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57 California, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:20am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a lady that can be genuine, trustworthy and kind without having to use aggression and soap operas to claim their independence. We are all tired of games, of people who claim good virtues but quickly resort to the bad personality traits to “even up” or balance out their affairs and relationships. The only way I could consider a match is to find the company of someone who not only seeks another who has good qualities for more than dating, but who actually themselves are adept at abiding in a relationship using good virtues and integrity as building blocks, not only able but genuinely capable of sharing a meaningful connection with another.

Far too many in the profiles seem to treat it as an entertainment venue, gambling casinos, and cruise ship travel, riding motorcycles or whatever. What makes a man valued and able to offer worthy companionship long term has nothing to do with entertainment to occupy someone’s otherwise boring life and monotony problems, wouldn’t you agree? It has more to do more with the heart, with the soul and what he can offer in supportive qualities, communication and heart felt concern for the person he adores. Fancy restaurants, opera, or traveling the world may be nice for some, but that has nothing to do with the criteria or qualifications of finding a partner in life like my grand folks had, being married to their best friend in the world for 72 years.

I wish to find someone who can be mutually honest with me, but respect our own private nature for no one has no baggage, or swear they have always been an angel, and no one can claim total innocence in their relationships and how they handled failed connections in their past. Bu thtat does not mean we cannot be honest, and does not mean we need be deceitful to the people we care about in life. If they do, if they think they have done or can do no wrong, they are not being honest with themselves so how can they be honest with others?

I enjoy the happy times in life, the simple giggles and beaming smiles and belly-tickler laughter, but have no one to fully share such times with. So I look for that one, that special person, the significant other some talk of in their lives that can make it all worthwhile.

So as you can see, I go to some good length in explaining myself, and describing how I think, to give someone else a chance and opportunity to see just what I might be like before they meet me.

I guess I am just a sloooow starter, and having been on the profile sites a bit, realize that there sometimes really are not that many out there who can realize that they must be able to give in return what they wish for to receive. Are you one of the few? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Let's goals? Heehee...well as far as some of the things I spend my time doing goes, I work on people's computer problems and fix things all from skills I obtained back in 2000 when I went back to college to further my academia yearnings. Other times find me working on projects around the home, renovating here and there or fixing things that time has demanding renewing. I like to sit by calm cool creeks when the weather permits, let Kiwi, my little pup in the pictures and constant source of goofy ruff giggles, and just enjoy nature. I am positive she has some "Scooby-Doo" in her blood line. LOL

It's been some time since I went fishing, but not an avid bass master type. I prefer simple over extravagant. I would love to take a lady down to Lake TanneyComo to enjoy the clear crystal clear cool blue water upstream from the dam, and show her the huge gigantic bull trout in the water there, the rock formations in the eddies and backwater and just enjoy Mama Nature at her prime. Not into Tablerock there and all the super fast high dollar speed boats some fools declare to be bass rigs????

To some people, this long spoken long winded journey may push them away or bore them. That's okay though because I look for someone with more patience. So many wish someone to listen to them, and I suppose you have to be willing to return the same, no?

If all I put in words here are the magic lines that you want to hear and to mesmerize someone into accepting what is not real in me, well there are profiles in abundance on here that should intrigue them in that way. I would rather throw all these words into this long essay of wants and don't wants, than appease someones fictional romance novel dreams. I can romance with the best of them, but here is the place I tell you of the inner me, the real me.

Yet I am a firm believer that we need to appeal to a person's integrity and hopes, not their entertainment value, for no relationship can hold weight if someone is merely trying to defeat an ever present boredom. We should and need to perceive the quality of the person in their heart and voice, I'm more interested in what that special woman is like when she is home, whether gardening, or piddling around the house.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers, building things, tinkering with appliances.
Hey, at least you will get a checkup and your computer sped up and dusted out? LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose my hair and ponytail then once they get to actually know me they notice the two different colored eyes, my grand dad said that I was only half for of schick, and thus the rest of the world was therefore plumb arsed full of it! hehehe. I often get a bit confused with people, but then too my grandma said I was BORN confused so not to worry about it. LOL

One needs to look deep enough to get to know someone, to WANT to get to know someone to notice the special qualities that lay within, not merely surface personality traits to play with, Then maybe they might take note of my older styled respectable demeanor. If we want respect we don't get it by forcing others to respect us, we earn it by our own qualities, our persona, and our virtues, not just the claims of honesty, trust worthiness and loyalty, but the years later turn around and look and smile version, of being able to spend that time with someone worthy.

Its what a heart offers that makes me look into a woman's eyes to find their thoughts
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Constitution if that counts, Movies? Obvious ones "The Terminal" with Tom Hanks (one of my favorite actors tho he stunk in "Captain Phillips" it was just a bad production is all.....LOL "Green Mile" "Shawshank redemption" others not so obvious "Iron Man" series, "The Professional" , "Marley and Me" (not the puppy years that bombed) . Are you the type of lady that can appreciate being with a grown man that can actually shed a slight lite tear over a silly sad movie about a dog? hehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The hope in itself that there is someone out there, water, air, my pup and those soft eyes and cuddles and snuggles she is so good at, worth of purpose, but not all in that order, someone actually needing me there.

Deal Breakers

We all have them, in one form or another, things we just cannot abide with. So a short list should save our time and not get tempers roaring out of control LOL:::

IF, you think that selfie shot of you in the mirror looking straight down your blouse to flash you boobs at any and everybody, is a photo of your better attractive qualities that will land you a worthy gent, we are not like minded enough to pursue a relationship no doubt. Don't be offended, its just a matter of tastes.

If you think a profile introduction is to state all your entertainment requests, traveling the world, gambling night at the casino, biker babe pee-pad riding, or over indulgent cruise ship trips abroad? We are probably not attuned to similar interests. I think an intro should talk about yourself, your qualities, your intent at finding a partner and not some entertainment list demanding consent to pursue a relationship to defeat an otherwise overly bored life, well I personally accurately feel that we should both be more mature and common sense minded than that is all.

If you have no photos, we can't get started. If you only have one photo of yourself, or a short profile with "I'll tell you later" in all the form slots? well, I pursue that special someone with more intent and interest than that. I have more patience, more virtuosity and more drive than that. So I need something similar in return, more than one photo, and more than empty content when it should be an honest righteous endeavor to explain your lifestyle and persona. It may take us a while to fill out the questionnaire of course, but we should end up with something that looks like an honest attempt at opening a door, and a genuine effort shown to openly share.

If you have a photo in there from ten years ago or more, and use the excuse "It's just a then and now thing" to hide a truer intent of deception by just getting someone to look first, we are not a match. My oldest photo is from a year ago so if you have a photo or two of yourself from 5 years or more ago, you need to get current ones on there and give up the hope of pulling a quick one over on someone is all. It may seem sort of curt or a jab, but we all get tired of the claims of honesty and then the deceitful truths with poor excuses when it comes to a vain attempt at self-justifications for their own sins. It is our hearts we are dealing with here, and intentionally deceiving or seeking to harm is as bad as kicking a baby or abusing elderly people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How life is a messed up world out there, people too self-centered to allow the variety to be a blessing instead of the cause of wars, the division of life, and the downfall of society. Without a variety it would a boring messed up place as it is, but without harmony it isn't worth the walk.

We need far more unity just for the sake of meeting-in-the-middle to create harmony and purpose.

I wonder how many truly put thought into their profile. So many can easily state that they don't NEED a significant other in their life, but... yet not many say why the WANT a man in their life. The answers to that would probably be revealing to themselves more so than to others out here. Besides their "bucket list" they ought to write down their "why list" and explain to themselves the reasons why they want someone in life to share it with.

It might help them realize what they need to look for in a person. Are you about as tired as I am finding these profiles that are too busy to write something other than to put, "Ask me" in their introductions and "about me" areas? hehehaha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, enjoying my pup for company (better than some humans I meet) cooking something decent and fulfilling, but there's no one there on the other side of the table is all, need to remedy maybe you on the other side of the table, or sharing the couch potato space iwth me and that cute puppy in teh photos, or maybe well....we will have to make that up as we go along and catching a good movie on streaming computer to the TV, sort of like Netflix but better, spend allot of time renovating the place, constantly looking to better the environment around home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I put the lid back down when I'm done!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.

You thought the above profile was too long-winded but worth the read, for if someone doesn't have enough patience to read through that content in order to discover what "some" of the me-inside is like, they are not the patient person I seek.

They have no selection for long term relationship or partner, so add that in pls .

I've written a piece of my heart into this in order to express some of my inner feelings. I look for that profile that offers the same, where someone took the time to write a bit of their own heart into it without posing a mere guise of flamboyant fantasy. hehehe

Best of luck to one and all in receiving what you justly deserve in your search.