I am “50ish”, appear younger (due to luck or immature dress and behaviour will be up to you to decide), tallish and apparently somewhat intimidating. I have tattoos, intend to get more, tan too easily in the spring leading to an annoying “farmer’s tan” because I have a “real” job that requires wearing a shirt, and tend to shave my hair very short.
I don’t have a driver’s license, didn't go to high school and didn't get a “real” job until I was 40. Some people think I have a problem with authority. I *do* think the world we live in is a hodgepodge of best guesses, quick fixes, and stuff that probably worked at one time. I’m a lefty humanist, atheist, very opinionated and inclined to share my point view of on all this stuff.
I’m a constant intellectualizer and occasional pessimist who can often talk myself out of anything. I have moments (i.e., weeks) of what I like to call “artistic temperament.”
I’m an aspiring artist who mostly draws tattoo concept images, dragons, and trees. I’m told I’m an entertaining writer. My dream jobs include being an old hippy guy selling t-shirts at music festivals, a “senior punk” yoga instructor, or a James Bond style supervillian. These would require me to upgrade my business savvy to the level of an old hippy, learn how to teach yoga, or gain an interest in hard science. Oh well.
I am polyamorous/open. I have an SO who is also on OK Cupid, and two kids, all of whom I love and enjoy spending time with – this takes up a fair bit of my time. I also have a job that sounds interesting and stuff but actually bores me - they pay me to be there – this also takes up time.
I’m what I think of as a “radical consent junkie.” I prefer to give rather than receive. I like to explore, and like best of all to see other people experiencing pleasure.
My Motivations for Being on OK Cupid (AKA About me, part 2)
People are the best experiences in the world.
I like meeting people who have a similar outlook on the world, but bring something else to inspire/expand, and maybe awe. Sexual energy is good, but so is personality click. Successful combinations tend to be random by my observations. Things aren’t always what you think or want them to be – that’s OK.