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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:13am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Literary prose to soothe your heart....
so many profiles this way start....
soft written words that seem so dear...
sweet lil' nuthin's to fill your ear....
Everyone is honest, true and kind....
So sayeth all, everyone you find....
false promise spoken is full of hurt....
in word and deed, in how they flirt....
But somewhere someday a lady she'll be ...
to be a queen, my angel I'll see....
Her heart will promise with truist charms....
forever to walk, arm in arm,
our hearts might meld and be as one
love of my life to share in the fun
of days together side by side
our fears relinquished no more we'll hide
held and relished in blissful thought
of treasures we find and gifts we brought
another in life as we both shall lead
of a righteous heart, thought and deed...

I seldom look at the pretty ones, too much to hope for or too much trouble I know not which…LOL But it’s not looks I am hoping for, its not a fancy fashionista I search endlessly in dreams of finding or a glamour gal in the spotlight that I seek. What those good looks often hide are the qualities I need, the heart, the goodness, the humbleness of righteous heart without having to be aggressive to prove their independence. A soft touch, a gentle voice, a sparkle in her eye that shows the true inner spirit of a woman, not the voluptuous sexy “look down my blouse fellas!” presentations some feel necessary to place on their profiles. To me she would be sexy in her own way, and probably knock my socks off in her own fashion. LOL

To that kind hearted sweetheart I have not yet had the lucky chance to meet, hello!

PLEASE!!! No speed dating fanatics or multiple entertainment partners here. No photos or non-current misrepresentations earn no reply of course, as we all desire and require up front courteous honesty in a person, especially new people to us.

But I can't seem to find that mellow, non-critical, easy-going lady for the life of me. If we have to put someone down to lift our own self up, if we have to watch someone fall to be able to laugh, then the world around us has affected us in a bad way, and changed us into it. I am looking for that lady that can act like a lady, but be a kid at heart, the one that hasn't forgotten to laugh at the simple good things in life. I am looking for that countrified, cool, calm and collected version of a lady to overwhelm my heart and leave me speechless.

I'm not interested in "pretty" unless it's pretty nice and not pretty mean. LOL I am not interested in what other gents might call great looking, for its the heart I am concerned with, and the spirit and soul that rates far more important. I am more interested in that relationship like my grand folks had, married for 72 years to their best friend in life. It has to have and hold respect for one another, or no matter how you define love, it cannot last as long as they practiced their love for each other, held one another in respect, love and adoration.

So send a note, say hi, relax and get comfortable for there is nothing here to worry about, and nothing to be scared of, just a laid back, natural genuine heart.

And don't let the long windiness worry you or alert you to some possible personality quirk or like some we find, a misfit mentality or emotionally imbalanced persona, okay? It just is there and gives someone a good idea of how I think, and it takes words to do that in here. In real life, I do not try to over talk or control a conversation as listening is just as or more so important to communications with someone you care for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Let's goals? Heehee...well as far as some of the things I spend my time doing goes, I work on people's computer problems and fix things all from skills I obtained back in 2000 when I went back to college to further my academia yearnings. Other times find me working on projects around the home, renovating here and there or fixing things that time has demanding renewing. I like to sit by calm cool creeks when the weather permits, let Kiwi, my little pup in the pictures and constant source of goofy ruff giggles, and just enjoy nature. I am positive she has some "Scooby-Doo" in her blood line. LOL

It's been some time since I went fishing, but not an avid bass master type. I prefer simple over extravagant. I would love to take a lady down to Lake TanneyComo to enjoy the clear crystal clear cool blue water upstream from the dam, and show her the huge gigantic bull trout in the water there, the rock formations in the eddies and backwater and just enjoy Mama Nature at her prime. Not into Tablerock there and all the super fast high dollar speed boats some fools declare to be bass rigs????
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and dusted out? LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes, my grand dad said that I was only half for of schick, and thus the rest of the world was therefore plumb arsed full of it! hehehe. I often get a bit confused with people, but then too my grandma said I was BORN confused so not to worry about it. LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, but here near and close I can enjoy the brighter lighter side of life.

I find myself surprised sometimes with the many personae you meet online in these sites. SO many profess virtues and character we all get tired of filling out these silly forms, at the same time our interest and willingness to commit to a search for a true partner is relevant to the amount of trouble we go to in order to promote a vivid and accurate picture of ourselves on here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy maybe you on the other side of the table, or sharing the couch potato space iwth me and that cute puppy in teh photos, or maybe well....we will have to make that up as we go along and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.

You thought the above profile was too long-winded but worth the read, for if someone doesn't have enough patience to read through that content in order to discover what "some" of the me-inside is like, they are not the patient person I seek.

They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you justly deserve in your search.