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25 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
My self-summary
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I love exploring the city, pretending to be beer savvy, and being in the company of good friends/grounded people.
I'm from CA originally and have been here for about a year - still in the adventuring mindset so if you'd like a partner in crime, feel free to message.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a phd student: it's a questionable life choice, but one I'm excited about. also, I get paid to think the big thoughts so that's kind of fun..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing, spelling, listening, procrastinating, stupidly serious debates, bullshitting job interviews, suspending judgment, finding free things to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sparkling wit and winning personality...
My eyes - apparently they can't decide which color to be
And (unfortunately) I hear that I'm friendly...I'm working on the whole mean teacher thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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David Sedaris, Carson McCullers, Toni Morrison. Histories about race, class, and gender (my research deals with politics/culture in the 1960s-70s so bonus points if ya wanna geek out about that).

I'm news-addicted and into politics.

I'm into a lot of different music.. hip hop, blues, folk etc. Love Van Morrison, Schoolboy q, sylvan esso, mavis staples, the list goes on...
I like it. when it comes to food, I'm into and up for, anything. I especially love thai and indian food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1. contact lenses
2. avocado
3. beer
4. exercise
5. feminism
6. books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The prison industrial complex, the war on drugs, whether or not I drank enough water today, how to be kind and assertive at the same time, the astounding assumptions people make about people they only know through a short dating profile....
The many different alt bros in the world- leftist bros, Vonnegut bros, feminist bros, manbun bros, brogrammers, design bros, eco bros, Bernie bros, etc (nothing wrong with em, bruh;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
staging an impromptu dance party, finding a good dive bar, drinking in the park, going to a show/play/talk
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy buying rounds of alcohol for friends/acquaintances ... it makes me feel important.
You should message me if
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you wanna do something radical.
Or, you wanna meet for drinks.
I know mary matalin and james carville make it work, but if you're not progressively inclined I'm not interested.
Also, not really down to hang out if you don't live in the Chicagoland area...