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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49-62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:58am
White, Other
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and it’s important
Working on Space camp
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
note: Not whinning or complaining, but I get very few replies on here. Guess i am not the richman/movie star many dream about in their search. LOL But to the point, if you send a "like" go ahead and send a quick note in a message, it's free here and I can't read the notes unless I join as an "A-member". With the infrequency and such a long time in between any messages or "likes" its just not worth it for me to join every time without nowing anything about who sent the "click-on like". With that politely addressed, said and out in the open, let me go on...smiling here :P

I can't seem to find that mellow, non-critical, easy-going lady for the life of me. If we have to put someone down to lift our own self up, if we have to watch someone fall to be able to laugh, then the world around us has affected us in a bad way, and changed us into it.

I am looking for that lady that can act like a lady, but be a kid at heart too. I seek maturity in mind and heart, but seem to only find mostly childish attitudes or misfit emotional personae. LOL

So in an effort to display the REAL me, i wrote down some words to ease the worries of those who take the time to look and see if maybe? I also assume that if someone complains because this short novelette is too windy and long in the tooth, that their patience factor is not fit for a real relationship, for patience is right up there with "respect" in relationship necessities. LOL

Now I know I'm not a poet, and if you didn't know it too, heehee... but at risk of embarrassing myself I thought on this simple one for a bit before putting it here. I wrote this unworthy prose to explain my heart. Whether mushy, corny or whatever, it delivers at least, what "some" wish to know about whether a man can still be romantic and good of heart I suppose, especially with the deceit we find out there nowadays in these online personal profile personae. haha

MY Heart's Dream

Literary prose to soothe your heart....
so many profiles in this way start....
soft written words that seem so dear...
sweet lil' nuthin's to please one's ear....

Everyone is honest, so true and kind....
So sayeth all, seems of many you'd find....
But false words spoken, are full of hurt....
in word and deed, in how "some" flirt....

But, real and true, I am good and kind
A search at end, I hope you will find
for you to see that I try my best
Comfortably safe unlike the rest

I have no bling, I am not wealthy
but rich I am for my soul is healthy
I pour out my feelings and offer my heart
true and honest is how it should start

Surprised with awe, I also will be ...
Finding my queen, my angel to see....
She will promise with all her charms....
to faithfully walk, side by side, arm in arm,

Our hearts will meld and will be as one
the love of my life to share in the fun
for our days together side by side
of love now blossomed, no more to hide

Held and cherished pure blissful thought
treasures astounding and of gifts we brought
another in life, shared we shall lead
a righteous love, in thought, heart and deed...

Drew 2015

Hope the smile isn't vindictive ROFL

I enjoy playing guitar and singing even if my voice is a bit rougher than it used to be, I can still carry a tune "somewhat" hehee.

Loggins and Messina
Don williams
Vern Gosdin
and many others are who I cover with

I enjoy immensely, puppy cuddles at night when she needs to share warmth, puppy kisses on my nose, light non-sloppy ones, when I ask her if she loves her papa, belly growls as if she’d whip my arse, false bravado when we play, and the way that pup shoves her forehead under my nose when I ask her if she’s okay as the thunder rolls in. I like spending time outdoors in the spring and summer and mild fall, planting and watering my flower beds and enjoying the 20+ trees that surround the property here.

Working on renovation projects, attempting to make life better and more comfortable is a plus for staying active and enhancing life.

Well, the passing years have turned the healthy head of hair more greyish and thin. The jawline is more “bulldog” and the under-chin’s a bit more sagging. The eyesight has dimmed, but the eye color is still as bright and sparkly, a brown eye and a hazel one maybe shows a more open way of looking at life.

I’m not as handsome as I once was when 18 and full of life, but life is still in me and I flourish with the knowledge the passing years have lent me. Where once youthful exuberance led me to many mistakes, those errors helped wisdom take the place of a more foolishly innocent lack of foresight.

My grandfather Cheek always said “A dollar-two-ninety-eight’s worth of hindsight ain’t as good as a dime’s worth of foresight” and although it tickled me when he spoke those wise words back in those yesteryear memories, the thought still sticks in my mental makeup now that he’s gone on.

So although many shy away from their maturity like a bad case of Ebola, I acceptingly consent to mine as a gift to have lived those years and those hopefully many years to come. But I lack someone to share those pending moments with.

Ever look at your half-heart little pal-buddy-friend half-heart (pet) and talk about a shared spontaneous hilarious moment on TV or laugh at some funny antic that pet just pulled, and then realize that you have finally gone from talking to yourself to talking to and sharing with your pet, for lack of a more desired enjoyable audience?

I think about how that little critter loves me, how their lack of language prevents them from regretting some careless act we accidentally inflicted upon them as we may have inadvertently stepped on their paw one day, yet they do not hold it against us? Their love is long lasting and forgiving and we might often think about how we wish we had that time of attention, devotion and love from a compatible partner. We need that type of love when we share life with another, an ability to push those thoughts to the rear of our forward outlook.

So what I may be lacking in to offer another, I hope to look at it as a blessing to be able to offer other not so readily observable gifts like good looks, but rather a genuine heart, a forgiving nature, a loyalty and devotion that the passing years have enabled me to develop by being able to analyze my thoughts and words and deeds and learn from them as wisdom takes the place of more foolish outlooks.

I'm not interested in "pretty" unless it's pretty nice and not pretty mean. LOL I am not interested in what other gents might call great looking, for its the heart I am concerned with, and the spirit and soul that rates far more important.

I am more interested in that relationship like my grand folks had, married for 72 years to their best friend in life. It has to have and hold respect for one another, or no matter how you define love, it cannot last as long as they practiced their love for each other, held one another in respect, love and adoration.

So send a note, say hi, relax and get comfortable for there is nothing here to worry about, and nothing to be scared of, just a laid back, natural genuine heart.

And don't let the long windiness worry you or alert you to some possible personality quirk or like some we find, a misfit mentality or emotionally imbalanced persona, okay? It's just there and gives someone a good idea of how I think, and it takes words to do that in here.

Please, no negativity intended but please don't reply if you are only about one or two liners as some genuine pursuit of your significant other. I look for genuine love too, and wish only to not waste your time, or mine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Let's goals? Heehee...well as far as some of the things I spend my time doing goes, I work on people's computer problems and fix things all from skills I obtained back in 2000 when I went back to college to further my academia yearnings. Other times find me working on projects around the home, renovating here and there or fixing things that time has demanding renewing. I like to sit by calm cool creeks when the weather permits, let Kiwi, my little pup in the pictures and constant source of goofy ruff giggles, and just enjoy nature. I am positive she has some "Scooby-Doo" in her blood line. LOL

It's been some time since I went fishing, but not an avid bass master type. I prefer simple over extravagant. I would love to take a lady down to Lake TanneyComo to enjoy the clear crystal clear cool blue water upstream from the dam, and show her the huge gigantic bull trout in the water there, the rock formations in the eddies and backwater and just enjoy Mama Nature at her prime. Not into Tablerock there and all the super fast high dollar speed boats some fools declare to be bass rigs????
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and dusted out? LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes, my grand dad said that I was only half for of schick, and thus the rest of the world was therefore plumb arsed full of it! hehehe. I often get a bit confused with people, but then too my grandma said I was BORN confused so not to worry about it. LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, but here near and close I can enjoy the brighter lighter side of life.

I find myself surprised sometimes with the many personae you meet online in these sites. SO many profess virtues and character we all get tired of filling out these silly forms, at the same time our interest and willingness to commit to a search for a true partner is relevant to the amount of trouble we go to in order to promote a vivid and accurate picture of ourselves on here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy maybe you on the other side of the table, or sharing the couch potato space iwth me and that cute puppy in teh photos, or maybe well....we will have to make that up as we go along and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
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You thought the above profile was too long-winded but worth the read, for if someone doesn't have enough patience to read through that content in order to discover what "some" of the me-inside is like, they are not the patient person I seek.

They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you justly deserve in your search.