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wontdance

43 Chicago, IL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It seems I just can't write one of these things without long-windedness or false impressions. So instead of a thick block of complete sentences, I'll just itemize my qualities, flaws, likes and dislikes for you. If you read them and think "Hey that's me" or at least "well, that's not so bad," then perhaps we should chat. Otherwise, you can be silently thankful that I have spared your time.

Qualities
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Loyal
Affectionate
Monogamous
Communicative
Compassionate
Self-aware
Funny
Likable
Logical
Practical
Clever
Mature
Capable
Intelligent
Level headed
Easily pleased

Flaws
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Lazy (core personality I'm afraid - I fight it almost every day)
Stubborn
Rarely displays emotion (but I'll tell you how I feel)
Easily frustrated at times
Webbed toes

...ok so maybe there are more, but did you really think I'd reveal more flaws than qualities? Yeah, maybe on Date 3. But seriously... other than those 5 things I'm perfect. I think it's important for you to know that.

Likes
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"Modern" board games (e.g., Caylus, Power Grid, Puerto Rico, Age of Empires III, Cyclades, Carson City)
Camping
Biking
Skating
Cooking
Gardening
Film
Deep conversation
Bargains
Things that last
Being a father
Being in a committed relationship
Cats
Dinner parties

Dislikes
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"Classic" board games (e.g., Monopoly, Scrabble, Risk, Clue, Boggle)
Dancing
Travel
Dating
Television
Small talk
Things that are overpriced
Organized religion
Being single
Dogs
Night clubs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't think people usually notice me at all. I'm bizarrely invisible like that. I believe I'm reasonably attractive, but not in a way that smacks anyone in the face. My personality isn't like that either.

On a first date a woman is most likely to notice my eyes and my voice. I've received many compliments on those features. Secondary things would be that I am witty, imaginative, direct, and that I'm not one to conform to social conventions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read quite a bit, but I don't read books. (For me, the Internet has replaced them.) I like any genre of film as long as it is well made and/or thought provoking... and I'm very snobby about this. I tend to prefer independent films. I'm not sure why but I've stopped listening to music. I used to listen to music in the car, but now I hardly drive at all, which may have something to do with it. I don't like having music on in the background because I find it makes it difficult for me to think clearly, and I like thinking - a lot. I love food of almost all kinds. I prefer full flavor over bland. I like cooking. I prefer home cooking over restaurant food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen, water... oh the hilarity! I'm so glad I thought of this before everyone else did.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Worker placement. Role Selection. Simultaneous Action Selection. Hidden, Open, Perfect and Imperfect Information. Engine Building. Story Arc. Auctions. Trading. Drafting. Cooperation and Competition. Tile Placement. Hand Management. Set Collection. Area Control and Influence. Variable Player Powers. The Agonizing Decision.

If anyone I know in "real life" finds this there is a good chance they'll know what I'm talking about. And think I'm a huge dork for writing it here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...pretty worn out from the week - and on Saturday morning I need to wake up and make breakfast for my son - so Friday night is never "party time" for me. Every other Saturday night I have guests come to my house for board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do not "know how to have a good time." I will greatly appreciate it if someone will refer me to a trade school or similar institution where I may obtain this highly coveted skill set.

Also I've had vasectomy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are...

easy-going
intelligent
rational
mature
tolerant of other people
able to develop trust in your partner
not particularly keen on traveling or dancing (or would at least be content with me not doing those things)

and you...

have at least some compatible interests (see above)
like staying in more than going out
aren't a tobacco smoker or a heavy drinker
don't have anger management issues or violent tendencies
have good parenting qualities
like children
don't want to have any more children