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25 • Grand Rapids, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Dec 20, 2014
- Asian, White, Other
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Malay (Okay)
I love fun and humour, and tend to try and make the people I'm with smile, laugh, or just feel better about themselves. I'm not the funniest person you'll ever meet, but I like to think my dry wit has me above average. I struggle with depression and existential despair, and sometimes humour helps me keep going.
Since social justice and liberalism have been so tightly welded in American society's psyche, I am a flaming liberal. And I also identify as a third-wave feminist, though recent conversation about the legitimacy of male feminism has me thinking deeply about this label. Suffice to say I think justice will only happen when the oppression of women and minorities ends. I care about people, ok?
I love to read (and have over a thousand books) and write (fiction mostly) and want to become a published author someday.
My dog is my best friend. Even though she's a jerk to me all the time.
I love anything to do with gender studies. Recently I've also gotten into philosophy.
I know this turns a lot of people off me, which is sad, but I'm transgendered (currently identifying as androgynous). And I completely understand why it would be difficult to date me because of that, so I try not to judge.
Movies—Anastasia, a bunch of Disney (Beauty and the Beast is my fav, followed by Hercules and Mulan), The Dark Knight Trilogy, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, , a bunch of Pixar, How to Train Your Dragon, Noting Hill, You've Got Mail, Love Actually, Shawshank Redemption, Miyazaki, The Land Before Time, Shakespeare in Love, the original Star Wars.
T.V. Shows—South Park, Arrested Development, Community, Modern Family, Scrubs, ,Game of Thrones,Heroes (season 1), Battlestar Galactica, Full Metal Alchemist (1 and 2), Vision of Escaflowne, Rurouni Kenshin, Malcolm in the Middle , Kim Possible, The Simpsons.
Music—Indigo Girls, Lady Gaga, Emeli Sandé, Ellie Goulding, Pink, U2, Jimmy Eat World, Dvorak, Tchaikovsky, Joe Hishashi, Ingrid Michaelson, Johnny Cash, Taylor Swift, Les Miserables soundtrack, Breathe Owl Breathe, David Bazan, the Beatles.
Food—Most anything. Southern Indian is my favourite.
A sense of humour
Whether or not the lyrics of a pop song I like are deep.
The world is ending and you'd like to watch the sky bleed with someone.
The space monkeys are attacking and you happen to know that I'm the only hope for humanity. In which case I will have to kill you. But thanks for the heads-up anyhow.
Also, if you're a black haired, blue eyed girl with an Irish accent, you have me—hook, line, and sinker.
Also, if you're unashamedly bigoted, please move on.
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