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57 California, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:04am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First off, to be fair and honest, no pictures gets no replies,and that's true on any profile site. If you think that one photo is going to draw the interest of someone to get to know you good enough to want to talk, rethink it please. You like two or three pics to see who it is, and so do we.

I seek the true heart, the genuine spirit that can look at someone without being skeptical and critical. One who doesn't have to dramatize every little thing but instead finds the good in most things, and has room to feel sorry for those who are in a bad way.

Not looking for someone to help me out, I take care of myself fine. But I do look for someone that can complete my heart, that has a heart that isn't misconstrued or devious. We see so many that say they are not into games, will not put up with deceitfulness or tomfoolery. But far too often we end up finding out that the deceiver is them. LOL

I read one profile that said they were tired of seeing "no drama" in so many profiles, and commented that drama in life is good since life has a little drama no matter what. Now that person is the one I will run from in a heart-beat! haha If it has to be channel 3 soap operas to keep someone entertained in life, they are not the one for me.

At our age, I would expect a person to be mature, act like they have a little kid still inside when it fits, and be an adult when required. So emotional instability and mental misfits are not in that categorical scenario, I am sorry. laughing here.

I am looking for that lady who knocks me for a loop, plumb off my feet with awesomeness, not the glamour model type but the genuine heart form. Completely overwhelming me, her heart engulfs mine like a warm campfire, including sparks and embers. It'€™s in no way her looks or glamour I am talking about.

Her heart would glow like warm embers, her eyes would sparkle like stars, her smile would be radiant and beaming, her voice soft and easy even if her appearance was simple and plain compared to some women who have to get their hair done weekly, or slap on layers of beauty products to feel confident.

She wouldn€'t have to find it necessary to be stern or overpowering to convince people of her independence of course, or her drive in life. Her independence would be an unspoken virtue evident in her mannerisms, compassionately and with warm feelings, without having to put someone down to lift herself up.

I would want this to be a natural part of her, and I myself would offer the same balance and perspective of course. It's easy really, once we realize that the way we will act now, is going to be the way we are 15 or 20 years from now. It's the only way my Grandparents lasted 72 years together and I want that kind of love and life with someone.

I guess I am just a sloooow starter, and having been on the profile sites a bit, realize that there really are not that many out there who can give in return what they wish for to receive. Are you one of the few?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Let's goals? Heehee...well as far as some of the things I spend my time doing goes, I work on people's computer problems and fix things all from skills I obtained back in 2000 when I went back to college to further my academia yearnings. Other times find me working on projects around the home, renovating here and there or fixing things that time has demanding renewing. I like to sit by calm cool creeks when the weather permits, let Kiwi, my little pup in the pictures and constant source of goofy ruff giggles, and just enjoy nature. I am positive she has some "Scooby-Doo" in her blood line. LOL

It's been some time since I went fishing, but not an avid bass master type. I prefer simple over extravagant. I would love to take a lady down to Lake TanneyComo to enjoy the clear crystal clear cool blue water upstream from the dam, and show her the huge gigantic bull trout in the water there, the rock formations in the eddies and backwater and just enjoy Mama Nature at her prime. Not into Tablerock there and all the super fast high dollar speed boats some fools declare to be bass rigs????

To some people, this long spoken long winded journey may push them away or bore them. That's okay though because I look for someone with more patience. So many wish someone to listen to them, and I suppose you have to be willing to return the same, no?

If all I put in words here are the magic lines that you want to hear and to mesmerize someone into accepting what is not real in me, well there are profiles in abundance on here that should intrigue them in that way. I would rather throw all these words into this long essay of wants and don't wants, than appease someones fictional romance novel dreams. I can romance with the best of them, but here is the place I tell you of the inner me, the real me.

Yet I am a firm believer that we need to appeal to a person's integrity and hopes, not their entertainment value, for no relationship can hold weight if someone is merely trying to defeat an ever present boredom. We should and need to perceive the quality of the person in their heart and voice, I'm more interested in what that special woman is like when she is home, whether gardening, or piddling around the house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and dusted out? LOL

I hate to put this here, since it delves in negativity. But there seems to be an alarmingly unbelievable amount of people on profiles here that seem to think they can require all those good virtues from someone without possessing the same within themselves.

If there are no photos, then there can be no conversation. If it's all about "you", then there can't be a "we". hehehe If you are one of the profile posters that thinks that yawning cleavage and sexy slinky is what is going to find your partner in life, we are probably not a match.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes. One needs to look deep enough to get to know someone, to WANT to get to know someone to notice the special qualities that lay within, not merely surface personality traits to play with, Then maybe they might take note of my older styled respectable manners. If we want respect we don't get it by forcing others to respect us, we earn it by our own qualities, our persona. Its what a heart offers that makes me look into a woman's eyes to find their thoughts, not their pocket book or bank account, not their low cut blouse or intentional loose slyness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, people too self-centered to allow the variety to be a blessing instead of the cause of wars, the division of life, and the downfall of society. Without a variety it would a boring messed up place as it is.

We need far more unity just for the sake of meeting-in-the-middle to create harmony and purpose.

I wonder how many truly put thought into their profile. So many can easily state that they don't NEED a man in their life, but... yet not many say why the WANT a man in their life. The answers to that would probably be revealing to themselves more so than to others out here. Besides their "bucket list" they ought to write down their "want list" and explain to themselves the reasons why they want someone in life to share it with.

It might help them realize what they need to look for in a person. Are you about as tired as I am finding these profiles that are too busy to write something other than to put, "Ask me" in their introductions and "about me" areas? hehehaha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy that...smiles...and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you deserve in your search.