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43 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:08pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Odd, lapsed scientist, actor, writer, creative cooker. I'm funnier than I seem -- less serious. I have no tattoos -- my clothes aren't flashy -- I like things simple and elegant -- a touch dark. My walls are blank -- I've got a fertile imagination.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reaching -- continually -- lying in the gutter, peering up at the stars.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Metaphor. Blending flavors. Focus.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look serious. But seriously, I'm relatively funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shameless. Breaking Bad. Walking Dead. But enough about me...

Films by Alejandro González Iñárritu, Wong Kar Wai, and Ang Lee - Fallen Angels makes my heart swell, Lust/Caution rips it out.

Food - Cooking is the highlight of my day. I have a great big plate of fresh fruit every night for dessert. I exercise vigorously -- daily -- so I can eat whatever. I was thrilled to find that Cordon Bleu on CA/Polk survived the Lumiere's demise. Out The Door is my recent favorite.

I was raised on The Cure and punk rock. More in general, my tastes, so I'm told, tend to be strange. Most recently, music comes to me via Pandora.

When someone asks what my favorite book is, I have to ask which genre. These days, I'm spending time on friends' books, while they spend time on mine. Most recent read: South of the Border, West of the Sun.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Interesting food.
A good sweat, at least once a day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...machines that build the machines.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...happy for the leisure to sleep a little later. Sometimes out to dinner. On free days, I walk all over the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In suit and ridiculous powder-blue bowtie, I climbed an orange tree and hung upside down. I was 13. They said I was a man. Oh, and I jumped from a bridge naked. Everyone else was doing it, so...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. just happen to know me (yes, you, "Alice"), and want to poke fun.

All others:

You're creative and proactive -- inspire me, I'll inspire you.

And... you're adorable without trying -- trying to be adorable is like justifying would-be humor in a dull joke. Where humor comes naturally, so does adoration.

And... you're sensible enough to wear comfortable shoes.

And... You're not crazy. I've had enough crazy. Weird-crazy, scary-crazy. Enough!


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