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wrighter_81

27 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Ford City, Pennsylvania

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 0" (1.52m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am kind, quiet, and patient.

My Self-Summary

I am 27 years old and new to dating again and just want to take things slow. My schooling and my daughter come first in my life and sometimes that causes problems but I have decided that I am no longer going to let other people run my life. I have to make decisions on my own that will benefit my daughter and my own future because I have learned the hard way that I can't depend on someone else to take care of me. I have to do it myself if I want it done right.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently a student finishing my degree in special education, elementary education and early childhood education. I am wanting to become a teacher in the future and should be done with school within the next 2 years.

I’m really good at

I am good with kids and I love books and reading. I like to sing but it sometimes takes me awhile to open up to people to even sing around them.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am quiet and like to know my surroundings before I leap into situations. Some people and even relatives think I am stuck up because I don't talk alot but I am not. I like to have fun and haven't found many things that I don't like to do. I also get teased alot about being short.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love most children's books, I also read mary higgins clark, nicholas sparks and nora roberts alot. I like the movies on lifetime and watch comedy and dramas. Country music is what I like to hear but I am known to like other things as well as long as it is not rap or cursing. I listen to music every chance I get and sometimes just sit in my vehicle at school just to have something to listen to during breaks. My favorite food is pizza but I like broccoli cheese soup and chicken sandwiches too.

The six things I could never do without

I could never do without my daughter, my family, my education, and my books. Don't need much else other than maybe some more friends. I hate being alone more than anything in the world.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think alot about my future and what it will bring and if I will ever be happy enough to get what I want out of life without having to sacrifice my hopes and dreams for a guy to love me. I want the old fashioned life. I just want to be able to sit and watch my daughter grow up with someone that loves us more than anything in the world. I have had so much grief in the last 10 months and am just happy to be alive and to see the finish line with school and to have my daughter with me.

On a typical Friday night I am

I am occupying my time so that I don't think about how much I miss my daughter.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have trust issues. I have been treated very horribly in the past 3 years and I just feel sometimes that I don't deserve to be happy and need someone to prove that otherwise. I end up giving all of myself and getting little in return. Hoping to find something a little more balanced and even. I have been controlled by men in the past and I don't want a relationship like that again. I just want someone to love my daughter and I. Its not much to ask but for some reason, I haven't been able to find someone to love us.

You should message me if

If I am sounding interesting to you and have things in common, send me a message.