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xXxDSMer

31 M Nokomis, FL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:48am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Easygoing, down to earth, respectful, safe, sane, definitely have a Dominant streak, am a sadist but not hardcore, and have a Primal streak as well. And yes i am into SM and a bit of bondage, but don't let that scare you off. I understand not everyone's going to like the same things I do. I do respect people's limits and wishes.

I've came to a self-realization that I'm a rather passionate person. I'm also quite sensual.
I like to *feel*... ie allow emotion to be part of experiences.
I can't do emotionless relationships (relationship is a very broad term)... nor would I want to do things without emotion.

Life is so much better when you're actually living. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You know.. the usual: working, paying bills, looking for someone to spend time with, enjoying my roof that is over my head, thankful to have a motorcycle (and do enjoy riding it).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Caring. Being compassionate. Knowing when I messed up (I am human and I do mess up sometimes).
Fixing things (computers, cars, motorcycles, bicycles....)
Being socially awkward.
Causing female orgasms and lasting a long time.
Being a sensual Sadomasochist (if you're into it, or curious about it).
Also critical thinking, analytical thinking, and researching a topic if I don't already know the answer.
And apparently being kinky: http://preview.tinyurl.com/lkyohyk
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It would depend in what situation they're noticing things about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: been a while since I've read, but coming to mind at the moment is Tom Clancy.

Movies: generally action, comedy, drama, fantasy

Shows: Grimm, Merlin, Once Upon a Time, The 100, NCIS, Bones, Castle, Glee, and more.
curious about: Game of Thrones

Music: Modern rock of different flavors, electronica/techno, sometimes country, classical.

Food: pretty much the usual stuff, possibly willing to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
communication
respect
adoration
trust
desire
compassion/caring
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a sensual sadist with a dominant streak, and I am not at all submissive.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not looking for a relationship/commitment (if I were looking for a 'girlfriend' it would be in my "I'm looking for".)

You're honest and up front about what you want.

You are kinky and you know it.
Or you are curious, open minded, and willing to try things.

You'd actually meet in person, in public, for coffee or whatever, and conversation to see if things could from strangers to friends.
Also possibly FWB / play partners.
I'm not looking for a booty call, nor looking to be treated like one.

You'd be willing to "go dutch" (Pay your own ticket/tab). I'm not here to play sugar daddy, nor am I looking for a sugar momma lol.

You live somewhere around Nokomis, Venice, Osprey, Englewood, Sarasota, North Port, Port Charlotte, Bradenton, etc. Maybe a bit farther.

You have your own place, or you can have company and we can do whatever we want to regardless of room mates or whatever your living situation is.
I can have you over and I would like you to be able to have me over as well.

And no, I am not 'afraid' of a 'relationship'. I just know very well what I am looking for. A friend (and I actually do mean a friend), that happens to also want to have bedroom fun or even fun at kinky events.

*just* friends are good too... but I'm not looking for online friends. I want in person friends, in real life. Not internet mail buddies lol.