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39 Pittsburgh, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The Basics:
I am a dork by nature and a geek by trade.
I am an open-minded, opportunistic troublemaker.

Fun Facts:
- May have GM'ed a game or two.
- The last movie to scare me was Poltergeist.
- I quit smoking two years ago as a promise to my daughter.
- My dependence on spell check and auto text is alarming.
- It would be cool to build a container home.
- Prefer long weekends over extended vacations.
- Even though I hate heights, I love climbing.
- I can be extremely awkward via chat/email/text.
- I may have been called a flirt once or twice.. :)
- I am developing a new card game.

I am both Polysexual and Polyamorous, which according to Woody Allen, should mean 4x the chance for a date on Saturday night. Though it has given me a lot of opportunity for growth and perspective about myself. I have been Poly since I was 20 years old and was married for 14 years. Currently I have a lover who is very special to me. Recently I just got out of a 5 year relationship and I am enjoying this period of transition and growth. So whether it be friends, lovers or more... I'm looking forward to this state of my life.

I am extremely talkative and interested in EVERYTHING! If you have a difficult time being around happy interesting people, then you should mosey on down to some grump. ;) /sarcam
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying raising my daughter, who is seriously awesome, fun and smart. She continues to amaze me everyday. I love spending time with her. She is already too cute for her own good.

I also own my own business providing Managed IT Services to small businesses. It keeps me extremely busy but I love what I do and couldn't imagine doing anything else.

I have been toying with the idea of going back to school and taking some classes. Though I just can't seem to settle on what to take.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have an uncanny ability to give people social strength. I am the human form of alcohol... :P
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My troublemaker grin! I have a PhD in dares and pranks but I promise to use this knowledge only for purposes of good - unless requested otherwise... ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Ender's Game and Chronicles of Amber...

Movies: Star Wars, Shawshank Redemption, Starship Troopers, Fight Club and hundreds more. I'm a movie guy. Love all kinds of movies.

Music: I will listen to just about anything and love anything with a great beat. Mostly though I listen to some form of electronica because it makes me happy.

Food: People use to say that I was a picky eater. Lately I seem to venturing out of my confort zone when it comes to food these days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wow, only 6 things huh? Guess I'll keep it simple here.

1. My daughter - She is the greatest thing to happen to me.
2. My friends - Glad to have people who are there for me and who tolerate me ;)
3. Dancing/Martial Arts - My soul has a beat and it's hard to ignore.
4. My phone/computer/internet - This is mostly business related. Without this I couldn't do my job.
5. My job - I actually love my job. It is hard work and a pain in the ass, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
6. Intimacy/stimulation - Whether it's emotional, mental or physical. That is where bonds are formed with friends, loves, partners, etc. I want people in my life that can move me, stimulate me, inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I love to think about every type of situation and scenario. I love working through them in as much detail as possible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either sitting at home watching a movie, doing a little gaming, hanging out with friends, going to a party or hitting the various clubs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm secretly in love with infinite possibilities of things. Jealous types, be warned!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Well I'm sure I could list a whole big list of reasons why you should message me and I'm sure that the list would be AWESOME but instead I'll just give you a few reasons that you may NOT want to message me:

1. You have a problem with people who are not hetero. It is who I am and I have no intent of hiding that.
2. I am poly. You do not have to be but I'm not the monogamous type. I'm not a male-whore either.
3. If you are searching for a future something-or-other then I may not be your guy. I like this to be organic, no expectations.
4. You are in a relationship and your partner isn't aware you are open. You WILL meet those that I am involved with, I expect the same.

So message away. I love people who are not afraid to make the first move. However, if you are having a hard time then here are a few conversation starters to help:

- Let's discuss Sociology, psychology, politics, science and philosophy.
- If you were to skip work/school tomorrow what would you want to go do?
- What are you not spending enough time doing?
- Tell me about your favorite games (computer, board, card, etc)
- Hit me up with the cheesiest pickup line you can muster.