So ummmm, this is what I'ma need for you ladies to do if you want to tell a grown azz man that he is attractive. Let's agree to move away from the "you are cute," statement. Cute is the way one describes a little boy who has just drawn you a crayon picture of a daffodil.
If you are going to use cute, break it up into 2 syllables, and add some type of neck movement like, "you are cuh-yute!" Let's make that happen in twenty fourteen.
I find myself leaning more twoard online dating because online you can filter through people faster which is why men prefer more pics (we're visual) AND profile information. We can't possibly contact every woman we think has an attractive face picture...this is the DC area, there are literally TONS of pretty face women here. Pics that showcase style, full length pics, and enough information to draw us in...i'm telling you, you would then be giving yourself a leg up in this thing.
I do have a lot of info up and I realize that could cause analysis-paralysis but seriously...it's not complicated.
Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. Anything in life is worth putting some effort into, especially relationships. I can never understand how folks can work harder at their job than relationships.
I see I must've erased my explanation of no face pic at some point in my many modifications of this. I apologize for not posting a face pic. I have absolutely no problem sending a face pic if interested, but I'm sure with all the info I've posted, a lack of a face pic is not prohibitive as far as correspondences are concerned, because I don't think anyone in their right mind would let that stop them from meeting a potential mate especially with a pic being so easy to obtain. Plus I am now Skype friendly.
As I've explained previously, I have a politically sensitive position, and this site asks a lot of informative questions which I have not always answered politically correct. Hence the reason why there is no face pic. If circumstances change I will put a pic up, and reduce all the mess I got up here in lieu of a face pic.
My driver's license doesn't even have my face in it. Just me holding up some fingers in the 'peace' sign. In fact if a police officer is bold enough to pull me over, it is either because they are a female, OR gay. Dude will be like,
Polices: Do you know why I pulled you over?
Me: Yes, because you are gay.
Polices:Here is my number, make sure you call.
I have to take the number just to avoid him gettin all pizzed and writing a ticket. I throw it away though at the next chance I get.
Ok, as promised, this is my first attempt at this kinda thing. I have a bunch of ideas I want to do with it, so I will be changing it up. Please don't email me panty pictures, or hotel room keys...:-p
At some point I will put the rules up for how a meet will go down, if we can make something like that happen. But suffice it to say, if all goes well you should have me singin some Jodeci talkin' about,
"'Hey-aye-aye (What can I say?! What can I do?!)aye aye aye ayyyy.
Hey-aye-aye (To show how muuuch! I think about freakin you!)aye-aye-aye"
I don't do too well with narcissists, but at the same time I think I can tell when someone is trying to "sell" themselves when it comes to online profiles. So it is a good thing to list your positives. Hopefully, folks will have the same take with my profile, because other than here you won't really hear me talk about myself.