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31 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Jul 28
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
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In a committed relationship...with my career. I think it's time we spice things up and add a third. What do you think? Heh.

When I'm not traveling and joking around, I'm a marketing/public relations professional. So far I've gathered that if I'm going to date someone, I need to date someone that enjoys laughing. Life is generally way too serious, let's kick it up a notch.

I'm an honest, monogamous guy looking for the same. Would be nice to date a decent, well mannered, quality, drug-free guy. Preferably someone who believes and practices monogamy. I usually stick to my standards, and so should you.

For those who care, I'm masculine, family oriented, and I like traveling all while experiencing new cultures and people.

My last trip included the Bahamas and the Yucatán peninsula. Prague and Paris was amazing. All of Milan can be seen in 2 hours and Rome has great history. Brugge was interesting, and Amsterdam was different.

I guess I'm suppose to say I scale mountains and swim with sharks to make this sound more appealing...nope, not me. Although, I do enjoy a good camping trip, hike, snowboarding and I want to skydive really soon. I can also appreciate a low-key night at home with a movie.

I enjoy music and dancing, but I keep all that to a minimum. Everything in moderation.

I also speak Español and Français.

I don't mind dating guys who have baggage, because let's be honest, who doesn't have some...just make sure it doesn't exceed a carry-on. LOL!

Wrapped up grad school and I have a great career. Greet me with "Bonjour," so I know you actually read this. Trust me, no one reads these things.

What I’m doing with my life
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Living it. NPR helps fill the gaps here and there. I'm here to date and make friends, so if you like playing games or just like to hookup...I'm not your guy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
kissing. Just kidding, I'm a passionate guy who would like to start a family. I like to make people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is how good I! If I got a dollar every time I heard that. My smile would follow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Great Gatsby, To Kill a Mockingbird, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and lately I've been into books by Dan Brown. I just finished The Velvet Rage, good read.

As far as movies go, I like independent films, documentaries, action, horror, comedy, mystery, and thrillers.

I enjoy watching Modern Family, Family Guy, Man vs. Wild, Mad Men, The Office, Happy Endings, The Amazing Race, Flipping Out, and Downton Abbey (I prefer Oxford commas btw).

I like Thai, Sushi, Mexican, Indian, Brazilian, Basque, All-American food, and oh yeah did I say Sushi?!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in order of importance:
1) Family (although not a thing)
2) Friends (again, not a thing)
3) Monogamy
4) Honesty
5) Cuddles (more of an action, but eh)
6) Book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where I will be traveling next.

Since I tend to have a more traditional mindset, I also wonder if there are guys out there who still believe in commitment and monogamy. I know it's harder to find, but that's what makes it worth it.

Patience is a virtue they say. With that said, I'm not looking to rush into anything. A date would suffice and then see where things go from there. Having a family would be the ideal ending.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
visiting a wine bar or having dinner with friends. I'm more low key. Watching a movie on the couch is a good option too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I'm a private person.
You should message me if
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you made it this far and still have a pulse. If you are looking for friends or dates, you're independent and have your ducks in a row. I offer the same. Cheers!