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My self-summary
I am not a tourist but I am only in town for a week

Passport in hand, I'm a grounded gypsy, a pragmatic romantic, an east-west coaster, and equal parts urban and nature addict.

I'm allergic to complacency and addicted to learning, travel, live music and anything I can conveniently order off a menu.

How about sharing a bottle of wine downtown and leaving this site forever?
What I’m doing with my life
Never mistaken for a homebody. I prefer moving, doing, and dancing.

I love to indulge in long dinners lingering over appetizers and cocktails.

The kids are in college and my business is sold.

One word: freedom :). Traveled 18 weeks in 2015 all for fun :)
I’m really good at
Being spontaneous. Having fun.
Scuba diving. Traveling.

Discussing literature music and film.

Although I no longer teach, I stay closely tied to my doctoral interests in postmodern American film, literature, and culture.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm smart and funny, playful, charming, in charge, passionate, articulate, direct, painfully honest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: I see most singer songwriters who pass through town.
Brooklyn Bowl, Bunkhouse and BLVD Pool at Cosmo are local favorites.

Elvis Costello, Phosporescent, Damien Rice, Ryan Adams, the National, Bob, Bruce, Leonard, Bright Eyes, Laura Marling, Savages

Beckett, Auster, Kathy Acker, Lydia Davis, Delillo, Bellow

Although I have a massive new smart tv I do not have cable--only netflix and hobgo for lazy wintry evenings.
The six things I could never do without
the music
the meal
the touch
the ocean
the travel
the dance
the kiss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the vacation from the vacation

how to be a better lover
On a typical Friday night I am
listening to live music after an incredible dinner
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
How fucking great it is to be in my forties!
You should message me if
You are fit. Healthy. And full of life.

You more than enjoy eating out, you live a healthy lifestyle, you love a fine cocktail or glass of wine, dancing and hanging out.

But don't get me wrong, I equally enjoy a night on the couch catching up with movies, cuddling.

If you don't look like your pics you are buying drinks til you do.