I'm one of a kind, and if you are one of the many who don't find abnormality suitable, I wish you the best of luck in finding the person who makes you happy. No hard feelings, I want to be the perfect guy for my perfect girl!
As far as my personality goes, I should first mention that I have admittedly spent a good portion of my life being negative and pessimistic. While I'm not proud of this, I am proud of the fact that as of the last year or two I've developed a new outlook on life and think of myself as a pretty positive person. I'm happy with my life and what I have, and I'm looking for someone to enjoy it with.
I still have flaws, of course, and I have no problem admitting to them here and now. If it doesn't fly now, it's not going to fly in a relationship.
Being a social butterfly has never been my strongest suit, I was mostly non-verbal at school between the ages of 8 and 10, and was never very good at striking up friendships. I couldn't make eye contact with anyone when I was having a conversation with them. I've definitely come leaps and bounds in adulthood but I am still uncomfortable in social settings, especially with people I don't know well. I'm also pretty shy around women especially if I'm attracted to them.
Conversely, once I get to know someone, if I'm given a chance, they will find me to be particularly outspoken. I do talk a lot and write a lot, so if you get bored at the thought of a complete sentence or a polysyllabic word, you're most likely not even going to finish reading this profile :)
I do have a good sense of humor, if a bit on the corny side and I do like to tease people a bit so if you're easily irritated I might not be the guy for you.
I do keep fairly busy, I am employed full-time as an electronic test and repair technician, and am in the process of designing and building several electronic musical devices in hopes of starting my own company. We'll see how that goes, the day job is my only cash cow at the moment until we get past the
prototyping stage and go into production.
I'm also a musician, one with the hope that some day I might play in a gigging band again. I've been playing since I was 7 when I started playing piano, guitar at 8, drums at 12, singing at 15, and bass guitar in my early 20's. I was in grunge and metal bands all through my teens and into my 20's playing drums. About 10 years ago I started writing a concept album and it is still very slowly coming together. I'm looking for someone who will support my passion for music and either partake or at least be OK with me spending a reasonable amount of time on my music.
Up until about 5 years ago I did a lot of acting, mostly musicals at a community theater. I've been in over 20 of them, and really would like to go back to it some day.
I LOVE animals, I have a toucan named Kelvin and a cat named Macey. Please love, like, or at least be able to tolerate a mischievous cat and a large bird!
In a relationship, I am loving, understanding, supportive, and LOYAL. I will not cheat. I also will handle being cheated on in one way just as I have done in the past: end the relationship. I would expect the same in return, so if you're thinking that there will be second or third chances, you should
I am also looking to find someone that has the self-confidence that I lack in "making moves". I don't hit on people, out of respect for the fact that an attractive woman has 50 other drooling men staring her down, and, I'll admit it: I fear rejection. Rejection sucks, I can't stand that horrible feeling in my stomach when I've been wrongfully presumptuous. So all first-kissing and asking is on you ;)