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xanarchymox

26 / F / Bisexual / Single

Richmond, Virginia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 12:59am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
WWW.wingnutrva.org

Vegan, Straightedge, Anarchist, Queer, Lesbian,Polyamorous, Genderqueer, Feminist, Dog Lover

I want to date someone smart, good at conversation, badass in some way, and skilled. If you aren't any of the specific things I'm into, but you think you are smart etc the things I just listed I might give you a shot.

xvx

I value DIY, punk culture, community, reading zines, friends I can talk to, and clear communication.

I try really hard to stay positive and make sure I do my part to make things inclusive and help folks feel good about themselves.

I'm looking for someone my age or older basically- someone mature and responsible. I'm both, and totally capable of being silly too, but yea. I'm just not 20, not in college, etc. so I have a lot less in common with those folks, and I don't like the power dynamic of one person being more mature/responsible in a big way than the other. I've got a lot of my life worked out, I hope you do too. I don't want to date a minion or an intern. I'll make space in my busy life for someone who is worth it to me.

I hitchhiked across the country in 2011, which was my first time going west of the Mississippi.

I like the way humans smell.

I work part time as a stagehand and I'm trying to work a couple of hustles too- like babysitting and screenprinting etc.
I recently landed a full time job as a carpenter's apprentice and I LOVE IT.

I am polyamorous. I really want to find an anarchist that wants to date me and that I want to date. I am not interested in random sex, although cuddling and making out with less commitment is definitely fun. I don't have a primary partner right now, and I'm not sure how I feel about structured relationships. I hate feeling owned.

I live at the Wingnut Anarchist Collective in Richmond. I spend most of my time working with the collective and in our neighborhood, on explicitly anarchist projects. I don't get to travel much because of my responsibilities here. I'm fine with long distance stuff and boos in other locations, I just can't commit to but so many visits to other places.
I'm going to Puerto Rico in January to visit anarchist friends there.

I care a lot about social justice issues (ie racism, classism, sexism, homophobia, speciesism etc.) and so many of the things I choose to do revolve around those issues.

I am very outspoken.

I am sex positive.

I am into body mods like tattoos and piercings, but not super extreme stuff.

I'm really not stoked on the gender binary stuff. I am gender queer. I like thinking about passing (the book Nobody Passes is super good, my ex boo got me to read it). I prefer the pronoun "they". I'm pretty butch though. And attracted to butch women.

My profile says I'm bisexual, but only because they don't have an option for pansexual. Pansexual is different than bisexual because BI means two. That is an attraction to two genders, male and female. But there are more than two genders in the world, and i don't limit myself to just those two. (I jacked this explanation from someone elses profile). My gender of preference is anarchist...heh.

I have recently had a revelation of sorts, and I think I might be much closer to a lesbian on the sexuality spectrum. This is something I'm going to be exploring, but I want to be upfront with women I date or get involved with. Sexuality is complicated. Fuck if I know.

I want to work on improving my communication, to make me a better partner, friend, and activist.

I'm a morning person, more often than not I wake up cheerful. I don't like being around people who sleep in super late all the time or play video games etc. I love to be productive, and want to be surrounded with productive people. I reaaallly enjoy waking up early, making coffee and fancy breakfast, and reading while eating with a boo. I also really like waking up early and blasting some Mischief Brew and cleaning the house or starting a project.

I value responsibility, maturity, communication, respect and compassion in others.
I'm into folk punk, Dumpster Diving, trash picking, New Orleans, freight trains, overalls, DIY ,gardening, crafts, and zines.

I am anarchist, dirty, and vegan
What I’m doing with my life
I am renovating my house, filtering vegetable oil for my truck, dumpster diving, playing with my pitbulls, working as a nanny, working at a coffee shop, babysitting, doing food not bombs, helping organize the Richmond Zine Festival, riding my bike, general activism.

Playing flag football. Learning to bellydance.

Carpentry, home renovations, construction.

Approaching Apocalypse Zine Distro
Richmond Anarchist Black Cross
Richmond Food Not Bombs
Richmond Really Really Free Market
Richmond Zine Festival
Richmond Cop Watch
Richmond Community Autonomy Project

Interests:
Straight edge, Vegan, animal liberation, earth first!, green anarchist theory, anarcho primitivist ideas, ALF, ELF, rock climbing, hiking, canoeing, camping, I like to cook vegan food, go on picnics, play in the river, swim, printmaking, photography, art in general, reading shitty detective novels, reading political stuff, history, anarcho syndicalism, queer rights, reading anything about spanish anarchists and anarchist theory, debating, independent films, being sexy, sewing zippers on my clothes, painting my clothes, , train hopping, travelling, freight trains, new orleans, running around naked when no one is looking. running around naked when people ARE looking, crafts, bikes, urban planning, tea, coffee, the revolution, political science, sexual assault, accountability processes, how to deal with perpetrators, restorative justice.

Attempting to overthrow all hierarchies, both internally and externally. Opposing capitalism, sexism, racism, speciesism, transphobia, homophobia, white supremacy, and all forms of bigotry and oppression. (stole this from GutterGangster) Talking about privilege, passing, and how to deal with internal and external demons.

Consent consent consent consent consent consent consent. NOT just in sexual contexts. Consent, communication, and accountability in all relationships.

Getting to know my neighbors, antagonizing the police, making breakfast for kids, helping kids deal with bullies, trying to keep dogs from fighting, copwatch, food not bombs, buying guns, building things, gardening, making flyers, being angry at liberals, communists, fascists, maoists, tea partiers, and neo-cons. Being really happy when the folks in my neighborhood tell me how much they appreciate what we're doing and that they've got our backs. Making my house look like crazy people live there, in a desperate bid to forestall gentrification. Fixing bikes (badly). Driving my diesel truck, preferabbly to dumpsters, Filtering vegetable oil, Fixing people (hopefully pretty good). Construction. Starting an infoshop.

Other people say its too much. I say its not enough. We need more solid people to help out with our collective and projects.
I’m really good at
activism. reading fast. athletic stuff. playing with kids. organizing. making lists. cleaning. planning ahead. yelling at cops. writing (sometimes). riding my bike.
The first things people usually notice about me
All my tattoos and piercings. And then my militance. And then that I'm secretly really nice.

Maybe, my thighs. I got some gams, and I love to wear shortshorts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite food is vegan food. Free vegan food. Kombucha, pasta, chocolate cake, pies, candy, apple cider, coffee, tea, burritos. Vegan biscuits and gravy and pancakes cooked with friends.

Books:
Currently Reading: The George Jackson Brigade,

Mountain Justice, Against Equality
The Confessions of Nat Turner.
Nobody Passes, The Jungle, 1984, vampire and witch fantasy books, Dracula, Animal Liberation by Peter Singer, Speciesism by Joan Dunayer, Anarchy in the Age of Dinosaurs, Stencil Pirates, Hobo, Jumping the Line, Recipes for Disaster, Making Stuff and Doing Things, Like Hell by Ben Weasel, Igniting a Revolution, Burning Rage of a Dying Planet, Blood Done Sign My Name, The COlor of Their Skin: Education and Race in Richmond, VIrginia 1954- 1989. I like many many zines also.

I like punk music, folk punk music, bluegrass, country. holy!holy!holy! is my new favorite band.
Miranda Lambert, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Dierks Bentley, Sugarland, Ghost Mice, Mischief Brew, MDC, Pedals On Our Pirate Ships, Kesha, Defiance Ohio, Avail, Tim Barry, Why Are We Building Such A Big Ship, Dark Dark Dark, Helloween, Broken Bottle Band, Evan Greer, the Devil Makes Three, World Inferno Friendship Society
The six things I could never do without
my dogs, my bike,anarchism, hope, vegan food, adventure

and DUH Cuddle Puddles and Hot Pants

and camoflauge and leopard print everything
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to smash the state and crush the cage. All the projects I want to do. Like...Build a brick oven, install a wood stove (done), build book shelves, garden, start an awesome compost pile, grow kombucha, composting toilet, solar panels, solar water heater, fence in front yard, finish my book, write more zines, set up a screen printing shop in my basement, write letters to prisoners, get more tattoos.
On a typical Friday night I am
I sometimes go out to shows or parties, but a lot of times being around a bunch of intoxicated people either upsets or saddens me. I'd rather cook with friends or do something with friends.

Nowadays I am more likely to be doing copwatch and making fliers and reading at my house.

I don't have much in the way of spending money anyways, as most of my money goes towards the collective I live in and constructions and other radical projects. I like going out, and if someone wants to take me out I'll go, but I can not afford much.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm having a hard time getting close to people recently, I think due to some trauma of the past year, I am way scared to trust.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you think you can deal with intensity. Or if you want to help me on sweet projects. especially if you are vegan and sober or straightedge.

I am attracted to people of many genders, queers, trans folks, etc. I am less attracted to cis-gendered and straight men- I have a terrible habit of dating them, and the results are not so good.

If you are not an anarchist or a queer I am probably NOT interested.

Currently we are looking for a few good anarchists to potentially join our collective. But you have to be crazy, productive, consensual, communicative, accountable, and a whole lot more. Trust me, it is worth it though! We have something happening here.