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writergyrl

35 / F / straight / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am not easily charmed, very vivacious, and an all around joy.

My Self-Summary

Black. Female. Tolerant.

I am a veggie foodie. I love to eat, smell, taste & learn to create great food.

I work & play hard. I enjoy the outdoors as much as I enjoy spending time inside.

I have an on going love affair with music, movies and books (I said books, I love it all, the trashier the better. I am not a lit snob). READING IS FUNDAMENTAL.

Anyway, they are all equally as important to me. However, the most important gifts I have been given, in this lifetime, are my AMAZING family & my FANTASTIC friends.

What I’m doing with my life

Did I say that good body art is a huge turn on? That I am excited by a man that will sit at the top of a mountain with me, a man that will split a good beer with me, a man that is strong enough to protect my honor, but compassionate enough to never want to see anyone hurt? I do not believe I am asking for too much. Maybe I am.

As a career I have chosen the entertainment field. While I am waiting for a "greenlight" on any of my projects, I support myself by working on other people's dreams. It's a lot of fun & one day it will have a monetary pay off as well. The hours are long, so I have to date men that are equally as busy or men that don't have to spend every waking hour with their significant other.

I’m really good at

Thinking of a master plan.

The first things people usually notice about me

I smile a lot. People have commented about how much I smile. I'm a little self conscious about it now.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books
Mostly Fiction
Voodoo Dreams: A Novel of Marie Laveau, Jonathan Livingston Seagull, Memoirs of a Geisha, the Hobbit, tons & tons.

Movies
Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Femme Nikita, Eternal Sunshine..., Slumdog, Revolutionary Road, Love Jones, Five Heartbeats, When Harry Met Sally, Manhattan, Annie Hall, Pride & Prejudice.

Music
Indie R & B (yes, it exists), my generation's hip hop, classic rock.
Some favorites: Stevie Wonder, Santigold, Amel Larrieux, Coldplay, Phoebe Snow, Rolling Stones, Bowie, EW&F, Sly.

I am one of those blessed or cursed people that can read books several times, watch movies over and over, and when I am in certain moods, listen to the same song frequently. This bizarre behavior has allowed me to fall in love with a lot. I cannot list them all. Just what I am concentrating on now.

The six things I could never do without

Family & Friends, Sunshine, Music, Movies, books & water (ocean, lakes, rivers, etc.).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about life. Plotting & planning my next move. Wondering why I am not truly satisfied yet.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working or going to the movies or grabbing a bite with friends or getting ready to catch some live music or catching up on tv or sitting on the couch filling out an on-line dating questionnaire.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Sometimes I feel lonely in Atlanta. I love being alone, but this is a different feeling. I've cried about it.

You should message me if

If you are ready to have some fun, real simple, but serious fun.

If laughter comes naturally to you & you think quiet moments are interesting.

If you believe in annual passes (zoo, High museum), good beer and mature thoughts.

If you believe in immature thoughts.

If you have figured out a lot of your own shit and you don't believe in blaming others for the ills in your life.

If you make an effort to straddle the line between self-deprecation and arrogance, because you know that either extreme is predictable and uninteresting.

**** THIS JUST IN ****
1. I am turned off by profiles with topless men.
2. I am not interested in talking to men that have photos of their car in their profile, unless it is a classic that you have put your blood, sweat & tears in, but even then it is kinda lame.