Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


36 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:33am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Kenny G is the devil and white "chocolate" isn't chocolate. If you cannot handle those truths, you can move right onto the next shirtless bathroom selfie, it wasn't meant to be. Otherwise. on:

Like a lot of you, I hate filling these things out. It's hard to "boil down" all the different traits and facets of my personality into a few quick descriptions. But here goes with the basics:

I'm a father to 3 year old boy/girl twins. They are adorable and make me glad to come home! They are both challenging in their own unique ways, but they continue to amaze me, humble me and teach me a lot about life. I'm very grateful for them both.

I'm a business analyst for a telecomm company. I have world's most "difficult to explain, incredibly dull sounding job." I enjoy the challenge and it's something I'm "good at" I suppose. It's what I do, not who I am. I often find myself longing to chuck it all and do something "more meaningful" for much less money. Kids and insurance needs keep me from such a drastic decision, though (for the time being). I enjoy being good at what I do, professionaly and appreciate advancing in it, but I have zero desire to be a "corporate ladder climber" Not for me at all.

UPDATE: I pulled the trigger on "doing something more meaningful with my life! Next week is my last day at my corporate job as I start grad school to get my Master's in Counseling Psychology!

I don't have a lot of "free time", but when I do, I enjoy reading, baking, photography, going for walks and exploring some place new. I struggle with whether to identify as an introvert or extrovert. I'm definitely not one to be energized by a busy dinner party, but generally don't enjoy loads of alone time. I mostly crave spending one on one time with someone special: having great converations or doing something fun or new together.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, re-discovering myself, working on new baking projects and trying to figure out this crazy new life as a single parent to young kids.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking bread, home made pizzas, computers and other geeky stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, I don't know. I'm tall, I suppose...maybe my smile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: The Truman Show, Goodwill Hunting, Shawshank Redemption

TV: Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Star Trek: Enterprise, Firefly, Jericho

Music: U2, Nirvana, various Jazz subgenres
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) God (even when it seems like I could, I can't)
2) Hope
3) My kids
4) My self-deprecating sense of humor
5) My Nissin thermos, which I use as a water bottle. That thing keeps water seriously cold. Ice water in it, left in a hot car for the day....still got ice water!
6) My pizza peel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm at a place in my life where I'm "re-learning" a lot of who I am, what I want out of life and my place in the world. My mantra these days is from a U2 song: "The more you see, the less you know, the less you find out as you go. I know much more then, than I do now."

I'm humbled by an awareness that I am less certain about a number of things than I used to be and more certain about a few.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, playing Ingress, which is a cross between geocaching and "capture the flag." It involves driving around the city, "hacking portals", destroying enemy portals and linking them together. It's one of the geekiest things I've done.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I didn't have perfect 20/20 vision, I think I'd look good in glasses. Plus, I could take them off and chew on them when thinking through a really tough philosophical question.

I struggle with how to answer the "religion" category. I wish there was an option that said: "Christian and failing miserably at it." That would fit. I'm not necessarily only looking to date other Christians, but to borrow a line from a friend: it's the only context in which I make sense. I want to be with someone that I can relate to (spiritually, philosophically, etc..) That's typically other Christians; but often there are a lot of them I don't relate to either.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a relationship where you can feel free to be real and transparent, expecting the same in return.