I've got an absurd sense of humor. The more absurd, the funnier it is to me. I don't take life or myself too seriously, and like being silly. I laugh at my own jokes, at myself, at life, at anything I can :) I can control it but don't like to have to. People who take themselves seriously are *really* *funny* :)

I believe that life is what you make it, and you can truly choose how you see any event that happens. I try to choose the see things in the way that makes me the happiest (because, like, why not? :). Because of this, it's really hard to offend me. You have to try really hard (or be a complete jerk). I frequently have someone ask me "you weren't offended by that " and had to think back to what was said and what it could mean to realize maybe I should have been offended :)

I think giggling should be a daily (hourly?) event.

I think sex is funny, and fun, and giggle frequently in bed. If you're insecure, this doesn't go over well, but I assure you it's a good sign :) I don't like sex that lasts for hours.... 30-45 min is usually just right, with the prerequisite cuddling before/after.

I enjoy canoeing, contradancing, ecstatic dance, belly dancing, happy nekkid pagan dancing, hiking, hot springs, camping under the stars, jumping on the trampoline, chasing llamas around in the field, working towards goodness together.

Looking for friendship, then if there's magic there, then we'll work on something more. In the polyamory spectrum, from swinging to poly-fidelity, I go from friends-with-benefits to poly fidelity - I need an emotional connection to truly enjoy the physical connections. I'm a sex-positive, body-positive, nudist pagan. Personality matters much more to me than looks. I'm more interested in back rubs than opera tickets...

I'm nurturing my silly... consider yourself warned.

When I'm not cultivating extreme silliness, I work on developing an intentional family built around loving more, non-violent communication, and living lightly on the land with other polyamorous, secure, eco-sensitive people. Yes, I'm a tree hugging dirt-worshiper, but I don't take it too seriously (and I'm not a vegetarian).

I have 14 llamas, 2 maremma dogs to guard them from the cougars and bears streaming out of the forest, one outside cat (I'm allergic but love cats), and a garden NO LONGER overrun by slugs!

Ecclectic art, doing things that are meaningful, or irresistibly goofy, depending on my mood :)

Also good at llama wrangling, dancing, shots of my own bosom :)

Depends on who they are and what perspective they're looking at me from ;)

Books: Anything by Robin Hobb, Octavia Butler, Sara Douglas, or Orson Scott Card, Robert Heinlein is new favorite (I'm in love with Lazarus Long (and all three of my partners are okay with that :) )
Movie: Joe Vs. the Volcano, Short Bus, I Am Sam, Harold and Maude
Food: Mulligatawny soup, Sweet potato fries. Ok, now you've done it...I'm hungry!

Dancing. Drums to dance to. Cuddles. Freedom to love anyone I choose. Lighthouses emerging from the fog. Giggling. Friends who get me.

Yup that's more than 6. I borrowed some from that guy over there. No...over there...

Moving to the country with a half-dozen lovers. How to grow all my own food, and create a self-supporting intentional community.

Contradancing, or beading, or reading, or out on a date, which could be anything. I like trying new things.

I love to cuddle and spoon, but I can't sleep like that :)

You are polyamorous (I'll respond if it's in your OKC profile!), drama-averse (not because you don't say what you think, but because you say it right away before it festers...), you want to live in the country with llamas and lovers and dance naked whenever it's warm enough (or even when it's not, then run inside and get cuddled). You believe that having one or more significant other in your life is a wonderful thing, but you are fully complete without them. I'm not searching for The One or Mr. Right, just secure, happy people who believe that love is unlimited :)

Oh, and you must not be dead! Dead people creep me out.