I make an effort to be honest and thoughtful and to communicate openly without being rude, so if you're looking for a "bad boy" who will break your heart and then move on or someone into "radical honesty", you won't find him here. I have no swagger or cockiness. I lack the charming arrogance of Erol Flynn or the seductive dangerousness of James Dean (or James Bond). I'm more David Niven or Jimmy Stewart. Or Paddington Bear. :-)
I am bookish, outdoorsy, and geeky. For what it's worth, I think OK Cupid's Personality assay of me is pretty on the nose (except that I think I'm a good deal more creative than they give me credit for). I'm kink-positive, and I have a profile on FetLife. If that's an issue, best to know up front.