xXxDSMer
32 Nokomis, FL
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My self-summary
Edited to add: one of my dislikes: is spending quite a long time reading every bit of a person's profile, many of their question responses, developing an interest, and go to message - only to get a popup saying I can't because their "Ages" is set too far from my current age.
People wonder why there's not much effort put into first messages a lot of the time... well the aforementioned is likely one reason, alongside not getting any response even with thought out specific messages wrote.
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Anyways, on to the profile...
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I am an old soul, and an introvert. Not into the latest shiny things... generally preferring function over form, and enjoying the simpler things.

Easygoing, down to earth, respectful, safe, sane, dominant or assertive personality type, am a sadist but not hardcore, and have a Primal streak as well. And yes I am into SM and a bit of bondage, but don't let that scare you off. I understand not everyone's going to like the same things I do. I do respect people's limits and wishes.

I've came to a self-realization that I'm a rather passionate person. I'm also quite sensual.
I like to *feel*... ie allow emotion to be part of experiences.
I can't do emotionless relationships (relationship is a very broad term)... nor would I want to do things without emotion.

Life is so much better when you're actually living. :)
What I’m doing with my life
You know.. the usual: working, paying bills, looking for someone to spend time with, enjoying my roof that is over my head, thankful to have a motorcycle (and do enjoy riding it).
I’m really good at
Caring. Being compassionate. Knowing when I messed up (I am human and I do mess up sometimes).
Fixing things (computers, cars, motorcycles, bicycles....)
Being socially awkward.
Causing female orgasms and lasting a long time.
Being a sensual Sadist (if you're into it, or curious about it).
Also critical thinking, analytical thinking, and researching a topic if I don't already know the answer.
The first things people usually notice about me
It would depend in what situation they're noticing things about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: been a while since I've read, but coming to mind at the moment is Tom Clancy.

Movies: generally action, comedy, drama, fantasy

Shows: Grimm, Merlin, Once Upon a Time, The 100, NCIS, Bones, Castle, Glee, and more.
curious about: Game of Thrones

Music: Modern rock of different flavors, electronica/techno, sometimes country, classical.

Food: pretty much the usual stuff, possibly willing to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
communication
respect
adoration
trust
desire
compassion/caring
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a lot of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
myself. lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Kink is fun.
You should message me if
You're honest and up front about what you want.

You are kinky and you know it.
Or you are curious, open minded, and willing to try things.

You'd actually meet in person, in public, for coffee or whatever, and conversation to see if things could go from strangers to something more.

You'd be willing to "go dutch" (Pay your own ticket/tab). I'm not here to play sugar daddy, nor am I looking for a sugar momma.

You live somewhere around Nokomis, Venice, Osprey, Englewood, Sarasota, North Port, Port Charlotte, Bradenton, etc. Maybe a bit farther.

You have your own place, or you can have company and we can do whatever we want to regardless of room mates or whatever your living situation is.
I can have you over and I would like you to be able to have me over as well.

And no, I am not 'afraid' of a 'relationship'. I just know very well what I am looking for. A friend (and I actually do mean a friend), that happens to also want to have bedroom fun or even fun at kinky events.

*just* friends are good too... but I'm not looking for online friends. I want in person friends, in real life. Not internet mail buddies.

Also hoping to find "gifted" people / people with "abilities"
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