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wordsmith11

37 / M / gay / Single

Bethel, Connecticut

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am witty, caring, and stable.

My Self-Summary

Boyish, friendly, funny, unpretentious, and, to be honest, a bit uncomfortable with talking myself up in a profile. Deeply loyal, protective, responsible, and kinda intense at times. I take life seriously while reveling in its absurdity and humor.

Vices: The printed word, the electronic word, Media with a capital M, music (so, so, so much music), golf, tennis, NYC, Cape Cod, museums, restaurants.

Anti-vices: Pretense, ignorance, Republicans, quasi-ironic hipsters.

Seeking: Cute, boyish, bright, and casual guy who’s interested in something substantial. Also, one who knows that being overly self-absorbed is rather unsexy.

What I’m doing with my life

I get the word out about stuff.

I live in CT, work in NY, and am frequently in Manhattan.

I’m really good at

Well, a few things I guess, but profile creation is clearly not one of them.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my tendency to overthink things, the fact that I'm noticing them noticing something about me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Infinite Jest. Many others but let's start there.

Movies: Those involving gangsters and/or excessive hard drug use seem to grab my attention.

Music: That which contains genuine passion.

Food: Quasi-vegetarian, unafraid of junk food.

Misc: I'm a superfan of Howard Stern and I'm passionate about animal-related causes.

The six things I could never do without

Words, sounds, beauty...and the obligatory food, shelter, oxygen.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I spend way too much time thinking.

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing the typical Friday night thing. In general I like restaurants, like music, museums, reading, road trips, etc.

You should message me if

You find any of this remotely intriguing. And you should know I am a LOT less stilted in person then I seem here. What's up with that?