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27 F Brisbane, Australia

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
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  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 0″ (1.53m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Working on space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Ostensibly gloomy looking (but covertly harboring deep bleeding heart tendencies) INTP that likes the romantic period and list-making. Materialist, but only a very hesitant monist.

Sometimes when I think about the magnitude of the world's problems and (IF, not always) feel overwhelmed, I then think about the chances of an existential risk eventuating and feel consoled. When I think about the magnitude of my problems and (IF, not always) feel overwhelmed, I then think about dying and feel consoled. That is the sort of consistent I am.

Deep down I am gentle as a lamb, really.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

"It seemed like a good idea at the time." I use this one rather a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"where are you from" - not in fact a hapa

people often assume me to be either much older or much younger than I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Non-fiction, 19th century/romantic period, magical realism.

Movies: Griff the Invisible; Kaufman; Lust, Caution; Rampo Noir; Mulholland Drive; Black Swan; Studio Ghibli; Inception; Inglourious Basterds; Atonement; etc.

Music: "Classical" (but nothing composed between 1750 and 1820), Opera, most competent vocal music (all those hemi-demis!! o_O), Musical theatre, French pop -- but I can appreciate most styles of music.

Food: pornographic sweets, particularly of the raw, vegan kind; coffee; lemons in everything.

Internet hangs: Married to the Sea, Extra Ordinary, Less Wrong (if you only click on one link in my profile...), Abstruse Goose, Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality, and like everyone else, Wikipedia
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

opportunity costs

how to reconcile my numerous and apparently divergent interests

why the world fails in such obvious, simple to correct ways eg.
-why so few shops adhere to the wednesday - sunday work week, when it would be clearly more profitable for the shops and more convenient for most shoppers
-why pathological overeating isn't treated as widely as pathological undereating, when it is clearly more prevalent
-why leaves, when leaves
-why sequitur, when you can non-sequitur

reminding myself to apply Orwell's Rules of writing so I word salad less
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ballet class, then contemporary class, then either to a live show or getting catch-up sleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Dunbar's number is exceptionally low. It's not you, it's me.

I have a masochistic streak.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I was primarily here to journal. If you are an ex-journaller, message me for the link to the facebook group.

you want to hang out and/or be internet friends, or

you're located in Australia or NZ and have arranged for yourself to be cryogenically frozen after death (<--NOT sarcasm ftr), and want to share how you've made that work