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41 / F / Straight / Single
Jamaica Plain, Massachusetts
- Last Online
- Jul 5
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m).
- Body Type
- Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Medicine / Health
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
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Seriously though, I work for a public health consulting firm and have spent the better part of this past decade working in programs that provide health services to underserved populations and in grad school doing research and teaching. For better or worse my focus in life to date has been professional. Despite this, I am happy to report that I have been able to maintain a a rich personal life. I am very close to my family (I actually really like them and I enjoy spending time with them) and sometimes I can’t believe the phenomenally wonderful colorful cast of friends I have. I’m very lucky and very thankful.
In terms of how I spend my free time, like everyone it seems, I catch up with my friends at dinner parties, restaurants or bars. I do pilates and yoga regularly. I like going to museums (particularly art museums), movies or concerts and I enjoy gardening, singing, dancing and reading. I spend many of my weekends traveling to see friends and family. It seems that as time passes we’re all very spread out. I also enjoy traveling to new places because the experience usually helps to refresh me and to gain a greater appreciation for my own life. I used do quite a bit of traveling (I lived in France a couple of times) and it's something I'd like to do more of in the future.
I like my life but I think along the way I forgot to meet some nice guy, settle down (okay, maybe not settle down too much) and have a family. I recognize now how my life could be enriched if I had a partner with whom to share it.
I'm also not too shabby at making people laugh.
I enjoy all kinds of movies and I see the merit in those that aim to convey a message and make us think as well as those that exist purely to entertain. (In other words, I’m not a film snob). Over the past year I’ve had a voracious appetite for black and white films from the 30’s and 40’s and for some reason watching them is even more pleasurable when it's cold outside. I don't know why that is exactly but I'm looking forward to hibernating with Cary Grant, Katharine Hepburn and Jimmy Stewart again this winter.
Shows: Being Human (UK), obsessed with Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Game of Thrones, the Borgias
As far as music goes...I just bought a turntable so I've been listening to a lot of Glenn Miller and Benny Goodman at home. How I do love the pop and crackly sound of vinyl. I also now feel somewhat inspired to try my hand at swing dancing. What else? The Decemberists, Baroque composers, 1960's Motown. There will always be a soft place in my heart for 80's music - Depeche Mode, Erasure, Yaz and the like.
Food is great. And it's even better if it's paired with a nice glass of (red) wine. I generally eat simple healthy food but an indulgent gooey dessert of any kind is in no way beneath me. Although I don’t eat red meat or pork (I don’t care if you eat it or not), I think I enjoy most kinds of food. I particularly like Indian, Thai, Middle Eastern, Mexican and Italian (who doesn’t like Italian?)
cell phone (to call the above)
paper and something to write with
Where I'm going to find the perfect turquoise and white toile to reupholster the chair in my bedroom. (This may explain the above).
I also have a thing for crystal chandeliers. In fact, I like anything that's sparkly or shiny. In this respect I guess I sadly resemble squirrels and birds.
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- Ages 35–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating