimulate and complement you intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and physically, you might be the one I seek. . .
I seek a man of wit, intelligence, perception, acuity, warmth, love and consciousness to learn and grow with me. He must be a non-smoker.
While age is certainly relative, I am most comfortable with men near my age to a bit older, approximately 45-60, though that is not etched in stone: If you are outside that range a bit, tell me why and how your age doesn't limit you.
I seek a man who will cherish a more old-fashioned type of relationship, with a strong male at the head of the household, with myself as a strong, warm, helpful mate by his side. "She's a doormat" you may be thinking! "No way!" I reply. Being a strong, sentient woman, I will always want to have my opinions and ideas listened to. I just believe that in any partnership, one partner needs to be the Managing Partner, the one with final veto authority, to prevent impasses. I seek a man for a partnership in life, not just a night; those looking for a mere play mate, I am not for you. I seek a real life relationship, so if all you have to offer is online or telephone communications, you are not for me. I am also a single parent (two teens, 19 and 18, who will soon be leaving the nest). I've juggled career, kids, home and avocations for years - now it's time to find romance and love again.
Are you ready for me?