Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a lady that can be genuine, trustworthy and kind
without having to use aggression and soap operas to claim their
independence. We are all tired of games, of people who claim good
virtues but quickly resort to the bad personality traits to “even
up” or balance out their affairs and relationships. The only way I
could consider a match is to find the company of someone who not
only seeks another who has good qualities for more than dating, but
who actually themselves are adept at abiding in a relationship
using good virtues and integrity as building blocks, not only able
but genuinely capable of sharing a meaningful connection with
Far too many in the profiles seem to treat it as an entertainment
venue, gambling casinos, and cruise ship travel, riding motorcycles
or whatever. What makes a man valued and able to offer worthy
companionship long term has nothing to do with entertainment to
occupy someone’s otherwise boring life and monotony problems,
wouldn’t you agree? It has more to do more with the heart, with the
soul and what he can offer in supportive qualities, communication
and heart felt concern for the person he adores. Fancy restaurants,
opera, or traveling the world may be nice for some, but that has
nothing to do with the criteria or qualifications of finding a
partner in life like my grand folks had, being married to their
best friend in the world for 72 years.
I wish to find someone who can be mutually honest with me, but
respect our own private nature for no one has no baggage, or swear
they have always been an angel, and no one can claim total
innocence in their relationships and how they handled failed
connections in their past. Bu thtat does not mean we cannot be
honest, and does not mean we need be deceitful to the people we
care about in life. If they do, if they think they have done or can
do no wrong, they are not being honest with themselves so how can
they be honest with others?
I enjoy the happy times in life, the simple giggles and beaming
smiles and belly-tickler laughter, but have no one to fully share
such times with. So I look for that one, that special person, the
significant other some talk of in their lives that can make it all
So as you can see, I go to some good length in explaining myself,
and describing how I think, to give someone else a chance and
opportunity to see just what I might be like before they meet
I guess I am just a sloooow starter, and having been on the profile
sites a bit, realize that there sometimes really are not that many
out there who can realize that they must be able to give in return
what they wish for to receive. Are you one of the few? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Let's see...life goals? Heehee...well as far as some of the things
I spend my time doing goes, I work on people's computer problems
and fix things all from skills I obtained back in 2000 when I went
back to college to further my academia yearnings. Other times find
me working on projects around the home, renovating here and there
or fixing things that time has demanding renewing. I like to sit by
calm cool creeks when the weather permits, let Kiwi, my little pup
in the pictures and constant source of goofy ruff giggles, and just
enjoy nature. I am positive she has some "Scooby-Doo" in her blood
It's been some time since I went fishing, but not an avid bass
master type. I prefer simple over extravagant. I would love to take
a lady down to Lake TanneyComo to enjoy the clear crystal clear
cool blue water upstream from the dam, and show her the huge
gigantic bull trout in the water there, the rock formations in the
eddies and backwater and just enjoy Mama Nature at her prime. Not
into Tablerock there and all the super fast high dollar speed boats
some fools declare to be bass rigs????
To some people, this long spoken long winded journey may push them
away or bore them. That's okay though because I look for someone
with more patience. So many wish someone to listen to them, and I
suppose you have to be willing to return the same, no?
If all I put in words here are the magic lines that you want to
hear and to mesmerize someone into accepting what is not real in
me, well there are profiles in abundance on here that should
intrigue them in that way. I would rather throw all these words
into this long essay of wants and don't wants, than appease
someones fictional romance novel dreams. I can romance with the
best of them, but here is the place I tell you of the inner me, the
Yet I am a firm believer that we need to appeal to a person's
integrity and hopes, not their entertainment value, for no
relationship can hold weight if someone is merely trying to defeat
an ever present boredom. We should and need to perceive the quality
of the person in their heart and voice, I'm more interested in what
that special woman is like when she is home, whether gardening, or
piddling around the house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and
dusted out? LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know
me they notice the two different colored eyes, my grand dad said
that I was only half for of schick, and thus the rest of the world
was therefore plumb arsed full of it! hehehe. I often get a bit
confused with people, but then too my grandma said I was BORN
confused so not to worry about it. LOL
One needs to look deep enough to get to know someone, to WANT to
get to know someone to notice the special qualities that lay
within, not merely surface personality traits to play with, Then
maybe they might take note of my older styled respectable demeanor.
If we want respect we don't get it by forcing others to respect us,
we earn it by our own qualities, our persona, and our virtues, not
just the claims of honesty, trust worthiness and loyalty, but the
years later turn around and look and smile version, of being able
to spend that time with someone worthy.
Its what a heart offers that makes me look into a woman's eyes to
find their thoughts
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The
Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in
"Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL
"Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron
Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy
years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate
being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear
over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my
pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at,
worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually
needing me there.
We all have them, in one form or another, things we just cannot
abide with. So a short list should save our time and not get
tempers roaring out of control LOL:::
IF, you think that selfie shot of you in the mirror looking
straight down your blouse to flash you boobs at any and everybody,
is a photo of your better attractive qualities that will land you a
worthy gent, we are not like minded enough to pursue a relationship
no doubt. Don't be offended, its just a matter of tastes.
If you think a profile introduction is to state all your
entertainment requests, traveling the world, gambling night at the
casino, biker babe pee-pad riding, or over indulgent cruise ship
trips abroad? We are probably not attuned to similar interests. I
think an intro should talk about yourself, your qualities, your
intent at finding a partner and not some entertainment list
demanding consent to pursue a relationship to defeat an otherwise
overly bored life, well I personally accurately feel that we should
both be more mature and common sense minded than that is all.
If you have no photos, we can't get started. If you only have one
photo of yourself, or a short profile with "I'll tell you later" in
all the form slots? well, I pursue that special someone with more
intent and interest than that. I have more patience, more
virtuosity and more drive than that. So I need something similar in
return, more than one photo, and more than empty content when it
should be an honest righteous endeavor to explain your lifestyle
and persona. It may take us a while to fill out the questionnaire
of course, but we should end up with something that looks like an
honest attempt at opening a door, and a genuine effort shown to
If you have a photo in there from ten years ago or more, and use
the excuse "It's just a then and now thing" to hide a truer intent
of deception by just getting someone to look first, we are not a
match. My oldest photo is from a year ago so if you have a photo or
two of yourself from 5 years or more ago, you need to get current
ones on there and give up the hope of pulling a quick one over on
someone is all. It may seem sort of curt or a jab, but we all get
tired of the claims of honesty and then the deceitful truths with
poor excuses when it comes to a vain attempt at self-justifications
for their own sins. It is our hearts we are dealing with here, and
intentionally deceiving or seeking to harm is as bad as kicking a
baby or abusing elderly people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, people too self-centered
to allow the variety to be a blessing instead of the cause of wars,
the division of life, and the downfall of society. Without a
variety it would a boring messed up place as it is, but without
harmony it isn't worth the walk.
We need far more unity just for the sake of meeting-in-the-middle
to create harmony and purpose.
I wonder how many truly put thought into their profile. So many can
easily state that they don't NEED a significant other in their
life, but... yet not many say why the WANT a man in their life. The
answers to that would probably be revealing to themselves more so
than to others out here. Besides their "bucket list" they ought to
write down their "why list" and explain to themselves the reasons
why they want someone in life to share it with.
It might help them realize what they need to look for in a person.
Are you about as tired as I am finding these profiles that are too
busy to write something other than to put, "Ask me" in their
introductions and "about me" areas? hehehaha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet)
cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there
on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy
that...smiles...so maybe you on the other side of the table, or
sharing the couch potato space iwth me and that cute puppy in teh
photos, or maybe well....we will have to make that up as we go
along and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV,
sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the
place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You thought the above profile was too long-winded but worth the
read, for if someone doesn't have enough patience to read through
that content in order to discover what "some" of the me-inside is
like, they are not the patient person I seek.
They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so
add that in pls .
I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some
of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same,
where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into
it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe
Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you justly deserve in
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