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  • Ages 40–50
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  • Who are single
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My self-summary
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I'm a college educated, single, no kids or strings attached female living in WV. I have traveled quite a bit - London, England; Dumfries, Scotland; Sydney, Australia, most of the Caribbean, Toronto, Canada and a few places inside the U.S. - NYC, San Francisco, Houston-Galveston, and of course to some east coast beaches and to see Mickey Mouse in Orlando :) I love seeing something new, or seeing something I liked over and over (ok, so I went to see Mickey 4 times). I'm very content with my life right now, If you missed it in the pictures, I fit into the bbw category, and since I'm healthy (on no meds at all at 45) I figure I will more than likely always be a big girl :) Everybody has preferences and turn ons and if that's not yours, that's ok too. In a world where people say they want honesty, but really only want to hear someone agree with them, the truth is I'm not attracted to black men. Nothing racist, just a preference, I also am not particularly attracted to very young or really skinny guys either, wow all this honesty will probably get me sued for something, but I prefer notto waste my time thinking a guy is rreally into me when he has no attraction, but just enjoys talking, which is cool too, but I prefer to be up front with intentions.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a "unicorn job" with a land company in the coal, oil, gas & timber industry, but I work to live, don't live to work. Hoping that all of my planning pays off and I'm an early retiree in a decade!! I do some Autocad freelance for a surveyor from home, and make silver, bronze and glass jewelry that on occasion I sell at arts and crafts shows.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh, sometimes at inappropriate times :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I'm at our local high school game, maybe the fact that I have a large blue mustache, maybe the fact that I'm generally having a good time no matter where I am - yes, I always sit at "the cool kids table", maybe my smile, my eyes, probably my boobs if you're a guy into that ... maybe I just THINK that's what they notice, but it's really that on any given day I might be dressed as a pirate, posing with a penguin or just being the "Ruler of the Universe" while I 'm directing a play for the youth at my church .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - love mystery, then probably romance, I got a Kindle and fell in love - it's like living in the library and I can get a new book about anything 24/7!
Movies - anything but slasher
Music - anything but rap, love the old 80's hair bands :)
Food - pretty much anything, not so much into sushi or Indian, and I really hate salad - how else could I maintain my figure!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Funny how you think you can't do without something, and then it's gone, and well, look at you - all living and stuff ;)

I think this question should say - things you really adore for the moment in this life :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the next vacation I want to take.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night in fall could mean football, mustache, cow bell and all Go Vikings!!! Friday night in winter, seriously, my blanket, the fireplace, a book or a movie until I find the right guy to keep me warm! In the summer I'm usually outside. Usually plant a small garden - love to can my own tomato sauce, and always try to keep some Italian peppers, food tastes sooo much better when you grow it yourself. Love love love the water, so my pool is my best friend all summer :) Sometimes I just do regular stuff, go out to dinner or a movie, or just hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I worked for a lawyer for 7 years - I never admit anything :)
You should message me if
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you want to talk and on occasion put up with my smart ass answers, if you want to meet me for lunch and see where things go, or if you want to try to impress me into marrying you ...... yes, that's a smart ass answer! :)