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20 M Needham, MA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–24
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like to abstract problems, solutions and ideas. I prefer 1 on 1 conversations to parties, swing to tango, and using the Oxford Comma to not using the Oxford Comma. I like poetry, good fantasy, and threes.
What I’m doing with my life
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University student. My side projects at the moment: Familiarizing myself with Github, my fantasy world (The political atmosphere of post-Napoleon Europe, tech level of 1800, and a magic system I invented myself after getting annoyed that druids can throw fireballs), a mad science battle royale that can be summarized as Fate/Stay Night if everyone was a scientist (Turing is a cyborg and Hawking has power armor), and becoming a better swing dancer. Splitting my time between England and Boston.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing easily, reading quickly, and taking any side of any position.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will sometimes say things that sound like quotes, but it is just how I talk, with dashes of Donne and Beagle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Nonfiction: A&L Daily, Hacker News, Foreign Affairs, New York Times, and the Economist. The first three give me a more intellectual view while the rest keep me up to date.

Fiction: I support the modern trinity of intelligent fantasy: Rothfuss' The Kingkiller Chronicles, Stephenson (Anathem and Snow Crash), and Gaiman(American Gods and Good Omens). Shogun and American Gods are excellent. I love Cesare Beccaria's Essay on Crime and Punishments, which is far funnier than it has any right to be, and Jacques The Fatalist.

Fanfiction: HPMOR and The Last Ringbearer. If you don't know them, I ask that you look them up before dismissing them as mere fanfics.

Movies: Moonrise Kingdom, the Swedish version of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, The Avengers, Black Widow 1: The Winter Soldier

Shows: West Wing, Firefly, Black Books

Music: When happy, I sing Joyful Joyful We Adore Thee (Replacing "Drive the dark of doubt away" with "Keep the light of doubt alive"). When reminiscent, I sing something by A Fine Frenzy or Mumford & Sons. When neutral, I will sing Wagon Wheel or something from My Chemical Romance. Energetic might lead to Get Out of London or Do You Hear the People Sing. Sassafrass is practically a constant regardless of mood, because they are fantastic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
H20, O2, Adenosine Triphosphate, smartass answers, my notepad, and a pencil.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever physics or math questions I am storing in my mind, how to resolve disputes when people don't have a common set of values, how other people think, and how to improve the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am in Boston, I have a decent chance of going swing dancing. Otherwise, I am reasonably likely to have dinner with a friend, debate things on the internet, or catch up on some articles from a magazine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not who I want to be, and at my worst I am what I am.
You should message me if
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You want a debate or a discussion about anything that I have written.

You are out of reading material.

You are willing to try something new.