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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 20
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
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So we agree, dating sucks...but it needs to be done if you want to experience love.

I have a career in marketing/public relations and I enjoy what I do. Would be nice to date a decent, mannered, quality, drug-free guy. Preferably someone who believes and practices monogamy. I usually stick to my standards, and so should you.

For those who care, I'm masculine, family oriented, and I like traveling all while experiencing new cultures and people. I'm heading to Hong Kong and South Korea in September, sooo excited. I also speak Español and Français.

I guess I'm suppose to say I scale mountains and swim with sharks to make this sound more appealing...nope, sorry buddy. Although, I do enjoy a good camping trip, hike and I want to skydive really soon. I can also appreciate a low-key night at home with a movie.

I don't mind dating guys who have baggage, because let's be honest, who doesn't have some? Especially at my age. Let's just make sure it doesn't exceed a carry-on. Ha! Not into random hookups, so please proceed if those are your intentions.

Wrapped up grad school and I'm now enjoying each day. Greet me with "Bonjour," so I know you actually read this. No one ever reads these things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a great career in public relations and enjoy every bit of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
kissing. Just kidding, I'm a very passionate guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is how good I smell. My smile would follow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Great Gatsby, To Kill a Mockingbird, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and lately I've been into books by Dan Brown. I just finished The Velvet Rage, good read.

As far as movies go, I like independent films, documentaries, action, horror, comedy, mystery, and thrillers.

I enjoy watching Modern Family, Family Guy, Man vs. Wild, Mad Men, The Office, Happy Endings, The Amazing Race, Flipping Out, and Downton Abbey (I prefer Oxford commas btw).

I like Thai, Sushi, Mexican, Indian, Brazilian, Basque, All-American food, and oh yeah did I say Sushi?!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in order of importance:
1) Family (although not a thing)
2) Friends (again, not a thing)
3) Monogamy
4) Honesty
5) Cuddles (more of an action, but eh)
6) Book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where I will be traveling next.

Patience is a virtue they say. With that said, I'm not looking to rush into anything. A date would suffice and then see where things go from there. Having a family would be the ideal ending.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
visiting a wine bar or having dinner with friends. I'm more low key. Watching a movie on the couch is a good option too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I'm a private person.
You should message me if
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you made it this far and still have a pulse. If you are looking for friends or dates, you're independent and have stability in your life. I offer the same. Cheers!