I seek the true heart, the genuine spirit that can look at someone without being skeptical and critical. One who doesn't have to dramatize every little thing but instead finds the good in most things, and has room to feel sorry for those who are in a bad way.
Not looking for someone to help me out, I take care of myself fine. But I do look for someone that can complete my heart, that has a heart that isn't misconstrued or devious. We see so many that say they are not into games, will not put up with deceitfulness or tomfoolery. But far too often we end up finding out that the deceiver is them. LOL
I read one profile that said they were tired of seeing "no drama" in so many profiles, and commented that drama in life is good since life has a little drama no matter what. Now that person is the one I will run from in a heart-beat! haha If it has to be channel 3 soap operas to keep someone entertained in life, they are not the one for me.
At our age, I would expect a person to be mature, act like they have a little kid still inside when it fits, and be an adult when required. So emotional instability and mental misfits are not in that categorical scenario, I am sorry. laughing here.
I am looking for that lady who knocks me for a loop, plumb off my feet with awesomeness, not the glamour model type but the genuine heart form. Completely overwhelming me, her heart engulfs mine like a warm campfire, including sparks and embers. It's in no way her looks or glamour I am talking about.
Her heart would glow like warm embers, her eyes would sparkle like stars, her smile would be radiant and beaming, her voice soft and easy even if her appearance was simple and plain compared to some women who have to get their hair done weekly, or slap on layers of beauty products to feel confident.
She wouldn't have to find it necessary to be stern or overpowering to convince people of her independence of course, or her drive in life. Her independence would be an unspoken virtue evident in her mannerisms, compassionately and with warm feelings, without having to put someone down to lift herself up.
I would want this to be a natural part of her, and I myself would offer the same balance and perspective of course. It's easy really, once we realize that the way we will act now, is going to be the way we are 15 or 20 years from now. It's the only way my Grandparents lasted 72 years together and I want that kind of love and life with someone.
I guess I am just a sloooow starter, and having been on the profile sites a bit, realize that there really are not that many out there who can give in return what they wish for to receive. Are you one of the few?