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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-46
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Dec 22, 2013
Seeing Someone
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Latin
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Really quite charming when you get to know me. not currently looking to date, as I'm in a significant romantic, if long-distance, relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've had some good recent lessons in humility.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
avoiding questions like this.


Obscure literary trivia.

Knowing what's going to happen in the next half hour in the TV show or the movie, but not saying anything about it.

Listening, until I get tired of it. But then I'm pretty good at talking, until I figure you're tired of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've got an extensive vocabulary and kind eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read like a demon and watch more movies and shows that are good for me, so my tastes are broad. I love cooking--particularly grilling, in all temperatures--and love sharing food. I listen to a lot of jazz and my favorite music of all time is probably the popular songs of Tin Pan Alley--Gershwin, Porter, Weill, they all slay me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a shoulder bag
my books on their shelves
some green, even if it's just a window box
some romance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever I'm currently researching or writing about, which currently is a lot of the history and culture of the late Victorian/early Edwardian period and how the facts relate to modern life and movements like Steampunk. How to explain to people what "Steampunk" is. Wishing that it had a name other than "Steampunk" so it wouldn't sound so...punk. (And Steam.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, entertaining at home, or working and trying to convince myself that this is what I wanted to do anyway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Most of the good parts in my life I owe to my friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
not if you're bored. I'm not your monkey.
not if you're between things. I'm not your divider.
if you are smart, fun, sexy, capable and like to laugh.