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writer79

30 / M / straight / Single

Worcester, Massachusetts

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Ethnicity
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other, Undeclared
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Jacked
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
More than $1,000,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Okay), Basque, Bengali, Chinese, Swedish

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I am fun.., passionate, and am.

My Self-Summary

Interests include Nature, hiking, getting lost in the trees, starwatching, organic food, photography, truth, the beauty in everything because I've seen the ugliness too, massage (give and receive), dance and love women who do, music, psychology, mysticism, myths, dreams, intelligent conversation, embracing the notion that we're already perfect, raging it out (preferably on a trail or in the sack), ferrets, screenwriting, exercise, cooking, not being on time, uncomplicated complexity, freedom,

I am a man who has accomplished a lot. I have survived a lot. I can be super intellectual and enjoy acting like a goof too. I am not above laughing at everything including myself.

Sometimes I write about life, sometimes I write fiction, the paper tells many tales. I love nature and staying in shape. I am into healthy living where I can be. I am rarely bored. I think that the universe is full of joy if you know how to pay attention to it. Interest begets interest.

I am communicative but need time to myself (controlling and ownership tendencies are not welcome). I like expanding my mind without drugs, studying life, intelligent conversations, depth. I am fairly giving and kind by nature and sift through people until I find those with giving and honest qualities too.

What I’m doing with my life

Various oddities
Pursuing my passions.
I've acted in a comedy movie.
myspace.com/mightybigdreams
I write science fiction about ferrets in space.

In the summer I held a job as a frog and squirrel rescue diver. It was a good poolside job, I made a lot of friends. Thankfully I didn't have to do any CPR.

I’m really good at

Facing life head on. Health advice that would blow your mind. Being amazing in all sorts of ways.

Predicting the future. Are you ready? Are you sure? I don't want to ruin the surprise for you. Here goes: In the future both 80s style mullets and disco will make a comeback on the same dance floor. The "disco mullet" will be criticized by some but seen as a welcome step of progress by many. After the lines of incomprehensible rappers who hate der ho's anyhow, "It was cool in the 90s when Blink 182 sang this way now we're just sad" bands, emo mannequins without talent, and Miley Cyrus fade away the "disco mullet" will show 'em dancing fools just what it's all about. I can tell you one thing, my bell bottoms and hair gel are already saved away and ready to go... because this is the future, embrace it.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I am amazing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like the odd and the unusual, but also the traditional; anything that strikes timeless notes.

books? where to start!

MST3K, Serenity, lots of sci fi and more. Badly dubbed kung fu can be fun as well. Not into TV ... I have shows here and there I like.

Music is the language of the soul. Blues, rock, folk, are a few kinds that give me a kick.

vegetarian (almost), I do a lot of organic cooking and am good with spices.

The six things I could never do without

This is a stupid question.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I am intelligent so breach an intelligent topic with me and you're likely to find out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I think okcupid is like a joke that we're all participating in. I had my reasons, and I forgot them somewhere. Don't ask me what they are. Elephants don't forget and I'm not an elephant. I'm just a man. That's all I am. A man who is jacked (the sidebar agrees).

Some guy younger than me once said to me, "What up "son"?!", I stared at him and walked out of the room. Maybe I should make it up to him on father's day.

I would rather pick a bug up and put it outside than step on it.

I am very sexual, sensual, and kinky, and sexually aware of myself/needs/and what I can do. I need that in a woman too. Sometimes a hug is better than sex though.

Getting more serious here... I have dealt with a lot of pain and difficulties. My cynical side dukes it out with the part of me that believes that life can be a fun place.

that said... I've put more time into healing myself, balance, self work than relationships. I'm not a typical night out, usually looking to stimulate someone's intellect before anything else.

You should message me if

Inner beauty? Is it there?

Are you fun? Are you driven? Healthy feminine side to complement my masculine side?

Open minded? Like deep discussions? Have a good sex drive?

You think that being smart is cool and exciting, and that it turns you on so much you can't control yourself.

Physically I like women who care about their well beings. Girl with a smoking body who eats mcdonalds < girl with the average body who respects herself. Health begins within. If you said, "This guy must only want positive people in his life", you'd be right, and this includes those who have the inclination to care about such matters in their own ways (thus we learn from each other). The people I want in my life are those who approach it with the same attitude and love.

You're thinking "This guy is amazing". If we engage in conversation I probably think you are too. I bring depth and substance to the people I let into my life, and like when people bring theirs too. I am not looking for any type of relationship, whatever the encounter is there needs to be honesty and trust. Do we have something to add to/learn from each other?