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Sometimes irreverent, often silly lady seeks thoughtful,
passionate, fun loving people for friendship and more. (NSPP)
I don't do the whole dating thing. I cultivate friendships.
Friendships can evolve into romantic connections, but it should
happen organically when you know each other well enough to
genuinely care about one another.
I only seek people who are willing and interested in establishing
emotionally and intellectually intimate connections.
Bonus points if you can discuss the finer points of writing
You need to be interested in sharing activities like: walks,
hiking, social partner dancing, theater, and good food.
Despite a life full of complicated moving parts, I enjoy the simple
pleasures and intimacies. Like cooking a meal together and the joy
of knowing each other’s movement so well you slide around each
other without missing a beat. Or enjoying the quiet moments while
one person reads a book while the other plays music, draws, or
works on a laptop. Going out dancing and laughing as you trip over
each other’s feet as you try to learn a new dance style. Building
history together and being able to snuggle up and watch a tv show
together, sharing inside jokes about your favorite episodes.
I’m a writer. I spend large blocks of time with the characters in
my head and I’m always thinking about new stories to put them
I’m non monogamous, but I don’t do casual hook-ups. I believe sex
should be celebrated not shamed; and to celebrate it, trust and
affection needs to develop. It takes more than 5 dates for me to
get there. Build a friendship with me first.
I’m a very direct person, which can be frustrating in the city that
seems to thrive on passive aggressive forms of communication. I
don’t believe in playing games and I ask questions when I want
I move through the world everyday treating people with kindness,
respect, and compassion. You should do the same.
I am passionate, thoughtful, fiercely loyal, and protective of the
people I care about.
I'm a vibrant mix of tomboy, irrepressible romantic, dreamy
philosopher, badass independent spirit, & shy gentle
Unless you want me to jump out of an airplane or swim with sharks.
I'm allowed two irrational fears and those are it.
A bottle of champagne chilling in my fridge is paramount to a good
life. You never know when you need to celebrate the little
victories or cheer up a friend in need.
I’d love to expand my community of people in my life to share in
adventures and build loving relationships, be it friendship or
What I’m doing with my life
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Working the day job until I can write my novels fulltime.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking up new skills. I'm rather fond of pushing myself to try new
things. How else do you discover something you may love , unless
you search outside your comfort zone.
Cooking. I love to cook for other people. There is something
magical that happens when you share in a meal with another person.
There is a special kind of intimacy in preparing a meal together
and eating it together. It's one of my favorite things to do with
I'm good at being insatiably curious about everything. It usually
means I'm always studying up on someting new. Which comes in handy
in my writing. There is a vast world in which to explore and people
to explore it with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I have good boundaries.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Too many to name. I'm an avid reader.
Movies: chocolate, princess bride, all of the Tyler Perry movies,
and lets not forget Shakespeare in Love.
Witty comedy. I'm not a fan of the raunchy comedy genre.
Action flicks. As long as it has a good car chase, multiple fight
scenes, and eye candy. Who needs plot in an action flick.
Music: I'm pretty eclectic. I like a bit of everything expect rap
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, you aren't paying
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Figuring out "Life, the universe, and everything." I am very
introspective and introverted
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing. Once I make my daily word count I'm up for blowing off
steam. Usually involving a bottle of champagne and spending time
with my favorite people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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