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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 29
White, Other
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Wants kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here's the short and sweet: I'm a geek, hopeless romantic, avid reader, avid watcher with a high paying job to support geek lifestyle. Tada! Too simple? I like to travel, hang with this great group of friends, root for the Giants, boo the Dodgers, read any thing I can get my hands on and play video games like a pro.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work. I study. I live. I learn. I spend my free time exploring. Be it a book, a movie, a song or a new place, I am ALWAYS exploring. Cities are among my favorite places, but I love being AWAY, too.

But why is it so hard to find someone
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Gaming! Movie trivia! Back rubs! Voice impersonations! Well, these are true, but I like to think I'm a good listener (fits in with my career choice heh) and a strong thinker. I also think I'm pretty good at comedy (sarcastic, slapstick, dark, you name it!). I've also been told I know how to say the right thing at the right moment, so maybe you'll ask and find out if that's true. Above all else, I'm exceptional at emotional intuition...its hard to explain, but if you know what an empath is, you'll understand.

to share it all with?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height. Ha, no really, I'm like 6' 3". After that, I'd guess my eyes? And when I open my mouth, the next thing will likely be my sense of humor. And, while it's a little harder to coax it out of me, people might see that I'm a hopeless romantic. I love to love and when I fall for someone (not as often as you might think), I tend to fall hard...which usually winds up with me hurt, but that's the risk ya take heh. Also, I'm a sucker for the lovey-dovey stuff, but ssh! Tell no one, I'll lose macho points!

Someone decent, honest
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Long lists, so I'll cut it down to a few on my mind.

Books: Neverwhere, Time Traveler's Wife, Blindness, Snowcrash, GoT, King of Plagues...way, WAY too many =P

Music: Everything but country (its just too depressing)

TV: Comedies, drama, scifi stuff. Game of Thrones, 30 Rock, Firefly, Walking Dead, Doctor Who, Community, Fringe, Adventure Time, Castle, Warehouse 13, Arrow, tons more, etc

Movies: Amelie, Aliens, Spirited Away, Role Models, The Lake House, BASEketball, Terminator, Hook, Back to the Future...yet again, far too many to list.

So yeah, my lists are looooooong, so this is an itty bitty sampling =P

intelligent and seeking a future?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SF Giants
A good book
Rain/breeze/cloudy skies (preferable weather counts as one heh)

Are you out there?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The things I want to do with that special someone, the amazing places in the world I want to go to with that someone, possibly finding the most perfect place to raise a family. Then I think about games, movies, books, etc lol. First and foremost, I think about my goals and how to achieve far so good, just need to find someone to share them with now.

It feels like time is slipping
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love that I get off work @ 5 for one. Then I'm hanging out with a great group of friends whose collective humor could make Darth Vader crack up. That or I'm enjoying music/book combo, watching a good tv show/Giants game/movie or driving my friends around/walking around until 3am or so. Insomnia can be fun! ESPECIALLY in San Francisco! Ever just relax on a moonlit beach at 3am? Epic! Now if I only could find someone willing to tag along ;)

and it's getting faster
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a really over-active sense of humor, but I can be fairly serious too. Depends who I'm with I guess =P And, of course, there's that hopeless romantic thing but again, ssshhh! I'll lose bro-points!

So many of them
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of what you read interests you =) I honestly just want to find someone special to have and hold blah blah blah lol, so if this sounds like something you'd be into, drop a line! Or if you simply feel like hanging out, wanna kill some boredom or just feel like having a few laughs, a good conversation/comparison/debate of tv/movie/music/book stuff, drop a message, I won't bite (unless asked to xD). I've made just-friends-only friends here on OKC, it doesn't have to be just for dating =)

So few of you