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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So we agree, dating sucks...but it needs to be done if you want to experience love.

Would be nice to date a decent, mannered, quality, drug-free guy. Preferably someone who believes and practices monogamy. I usually stick to my standards, and so should you. Tall order huh? Haha.

For those who care, I'm masculine, family oriented, and I like traveling all while experiencing new cultures and people. I'm heading to Hong Kong and South Korea in September, sooo excited. I also speak Español and Français.

I don't mind dating guys who have baggage, because let's be honest, who doesn't have some? Especially at my age. Let's just make sure it doesn't exceed a carry-on. Ha! Not into random hookups, so please proceed if those are your intentions.

Wrapped up grad school and I'm now enjoying each day. Greet me with "Bonjour," so I know you actually read this. No one ever reads these things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As far as movies go, I like independent films, documentaries, action, horror, comedy, mystery, and thrillers.

I like Thai, Sushi, Mexican, Indian, Brazilian, Basque, All-American food, and oh yeah did I say Sushi?!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in order of importance:
1) Family (important, although not a thing)
2) Friends (also important, & not a thing)
3) Monogamy
4) Honesty
5) Cuddles (more of an action, but eh)
6) Book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm not looking to rush into anything. A date would suffice and then see where things go from there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
visiting a wine bar or having dinner with friends. I'm more low key. Watching a movie on the couch is a good option too.
You should message me if
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you made it this far and still have a pulse. If you are looking for friends or dates, you're independent and have stability in your life. I offer the same. Cheers!