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63 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:04am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm an upper west sider and i'm here because i'd rather not be here, just like you. i've done a lot of things and been a lot of places: hong kong, istanbul, london, amsterdam, munich, a little bit of italy, the french alps (nope -- not paris, though) .... i've wandered days deep into the mountains of mexico where no one even spoke spanish, but only indian dialects (the puras and mazatecas -- what a story that is!). i'm a patented inventor, have played classical piano on WQXR and great rock 'n roll at CBGB. i've a pretty good sense of the world and where i want to be in it....
What I’m doing with my life
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taking it easy; enjoying my time; reading; listening to music, especially classical; tending my extraordinarily huge, private manhattan meditation/sculpture garden, which i've spent the last 35 years creating and perfecting (see photos); playing tennis, thinking about playing golf; watching movies; cooking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
tennis, golf ... observing and commenting on the inevitable collapse of civilization. not bad at home repairs either. i was briefly an astounding classical pianist and rock musician. now i prefer to listen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hypnotically melodic, broadcast baritone voice, conversational tone, perceptive awareness of self and others, and clearly articulated reasoning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i really haven't found my favorite books, movies, art, shows or food to be gamechangers in determining the success of my romantic relationships. well, ok, music: i prefer classical, but like anything authentic. as for the rest of cultural world, i'm open to anything -- as long as it's good. bring on the blues, rock, jazz (but only the greats), folk. open to all the fine and performing arts. operatic music has grown on me; a beautiful aria is spiritually transporting, whether sung by a soprano or a tenor. bach cantatas and beethoven symphonies ... you get the idea.

yeah, food too!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my unique private manhattan backyard garden, which i've created over 35 years of magical thinking and backbreaking labor.
- coffee
- internet
- passionate love
- great films
- italian food
- music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
trying to figure out just what's up with this complicated world we live in!

... or the ecstasy of hitting a perfect golf shot. recently i decided to get back into golf after a few years layoff, a real passion (i hit low 90s), and i'd love to find a golf honey bunny to play with. if you're not a golfer, it's not a dealbreaker, i assure you (i've hardly played in the last 10 years). but if you're golfminded, you may not realize that there's a BEAUTIFUL course right at the top of the 4 train: mosholu ... with a driving range, too. i realize this renewed golf passion may be skewing my profile a bit. so, please bear with me....

speaking of ecstasy, i'm not into casual sex; i'm into serious sex, of the extended, healing, meditational variety -- interspersed with conversation, delectably satisfying food (hors d'oeuvres followed by my special salad), great classical music and drink. perhaps you're the type of thinking woman who would like a sensitive, regular and right guy for some time-stopping pleasure. it all starts with a kiss....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably either watching oddball indie or foreign films on netflix, or out on another cupid misadventure ... or the latter followed by the former.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... then it wouldnt be private, would it?
You should message me if
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you feel an essential, ineluctably animal or intellectual chemistry.