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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English, Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
moved here from san francisco after fleeing the flip-flop wearing, bro' infestation that the city has become. finally bought a place. hoping i won't regret those two decisions

an east coast, direct, non-believing jew who is a music/film/pizza/bagel snob with a half-read New Yorker collection that keeps growing in size. you're not going to see any pictures of yoga poses, sports jerseys, or cuddling with sedated tigers in this profile.

i have a strong fondness for eccentrics and misanthropic [film, literature, music, people].

enjoy these sounds. think of it as a soundtrack to the rest of this profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
putting a phd to good use
being nostalgic for pre-disney 1980s nyc
preventing my plants from dying
films at the castro, berkeley pfa, and oddball cinema
shows at the lcm
need to update
in a sisyphean hell of brushing away dog hair
experimenting with modular analog synthesizers and sequencers
collecting and listening to vinyl records
uncovering gems at antique shops and estate sales
believer of minimalism (disregard the previous two statements)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making you a mixtape
traveling without an itinerary
fixing and assembling things
developing new gazpacho concoctions
reciting lines from woody allen films
deseeding pomegranates
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
two furry friends by my side
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Les Chants de Maldoror, People's History, Nausea, The Stranger, No Exit, The Chomsky Reader, Johnny Got His Gun, Notes from Underground, All Men Are Mortal, Woman in the Dunes, The Iron Heel, No Longer Human, and various other misanthropic tales. currently reading Celine's Journey to the End of the Night.

experimental, krautrock, no wave, post-punk, yé-yé, 20th century minimalist, musique concrète, gamelan, throat singing, noise, (old) industrial, tape-loops, field recordings, and other drone-heavy and distorted tunes, early hiphop
Coil, Current 93, Nurse with Wound, Throbbing Gristle, Les Rallizes Dénudés, Suicide, Glenn Branca, Modern Lovers, Faust, Neu!, Fugs, Flower Travellin' Band, Fursaxa, Ash Ra Tempel, Sun Ra, Comus, Fela Kuti, Marc Almond, Chris & Cosey, CAN, Wipers, Sun City Girls, Pharoah Sanders, La Monte Young, Philip Glass, Terry Riley, Souls of Mischief, Brigitte Fontaine, Fushitsusha, Keiji Haino, William Basinski, Alice Coltrane, Lee Hazlewood, Lustmord, Moondog, Swans, Half Japanese, Träd Gräs & Stenar, finnish folk, Skullflower

my page

WFMU, Radiolab, This American Life, Hearing Voices

Fanny and Alexander, Seventh Seal, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Vivre sa vie, Wings of Desire, 400 blows, 2001 : A Space Odyssey, Rashomon, Love and Death, Crimes and Misdemeanors, Mystery Train, Dead Man, The Holy Mountain, Stalker, Au Hasard Balthazar, La Planete Sauvage, Lucifer Rising, Scorpion Rising, Medea, Scenes from a Marriage, Breaking the Waves, Wicker Man

film directors:
Bergman, Jodorowsky, Allen, Ozu, Teshigahara, Kaurismäki, Pasolini, Jarmusch, Satyajit Ray, Varda, Tarkovsky, Ichikawa, Wenders, Akerman, Herzog, Kenneth Anger

i don't have cable nor watch tv. however, here are some classics: Second City, Cosmos (original), Fishing with John, Louis Theroux, Peep Show, Twin Peaks, old Dick Cavett episodes, and anything Larry David related.

fresh (non-ikea) lingonberries, lemon cucumbers, high quality matcha, neapolitan pizza, ny pizza and bagels, pomegranates, avocado, borscht, and grandma's matzo ball soup.

the dadaists, the surrealists, aleister crowley, genesis p-orridge, klaus kinski, yukio mishima, alejandro jodorowsky, father yod
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:

1) dogs
2) records
3) film

the rest are insignificant.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being born in the wrong half of the 20th century

plan (a): finding an academic gig
plan (b): moving to copenhagen or bergen
plan (c): opening up a cat cafe if (a)-(b) are a no-go

lamenting the disappearance of old cinemas
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(applies to any day of the week) some combination of the following:

making sounds
seeing a film
listening to records
at a show
rearranging furniture
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i value some semblance of privacy, but here are a few safe ones:

got kicked out of hebrew school
a prairie home companion is a guilty pleasure

pet peeves:
the phrase "work hard, play hard"
harmonicas and banjos
TED talks
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
any of the below apply to you:
- you want to fight over which sections of the sunday nyt to read
- you can see yourself someday moving to northern europe; copenhagen, bergen, helsinki, or berlin come to mind.
- you are up for collecting field recordings
- you want to debate annie hall vs manhattan
- danish modern furniture is your thing
- you use oxford commas
- you are rose mcdowall or lydia lunch
- burning man is not a major part of your life
- you are the reincarnation of simone de beauvoir
- you are a witch

joking aside, if any of the these sound fun, contact me:
- japanese gardens and other botanical gardens
- picnics in the woods
- farmers market explorations
- road trips
- getting dressed up and attending the SF opera and symphony
- nighttime bike rides through golden gate park
- dog walks
- roaming around record shops [aquarius, stranded, amoeba]
- trading mixtapes

p.s, i try to respond to actual messages instead of likes. just write more than "hi", "hello", or "sup, yo". if there is something unique only to you, you could tell me all about your PhD thesis, your ikebana abilities, or your mouse taxidermy collection