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30 Rockaway Park, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:05am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Special Diet
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm friendly, a good listener, open-minded, a wholehearted advocate of lively debate, and a social work supervisor at a nonprofit.

Gotta get that PSLF, amiright?
What I’m doing with my life
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Subletting a bungalow by the beach for the winter.

Working all week in the city, and spending a lot of time on the A train listening to podcasts and spotify.

I overanalyze most things. I think this comes from a genuine desire to understand, and I usually only (over)analyze things that I care about, at least a little bit.

I'm still trying to figure out how to talk to people that I don't agree with, but I think it's less because I'm arrogant and more because I'm passionate.

You be the judge!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
People-watching, writing various lists, starting things and not finishing them, picking up hobbies for a week or so at a time and dumping them mercilessly, getting sucked into Netflix instant watch, and intellectual masturbation with or without a mild climax.

I make food a lot, and enjoy it way more when I have someone to share the final product with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty tall (5'10") and I have horrific posture
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't know if I have any favorite books. Books I've read a few times include Pride and Prejudice, The Great Gatsby, Their Eyes Were Watching God, and Bossypants.

My fav TV shows are 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, Master of None, Key and Peele, and Inside Amy Schumer. I don't own a TV, and I'm SUPER happy about that.

I like old two tone ska, and some other things I constantly listen to are M.I.A., Of Montreal, Belle & Sebastian, The Strokes, Cut Copy, Magnetic Fields, Cake, Desmond Dekker, and Girl Talk. My tolerance of alternative rock ran out around the same time I stopped wearing JNCO jeans and Roxy hoodies during my freshman year of college.

I will eat anything delicious that doesn't involve meat. I do love fish and sushi though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Loud alarm clock
2) Flats
3) Stirring Conversation
4) Nighttime
5) The smell of dirt/growth/outdoors
6) Vacations
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things on my to-do list, and/or how to make my life better.

What's good about being 30.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about, or home and exhausted.... either way I'm always super relieved to escape the week and know that I can sleep in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have used the filter button on okcupid to filter by astrological signs. More than once.
You should message me if
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You're intrigued and you have more to say than "I think you're cute."

You don't take yourself too seriously.

You want to tell me about your CSA, your social work job, or your favorite podcast.