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37 F Seattle, WA

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
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Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
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Has a kid

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My self-summary
Here's the deal. At this point in my life I don't have the time or energy to be anything other than direct. I enjoy people who understand the importance of their words and actions matching. I enjoy people who aren't afraid to be emotionally available and to try new things.

I am honest, quirky, funny, and expressive.

I'm non monogamous.

I also have a firm no drama policy for my life. As such I have no desire for the drama that comes with secret affairs, so save yourself a wasted effort and don't ask.

I have high standards on what I consider acceptable behavior. While I'm open and prefer living outside the box, I have a full life I enjoy and don't have time for people who fail to show up and be present.

I don't drink much, but a bottle of champagne chilling in my fridge is paramount to a good life. You never know when you need to celebrate the little victories or cheer up a friend in need.

I often have an irreverent sense of humor, but I don't like crass.

In grew up in the south and as such, I am a fan of practicing the art of flirting. Flirting is meant to make the other person feel good. It is not about sexual aggressiveness. Sending me a picture of your bits is not a flirtation and will get you nothing but scolded. Engage me in witty banter and you may just get yourself a date.

Sexuality should be celebrated not shamed, but if it's all you have to talk about then you won't hold my attention.

I value honesty and consideration.

I require integrity, transparency, and thoughtfulness. Kindness and compassion are must haves too.

I'm not a damsel in distress and I don't need to be rescued, but I do like a man who knows how to treat a woman with respect and a little bit of old school chivalry. Pull out my chair, open a door, offer me your arm when walking down a street, these are things I will greet with a smile and appreciate.

I'm pretty focused on my writing these days, but I do love a nice flirtation. I'm mainly interested in finding activity partners, but if the chemistry is right I'm open to seeing where it goes.

Some of the activities I'm looking for a partner are: dancing ( particularly swing & salsa), hiking, acro-yoga and tennis (I just recently learned how to play and really like it.) I also love trying new things, so if you do something fun and exciting I've never tried before I'd love to hear about it. Maybe you can show me something new that becomes my new adventure.

I have a broad intellect and enjoy being able to discuss a variety of topics. You get brownie points if you can make me laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Juggling working full time, full time school, and rewriting my novel to get it ready to send off to publishers. I'm also doing NaNoWriMo and writing a second novel.
I’m really good at
Picking up new skills. I'm rather fond of pushing myself to try new things. How else do you discover something you may love , unless you search outside your comfort zone.

Cooking. I love to cook for other people. There is something magical that happens when you share in a meal with another person. There is a special kind of intimacy in preparing a meal together and eating it together. It's one of my favorite things to do with close friends.

I'm good at being insatiably curious about everything. It usually means I'm always studying up on someting new. Which comes in handy in my writing. There is a vast world in which to explore and people to explore it with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Too many to name. I'm an avid reader.

Movies: chocolate, princess bride, all of the Tyler Perry movies, and lets not forget Shakespeare in Love.
French films
Witty comedy. I'm not a fan of the raunchy comedy genre.
Action flicks. As long as it has a good car chase, multiple fight scenes, and eye candy. Who needs plot in an action flick.

Music: I'm pretty eclectic. I like a bit of everything expect rap music.
The six things I could never do without
new experiences
my journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Figuring out "Life, the universe, and everything." I am very introspective and introverted
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing. Once I make my daily word count I'm up for blowing off steam. Usually involving a bottle of champagne and spending time with my favorite people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You want private you have to ask....
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to get to know me.