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39 M Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 16
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The Basics:
I am a dork by nature and a geek by trade.
I am an open-minded, opportunistic troublemaker.

Fun Facts:
- When I read, I restructure the sentences as I read.
- The last movie to scare me was Poltergeist.
- I quit smoking two years ago as a promise to my daughter.
- My dependence on spell check and auto text is alarming.
- I am not a fan of swimming.
- Prefer long weekends over extended vacations.
- Even though I hate heights, I love climbing.
- I can be extremely awkward via chat/email/text.
- I may have been called a flirt once or twice.. :)
- I am developing a new card game.

I am both bisexual and poly, which according to Woody Allen, should mean 4x the chance for a date on Saturday night. Though it has given me a lot of opportunity for growth and perspective about myself. I have been Poly since I was 20 years old and was married for 14 years. Currently I have a lover who is very special to me. Recently I just got out of a 5 year relationship and I am enjoying this period of transition and growth. So whether it be friends, lovers or more... I'm looking forward to this state of my life.

I am extremely talkative and interested in EVERYTHING! If you have a difficult time being around happy interesting people, then you should mosey on down to some grump. ;) /sarcam
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying raising my daughter, who is seriously awesome, fun and smart. She continues to amaze me everyday. I love spending time with her. She is already too cute for her own good.

I also own my own business providing Managed IT Services to small businesses. It keeps me extremely busy but I love what I do and couldn't imagine doing anything else.

I have been toying with the idea of going back to school and taking some classes. Though I just can't seem to settle on what to take.
I’m really good at
I have an uncanny ability to give people social strength. I am the human form of alcohol... :P
The first things people usually notice about me
My troublemaker grin! I have a PhD in dares and pranks but I promise to use this knowledge only for purposes of good - unless requested otherwise... ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ender's Game and Chronicles of Amber...

Movies: Star Wars, Shawshank Redemption, Starship Troopers, Fight Club and hundreds more. I'm a movie guy. Love all kinds of movies.

Music: I will listen to just about anything and love anything with a great beat. Mostly though I listen to some form of electronica because it makes me happy.

Food: People use to say that I was a picky eater. Lately I seem to venturing out of my confort zone when it comes to food these days.
The six things I could never do without
Wow, only 6 things huh? Guess I'll keep it simple here.

1. My daughter - She is the greatest thing to happen to me.
2. My friends - Glad to have people who are there for me and who tolerate me ;)
3. Dancing/Martial Arts - My soul has a beat and it's hard to ignore.
4. My phone/computer/internet - This is mostly business related. Without this I couldn't do my job.
5. My job - I actually love my job. It is hard work and a pain in the ass, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
6. Intimacy/stimulation - Whether it's emotional, mental or physical. That is where bonds are formed with friends, loves, partners, etc. I want people in my life that can move me, stimulate me, inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I love to think about every type of situation and scenario. I love working through them in as much detail as possible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either sitting at home watching a movie, doing a little gaming, hanging out with friends, going to a party or hitting the various clubs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm secretly in love with infinite possibilities of things. Jealous types, be warned!
I’m looking for
  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well I'm sure I could list a whole big list of reasons why you should message me and I'm sure that the list would be AWESOME but instead I'll just give you a few reasons that you may NOT want to message me:

1. You have a problem with bisexual males. It is who I am and I have no intent of hiding that.
2. I am poly. You do not have to be but I'm not the monogamous type. I'm not a male-whore either.
3. If you are searching for a future something-or-other then I may not be your guy. I like this to be organic, no expectations.
4. You are in a relationship and your partner isn't aware you are open. You WILL meet those that I am involved with, I expect the same.

So message away. I love people who are not afraid to make the first move. However, if you are having a hard time then here are a few conversation starters to help:

- Let's discuss Sociology, psychology, politics, science and philosophy.
- If you were to skip work/school tomorrow what would you want to go do?
- What are you not spending enough time doing?
- Tell me about your favorite games (computer, board, card, etc)
- Hit me up with the cheesiest pickup line you can muster.