I am intelligent, compassionate, and unique.
My Self-Summary
I always have a hard time writing about myself because I am never
quite sure what to say...
I'm a
nurse. I work
in a nursing home / rehabilitation center for elderly patients and
for patients who are recovering from illness/surgery. It is a
decent job, but it is pretty demanding, and tends to leave me with
little free time. I did cut back on my hours a little, which has
helped. But I still feel as though I live there a lot of
days....
If you would like to know more, please ask :)
I'm
curious by
nature so sometimes I ask people questions that aren't exactly...
polite? I'm sorry if this happens to you and I offend you, really
I'm not trying to offend, I just simply like to know everything
about everything. I, of course, don't know everything, but I can
dream, right?
I especially like to know about medical stuff, for obvious reasons.
So don't start about a medical condition you or someone you know
has unless you are prepared to talk about it for an hour. lol. Or
not, I don't get offended when people won't answer my questions or
tell me to shut up.
I enjoy
television,
movies,
playing
and/or chatting on the computer,
texting,
hanging out with
friends,
music,
Karaoke,
meeting new
people,
goofing around,
games, that includes board games and
video games (I haven't done much of either lately due to not having
anyone to play with, and the fact that I don't personally own any
video games :p) and plenty of other things... If you want
specifics, once again, just ask :)
I've been told I have a great
sense of humor, and a wonderful
ability to make people
laugh. I apparently have a unique way of
saying things that ends up to be fairly humerous a lot of the
time... I've also been told that simply me laughing can cheer
people up and make them laugh along with me. Sometimes I wonder if
people are lying..
I am a cautious driver, so cautious that it apparently scares
people! I'm not sure how that even happens! LOL. I have a horrible
sense of direction and have actually driven around lost and ran out
of gas! Haha.
Oh, and I really really like to
cuddle :).
Someone pointed out to me the other day that I seem to like 'nerdy'
guys. It's funny because some other people around me thought that
it was actually an insult. But it wasn't meant that way, because
there's nothing wrong with nerdy guys. And here's a little secret:
she was right :p, I usually do end up going out with guys that are
kind of nerdy. It's ok if you aren't, though. I'm open
minded.
I'm tired of lies and excuses. I hate dishonesty, I have very
little patience for it. I'd rather hear the hard truth than a
pretty little lie any day. And don't play games with me, I don't
have much patience for that either.
I have also been told multiple times that there is no one else
remotely like me in the world. I hope that is really true. I'd hate
to be like anyone else.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated in 2008 with my Nursing Diploma (LPN). I am currently
doing a self-study program in attempt to get my Associate's degree
(RN), as well as doing some anytime/anywhere classes through
Kirkwood to get a jump-start on a Bachelor's degree. I really do
plan to get a Master's degree someday. I would like to become a
nurse practitioner or physician's assistant, but it's quite a long
road to get from here to there. I've always been good at school,
but don't particularly like it that much and I have trouble staying
focused when I have so much else going on in my life.
So for now, I am just being the best nurse and single mom that I
can be, and looking for new friends, and the possibly of more. I'm
also always on the lookout for fun people to e-mail back and forth
with or talk to on instant messenger. I do spend some time online
when I can and enjoy talking to people.
I really would like to find that special someone someday :).
I’m really good at
I try to be good at whatever I attempt :) I have been told I am
good at
listening, but I am also a talker. I
am also very good at
helping people, it is what I like
to do. This is why I am a nurse. Oh, and I'm fairly
intelligent, so
hopefully that makes me good at the school related things that I am
doing.
Problem solving. I'm pretty
good at solving problems too, I tend to be a pretty creative
thinker, at least sometimes. Creativity is awesome, and I fear that
I'm losing some of the creativity that I used to have... Some
people say that I'm good at
singing, but once again, I seriously
think that people lie about such things. My son likes my singing,
though, so I suppose it can't be too awful bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
My pretty blue eyes and big
smile. And my wealth of
personality. Oh, and my silly
sense of
humor :) And, of course, everyone also notices that I am fairly
smart and can carry on an intelligent conversation.
Also, I tend to be fairly nervous/shy when speaking to someone the
first time face-to-face, and I'm sure that's pretty noticeable as
well. But... When I get to know people I get a lot less nervous,
more
friendly,
more comfortable, and more
sarcastic. And I can be a big-time
flirt if I like you.
And yes, I am, what I refer to as "soft around the edges." Meaning,
I guess, that I am what some people would refer to as "chubby" or
something of that nature. If you have a problem with that then I
guess you're missing out, shallowness is extremely overrated. After
all, you can't judge a book by its cover, and in the same way you
can't tell all about a person until you take a deeper look and see
who they really are.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books:
Stephen
King,
John
Grisham, and
Piers Anthony, just to name a few.
I really wish I actually had time to read these days.
Movies: I like
chick flicks,
comedies, and
horror movies.
Music: Not really picky, I just listen to whatever is on the
radio.
Food: I like food :). Some of my favorites are
chocolate,
ice cream,
pizza, and
potato salad. :D. Wow, that's all
really healthy... I'm a little bit of a picky eater, but not
really. And I'll try pretty much anything once..
The six things I could never do without
My son. Love. My computer. Friends and family. Food, water,
shelter, oxygen. Phone. Personal hygiene items.
(Those are in no particular order)
(and yes I know that's more than 6, deal with it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and what it may hold. The irony in how life plays out,
and the way I often find myself in places/situations that I never
though I'd be in. And wondering what life has in store for me since
it has so far not gone anywhere close to any kind of plan that I
had made.
Sometimes I find myself wondering if there is that special person
out there for me... And what is taking him so long to stumble into
my life :). I'm not really that impatient, though, I take things
one day at a time, and know that we'll find each other someday, if
it's meant to be...
I know who and what I am. I also know what I want and where I'm
going. I'm not exactly sure when or how I am going to get there,
but I will get there someday.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, playing with my son. Or watching TV or playing/chatting on
my computer. I work every other weekend, so every-other Friday
night I'm in bed early, because I have to get up before 5am to get
to work on time.
I do go out once in awhile, but only if I have someone interesting
to go out with, and I'm not really into the whole bar scene.
Going out can be a lot of fun, but typically I think that a fun
night in can often beat the socks off going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Ask me what you would like to know, I'm pretty much an open book.
You should message me if
You are interested, want to know more, or just want to chat :) And
if you are more interested in what is on the inside rather than
what is on the outside, as I really don't get along with shallow
people.
If you are looking for someone to chat with and don't mind if I go
a few days without talking to you, it doesn't mean I dislike you or
have become uninterested in talking with you, it simply means that
my life is crazy, and sometimes I fall asleep before 8pm...
I'm friendly enough and I don't bite.... hard :-p