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57 California, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–62
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:58am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Love is like a star, it cannot be physically touched but it is a great tool to possess for navigating life.

I want those years like my grand-folks had, together always, for life; Where grandma found satisfaction just feeling the glee when she sat a plate of about half-a-dozen Oreo cookies ladled with ample peaches atop those cookies and "plenty a' juice" (his favorite) for him to enjoy as dessert after dinner.

Or consider those endless uncomplicated stress free hours spent playing "Pitch" or "Gin Rummy" with one another which was their version of true fun and a favorite past-time given their fixed income, and never wrought anger when a bad hand went down. He actually laughed from deep inside when he frequently admitted she was "whoopin' my butt!".

As I have gotten older, I have also gotten allot wiser, but I also got allot older. (smiling) I'm no movie star, and I don't expect to "overwhelm" anyone with my "good looks". LOL But a person's heart can be so beautiful, it shines so bright from the inside that it shows on the outside. She will be like that to me. Me? I have been rode hard and put up wet, my odometer has rooooolled over a couple of times and the roads were not all paved. But i have traveled far, and soaked in all teh world showed me on my path. I learned and tried to listen, I saw and experienced and tried to store up a wealth of knowledge in the endeavor to help life as it came at me. I've failed at times, and succeeded at others. It is all one big lesson and we learn only if attentive.

I’m not sophisticated and like the simpler things in life. Mellow, easy going, uncomplicated, dependable, supportive, and that makes me a mismatch for a lot of the profiles here or on other sites.

I've seen a lot of different profiles here, a wide variety, and oh so many paths they take to try to find what they are looking for in life and many just make me more wary, maybe you too eh? LOL

At this point in life I would love to just find someone I can be comfortable around. I'm of the perspective that to spend what years we have left us after already living a half a century, to not waste any more time on soap operas and mental misfit dime store romance tragedies waiting to happen, smiling here.

I get as bored as much as the next person, but never so bored as to wish chaos just to have something happening. Are soap operas your favorite pass-time or do you prefer the more genuine moments in life, trouble free, less worrisome and more pleasant Does this make any sense, have you too felt like this before?

whoever you are out there, wherever you may be, (hehe) I'm simply waiting to meet up with a match in a woman, a real woman, who can offer peace of mind, and quiet mellow conversation along with simplicity in life for she wishes to find a true friend just as much as I do.

It's no fun sitting around laughing at movies or funny things in life, without someone else to share them with, someone that creates that pleasant inner smile you experience when you hear their laughter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To some people, this long spoken long winded journey may push them away or bore them. That's okay though because I look for someone with more patience. So many wish someone to listen to them, and I suppose you have to be willing to return the same, no?

"Life 'quality' is far better than life 'quantity'."

I'm not the ugliest thing out there, yet we need to appeal to a persons integrity and hopes, not their entertainment value, for no relationship can hold weight if someone is merely trying to defeat an ever present boredom. We should and need to perceive the quality of the person in their heart and voice, I'm more interested in what that special woman is like when she is home, whether gardening, or piddling around the house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and dusted out? LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes. One needs to look deep enough to get to know someone, to WANT to get to know someone to notice the special qualities that lay within, not merely surface personality traits to play with, Then maybe they might take note of my older styled respectable manners. If we want respect we don't get it by forcing others to respect us, we earn it by our own qualities, our persona. Its what a heart offers that makes me look into a woman's eyes to find their thoughts, not their pocket book or bank account, not their low cut blouse or intentional loose slyness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, people too self-centered to allow the variety to be a blessing instead of the cause of wars, the division of life, and the downfall of society. Without a variety it would a boring messed up place as it is.

We need far more unity just for the sake of meeting-in-the-middle to create harmony and purpose.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy that...smiles...and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Some think a pretty face buys them a free ticket, but a ticket to nowhere is just that. A fine figure may draw all attention in a room, but the one I leave with will be genuine and gentle, kind and courteous, well mannered and warm. I myself may not be the movie star out there one might find in other men, but I am among one of the most sincere, gentlemanly and downright genuine you could select. It just depends on what you are looking for?

They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you deserve in your search.