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48 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 29–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29, 2013
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A summary of self? Isn't that a lot to ask for? Wouldn't it be better if someone else could fill this out for you? Especially someone who doesn't like you? At least the usual cliches ("caring," "engaging," "passionate") would not have to be resorted to. Let's see...I'm generally content with my life--where it's been and where it's going to, have great friends, and don't use emoticons to express myself...even ironically.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer. I write librettos for opera and lyrics for musical theatre. I have 5 premieres in 2011. I want more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oddly, I can't get my head out of the gutter with this question. I'll get back to it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It depends on the angle. From the front, the eyes. From the back, not the eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There's so much. I'll just throw out names and sound really pretentious: britten, wharton, visconti, dawn powell, jane kenyon, prokofiev, radio dept, stravinsky, faure, part, barber, bernstein, the animal collective, anthony and the johnsons, bacon (the artist and the food), freud (the artist and the psychiatrist), dix (put salacious pun here), sondheim (of course), thom gunn...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
see list above and choose six things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
writing. sex. not being distracted from writing by sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there is no typical friday night for me. nor any other day of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
admitting something private in a public forum. good one. sounds like an opportunity for rank cuteness.