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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note: I just noticed the personality section says I may be, "more wealthy". I had a good chuckle at that. Thou I feel wealthy in many aspects, I am not the gold feathered goose you may be looking for. Sorry. Good hunting and best wishes.

So, on to the show.

Me: Traveled, deep-ish, aware, emotionally intelligent (sometimes annoyingly so), mostly gently quick witted. I like to have fun. I like music, driving, talking, eating, dancing and playing. I love being in the presence of harmony. Sometimes to admire, sometimes to touch it (Yeah, I know. It ripples like still water disturbed.), and other times to wonder where it isn't. I tend to be friend and family oriented. I meditate frequently. Exercise (swimming is my preference, though almost any will do). Surf when I get the chance. H/W proportionate at 6ft 178lbs. Love all the animals. Same with kidlings. Operate on multiple frequencies. Food and cooking are pleasures for me. Raised on the Texas frontier by Spanish Texicans and European White Folk so appreciate all cultures.

My personality... if I were a martini, I would be dryish with a sharp compassionate olive.

I'd also add.... I am someone who knows what being a good friend, person, and partner is all about. If I tell someone I love them, I mean it, and I know what it means. Spiritually, physically, and emotionally. I am in no rush to drop my chones with a stranger and am attracted to those who also desire a higher level of intimacy. I am not a dating machine nor do I wish to go out with one. Not looking for the next best girl, however I am looking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Grape smashing at the grocery store then streaking down Ponto Beach in the moon light.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ear hair. Finding, then removing. It's a gift really.

Also... Context, perspective, and nuance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some say my strong presence. Some ask if I've ever heard I look like Spacey. For the millionth time, yes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Own too many books. Brilliant script writing, then acting, then cinematography: movies / tv - yes and appreciate them in that order of their relative value. (I sometimes write in English and think/write in Spanish syntax. Dual culture is deeply imbedded in me.) Dig on the music and art as well.

I was rasided on home cooking, and appreciate the effort and the art of it. I also travled to many countries in my late teens and was exposed to some of the best part of life. Great food. Though I am no chef, I love to cook it and love to eat. Being in San Diego has helped me expand my tastes beyond Texas and Asia / Middle East to include many differenty coastal Mexican foods. There are so many to learn about. I love the Baja experience and would like someone to share it with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water - all of it, plus everything you can do in it and with it.

Snowboarding - Love it, but coming off the rush of adrenaline and endorphans is a bummer. Good thing the high lasts for days.

Great friendships

Affection in a relationship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This question does not compute.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Please. Orange is not the new pink.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Short version: Because you are freaking awesome. Subjective, I know, but you gotta like yourself for this thing to work. A bit of self awareness also helps.

Also, I would hope you enjoy kids as I have one.