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31 Broad Brook, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:10am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hello, I'm Adam, and I'm looking for the girl who reads my profile and says "this might be the one!"

I'm one of a kind, and if you are one of the many who don't find abnormality suitable, I wish you the best of luck in finding the person who makes you happy. No hard feelings, I want to be the perfect guy for my perfect girl!

As far as my personality goes, I should first mention that I have admittedly spent a good portion of my life being negative and pessimistic. While I'm not proud of this, I am proud of the fact that as of the last year or two I've developed a new outlook on life and think of myself as a pretty positive person. I'm happy with my life and what I have, and I'm looking for someone to enjoy it with.

I still have flaws, of course, and I have no problem admitting to them here and now. If it doesn't fly now, it's not going to fly in a relationship.

Being a social butterfly has never been my strongest suit, I was mostly non-verbal at school between the ages of 8 and 10, and was never very good at striking up friendships. I couldn't make eye contact with anyone when I was having a conversation with them. I've definitely come leaps and bounds in adulthood but I am still uncomfortable in social settings, especially with people I don't know well. I'm also pretty shy around women especially if I'm attracted to them.

Conversely, once I get to know someone, if I'm given a chance, they will find me to be particularly outspoken. I do talk a lot and write a lot, so if you get bored at the thought of a complete sentence or a polysyllabic word, you're most likely not even going to finish reading this profile :)

I do have a good sense of humor, if a bit on the corny side and I do like to tease people a bit so if you're easily irritated I might not be the guy for you.

I do keep fairly busy, I am employed full-time as an electronic test and repair technician, and am in the process of designing and building several electronic musical devices in hopes of starting my own company. We'll see how that goes, the day job is my only cash cow at the moment until we get past the
prototyping stage and go into production.

I'm also a musician, one with the hope that some day I might play in a gigging band again. I've been playing since I was 7 when I started playing piano, guitar at 8, drums at 12, singing at 15, and bass guitar in my early 20's. I was in grunge and metal bands all through my teens and into my 20's playing drums. About 10 years ago I started writing a concept album and it is still very slowly coming together. I'm looking for someone who will support my passion for music and either partake or at least be OK with me spending a reasonable amount of time on my music.

Up until about 5 years ago I did a lot of acting, mostly musicals at a community theater. I've been in over 20 of them, and really would like to go back to it some day.

I LOVE animals, I have a toucan named Kelvin and a cat named Macey. Please love, like, or at least be able to tolerate a mischievous cat and a large bird!

In a relationship, I am loving, understanding, supportive, and LOYAL. I will not cheat. I also will handle being cheated on in one way just as I have done in the past: end the relationship. I would expect the same in return, so if you're thinking that there will be second or third chances, you should
move on.

I am also looking to find someone that has the self-confidence that I lack in "making moves". I don't hit on people, out of respect for the fact that an attractive woman has 50 other drooling men staring her down, and, I'll admit it: I fear rejection. Rejection sucks, I can't stand that horrible feeling in my stomach when I've been wrongfully presumptuous. So all first-kissing and asking is on you ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently employed as a test and repair technician at an orbital welding system manufacturer.

Slowly developing an embedded microprocessor platform with the hopes of someday designing and marketing electronic musical equipment.

Just getting my personal recording studio on its feet, very close to releasing my first demo recording of some music I've been writing over the last several years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Electronics - Designing, building, fixing, taking apart, breaking, fixing again, modifying, destroying.

Music- Drums, guitar, bass, vocals, pissing off my neighbors. "Polishing a turd" - taking a shitty sounding recording and making it sound halfway decent.

Acting - Singing way too loud, staying in character way too long after leaving the stage, playing the part way too over the top, getting way too emotional when the production is over.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I never really bothered to ask...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading novels as a pastime hasn't been a part of my life in quite a while, but (quite possibly in a past life) I did enjoy Grapes of Wrath, Hearts and Atlantis, The Green Mile, Animal Farm, A Child Called "It", Five People You Meet In Heaven

As far as movies, I like science fiction and horror for the most part, comedies are cool too. I also like anything twisted and fucked up like Naked Lunch, Brazil, 12 Monkeys, etc.

Progressive rock and progressive metal are my favorites. I like Dream Theater, Rush, Pink Floyd, Mudvayne, Blind Melon, Soundgarden, Blue Man Group, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sublime, System of a Down, Tool, A Perfect Circle, The Police, Spock's Beard, Live, Niacin, King Crimson

I like a lot of foods, but at the top of my list would have to be beef stroganoff, crab legs, strawberry crepes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My parents

My job, bosses, and coworkers

My friends

My pet toucan and cat

My computer

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes things tick. People, animals, machines, the world around us, the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually enjoying a night in, decompressing after a long week at work. I like my job but I still live in the spirit of TGIF!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's too private to admit.
You should message me if
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We have common interests!

Ideally I guess a technology geek, engineer, programmer, or the like would be kind of cool, we could design and build cool stuff together :)

Brownie points if you jam, or at least appreciate the life of a musician!

Oh, and if you're into theater! Showfolk are tops on my list of "Awesome" ;)