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57 M California, MO

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Last Online
Yesterday – 12:12pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I am attempting a better communication here to hopefully find the right person out there.

I smoke VAPE, e-cigarettes. No harmful toxic waste or nasty additives. Best cessation program on the planet! 2nd hand smoke hurts no one with these little miracles of technology!

I am not aggressively searching for my angel, I am not rushing anything, I am not playing games or creating channel 3 soap operas, I am not making demands or playing the dating fling thing, I am not into fantasy fandango affairs or finding out how many ladies can I take out each month

I haven't dated in 5 years and wish to find that special someone who will benefit having me in their life as much as I will benefit in my heart from them being here beside me, by each other, with one another.

I prefer myself mellow, smooth, laid back and easygoing so when that angel flies by, she will be casually drifting along on a soft breeze and smooth easy airways to my heart and sense the presence of something special I suppose, just know it and feel it too, right along with me.

Independent and self-reliant will not be terms on her lips yet as unrighteous excuses for aggressive or temperamental acts. I am mellow and easy going and she will be solid yet soft, a smile on her lips, shine sparkle to her eye and a sigh on her breath.

If a person can justify being dishonest with you about something now in their profile, won't they certainly be dishonest about things later too, especially if it is to their benefit. We need and want honesty in others but must be able and willing impeccably to give the same in return.

I work on computers and pertinent technology (security systems and cams, etc), running my own repair home shop in my small city locale. I live on the very edge of town and enjoy this quiet here, 20 trees surrounding the property with maybe 4 or 5 Mimosas gracing the variety of flora, fauna and trees, the life in the natural array of birds, squirrels, a gopher constantly tempting my patience, LOL.

some of the little mind tweak special considerations that make me me, that please my soul, are:

-babies laughter...
-baby powder smell of a "clean" baby LOL...
-Someone cuddling on the couch with me with a good movie mutually chosen...their unexpected deep inner sigh when they feel that pleasantly overwhelming cohabitive oneness...
-their laughter, explosively contagious when they see something funny....
-soft sad eyes of an unsure puppy...
their soft, slowed warm breath once held and safe...
-the sound of the woods on early mornings...
-being able to laugh,
without someone suffering harm to do so....
-succeeding at something,
in an otherwise stacked deck world....
-politics when it works for the common good as a goal (sure)
-old southern gospel on a shiny Sunday morning....
-da' warm soft fur of my cuddlin' pup agin mee chest....
-a soft quick lick on the nose as opposed to sloppy slurppy kisses...from my puppy folks, not from a lady! LOL
-the look of innocence and purity in a young child
-comfortable funds in my checking account and bills are paid (?)
-something that ends up miraculously working when I fix it haha

I am commonly quiet most of the time unless there is someone special to share things with. Hardly ever take a drink and never get drunk when I do, not into drugs. I am looking for that "equal opportunity angel" to make my heart glow again.

Have you found yourself like me, laying there watching a movie or show, and something really funny gets you laughing out loud hard enough that you suddenly stop for you realize you were JUST getting ready to make a comment about it and no one was there to share it with? Those are the times when I understand that life is not all that "full" without someone to share life with.

She smiles when waking to the aroma of sausage sizzling on the stove, gravy on biscuits and scrambled country ham and eggs with Willy playing in the back ground on any given Sunday, and a cup of coffee brought to you so you don't have to jump out of bed like all the other days in the work week. If you enjoy a more rural setting in life above and withdrawn from the fast paced hustle and bustle of the rat race big city way, then you may consider this more intently if you find the visit nice...send me a message if you wish to truly talk
What I’m doing with my life
To some people, this long spoken long winded journey may push them away or bore them. That's okay though because I look for someone with more patience. So many wish someone to listen to them, and I suppose you have to be willing to return the same, no?

"Life 'quality' is far better than life 'quantity'."

I'm not the ugliest thing out there, yet we need to appeal to a persons integrity and hopes, not their entertainment value, for no relationship can hold weight if someone is merely trying to defeat an ever present boredom. We should and need to perceive the quality of the person in their heart and voice, I'm more interested in what that special woman is like when she is home, whether gardening, or piddling around the house.
I’m really good at
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get your computer sped upa dn dusted out? LOL

A personality profile for me, a result from an online site reads as follows:

68% Openness, 49% Conscientiousness, 37% Extraversion, 65% Agreeableness

Your strongest is Openness!

Openness is a general appreciation for art, emotion, adventure, unusual ideas, imagination, curiosity, and variety of experience. This trait distinguishes imaginative people and down-to-earth, people. People who are open to experience are intellectually curious, appreciative of art, and sensitive to beauty. They tend to be, compared to closed people, more creative and more aware of their feelings. They are more likely to hold unconventional beliefs.

People with opposing low scores on openness tend to have more conventional, traditional interests, following rule of thumb even if it isn't following common sense. Open people are not so plain, straightforward, and obvious over the complex, ambiguous, and subtle. Closed people are different than open people in that they may regard the arts and sciences with suspicion, regarding these endeavors as abstruse or of no practical use.

Closed people prefer familiarity over novelty. They are conservative and resistant to changes.

(end quote)

Now I don't know if that will help someone understand a bit more about my inner "soul", but that is the jist of it all according to that personality test.
The first things people usually notice about me
I suppose my , my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes. One needs to look deep enough to get to know someone, to WANT to get to know someone to notice the special qualities that lay within, not merely surface personality traits to play with, Then maybe they might take note of my older styled respectable manners. If we want respect we don't get it by forcing others to respect us, we earn it by our own qualities, our persona. Its what a heart offers that makes me look into a woman's eyes to find their thoughts, not their pocket book or bank account, not their low cut blouse or intentional loose slyness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Bother you to choose a man in me and appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finding someone that at least knows what they are looking for, someone mellow and calm and gentle and harmonious. These profiles can sometimes be amazing works if that is really what the person is like?. Far too many seem to be portrayals of what they WISH they were like, what they seem to create to be appealing, like putting on makeup but its not really there you know what I mean?

I know she is out there, somewhere looking. I have faith she too is so very tired of the merry go round and chaos of searching and of people who don't even know what they themselves really need in order to be happy, or know what is really there hidden when they look in the mirror. I look for the one who seeks a satisfying long term cooperative correlated existence with that special someone in life, a harmony that sets us apart from everyone else, a charisma that comes natural merely because you have finally found someone to complete the chorus.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy that...smiles...and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I leave the lid down when I'm done! See! You won't have to potty train me! LOL
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 49–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Some think a pretty face buys them a free ticket, but a ticket to nowhere is just that. A fine figure may draw all attention in a room, but the one I leave with will be genuine and gentle, kind and courteous, well mannered and warm. I myself may not be the movie star out there one might find, but I am one of the most sincere, gentle and downright genuine you could select. It just depends on what you are looking for?

They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

Do leave a post if you feel you are in a place in life that makes you feel its time to look for more purpose with someone to be a regular natural part of life, and you find these words, if long winded and never ending tho they seem, intriguing and interesting enough to dare post a msg back.

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you deserve in your search.