writerboy675
40 Valley Village, CA
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My self-summary
I'd like to start by doing a little public service here on OKC. I want to alert all the ladies here to a very important and critical fact: Any man who is more attractive than me is gay. So you probably shouldn't even bother, just saying. Not my fault. I didn't set up the world that way. It's just the way it is. It's the humanitarian in me that hates to see women who are looking for a genuine relationship waste their time. *wink wink*nudge nudge* ha ha ha!

Seriously though, here is some fun, random stuff about me in general:

Current practitioner of chivalry. I’m not pretentious; I don’t need a Ferrari to get me from A to B when a Chevy works just as well(but, ask me again if I ever win the lottery). I like comedians. I was born in Rhode Island. I watch Family Guy, Game of Thrones, The Newsroom, and if you like Venture Brothers then you have my sense of humor "dialed in." I’m a pretty good dancer except when it comes to ballroom, but I’d like to learn. I can cook most Italian meals. I like holding my to-be-determined girlfriend's hand - on a walk or at a cocktail party. I hate the dating game. I never make my bed unless company is coming over. I love my job but have even loftier goals. I was shy but am not now. I read the newspaper almost every day. I listen to all kinds of music. I like kids…not in the weird uncle way, but I'm just saying to any single moms out there, "I ain't skerd." 2014 was the year I broke down and got a car after only riding a motorcycle for 6 years! I used to teach a karate class for kids. I'd like to have kids, someday, but if I meet a good woman who has kids and doesn't want anymore I'd be open to that as well. I have volunteered as an assistant football coach for North Hollywood High School. I am politically conscious. I go to the movies a lot. As I mentioned above, I am chivalrous: opening doors, walking on the street side of the sidewalk, etc. I hate people who coast in the passing lane while driving. I love my mom's Italian meatballs, a good workout, watching the rain fall from a covered deck, tropical beaches and road trips.

Ms. Right is, in no particular order: mature and intelligent. Goofy is fun but please don’t make a career out of it. She wants to road trip to Santa Barbara for a long weekend. Witty, she can hold a conversation & whip out a zinger when the timing is right. She has a great sense of humor and is not easily offended. She has political opinions and even if hers are different from mine, she’s okay about sharing them and listening to mine. She wants to once in a blue moon get crazy in Vegas. She doesn’t have to have a gym body but she likes to be health conscious. She has ambition & drive. She makes me smile. Sometimes, she puts the moves on me! She likes to dance. She surprises me in all the right ways.

What YOU get: I am a hopeless romantic. I am looking for my best friend to spend the rest of my life with. When I find her, she will know that I will love her - everyday. That I will always have her back. That we will share our good times & bad times together. She will never have to remind me of our anniversary, and she will get flowers when she's not even expecting them.

Bottom line: I'm genuinely looking for my last 1st date.
What I’m doing with my life
I pay the bills as a lighting technician & stagehand for concerts and special events and absolutely love what I do. But what I really am is an aspiring fiction / non-fiction writer. You can google a book I self-published on Amazon, "Couch Potato Politics." I also just started learning electric guitar as a hobby and love it!
I’m really good at
Problem solving and working with my hands. Lately, it's been making furniture.
The first things people usually notice about me
Women notice my eyes. Men notice my awesomeness!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Goodfellas, Avengers, Wolf of Wall Street, Casino, Pulp Fiction, Starwars.

Music: Dave Mathews Band, Def Leppard, Poison, Billy Joel, Live, Hootie & The Blowfish (my college years, don't you dare judge me!)

TV: Castle, Venture Bros., The Newsroom, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Family Guy, Law & Order

Books: Fried Green Tomatoes, JFK And The Unspeakable

Food: Anything involving pasta & ricotta cheese. Red Curry Panang. Sour dough bread bowl with broccoli-cheddar soup from Panera Bread. The hot wings at Timmy Nolans, in Toluca Lake.
The six things I could never do without
Italian food, my laptop, a good cup of coffee, my cell phone, a newspaper on my day off.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to go about getting what I want in life...whatever it may be.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a complete sucker for a woman in 4 or 5 inch heels.

**With great power, comes great responsibility...don't abuse this information, ladies**
You should message me if
If you haven't figured out that I'm a good guy who's a lot of fun and worth messaging, I can't help ya!

On a side note, there seems to be several theories among women about when a guy should ask for a phone number here in the world of online dating. From my personal observation most want to message back and forth a bit before giving out her number. Others would like to trade numbers right away. A few like to set a time & place to meet without even exchanging numbers. And there are a few alpha females women who have even asked for my number. I am okay with all of this. I tend to err on the side of caution and message a few times before asking for a number to respect a woman's space - a few exchanges, but definitely not endlessly bouncing back & forth. But if you've got a different preference just let me know :-)

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