Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy

xander_jon83

35 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish, Tagalog

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writer. World Wanderer. Young man. Big world. Big hugs. Comforting words. Warm embrace. Gentle gaze. Makes sense.

Quite shy.

Willing to listen to your story.

Tell me what you think.

Sometimes I feel like there's a hole inside of me, an emptiness that at times seems to burn. I think if you lifted my heart to your ear, you could probably hear the ocean. The moon tonight, there's a circle around it. Sign of trouble not far behind. I have this dream of being whole. Of not going to sleep each night, wanting. But still sometimes, when the wind is warm or the crickets sing... I dream of a love that even time will lie down and be still for.- AH
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring out what to do with an MFA degree and an eventual nursing diploma.

Growing up some more to be the man anyone would be proud of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing stories. What is your story?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are my eyes. They can look through to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
lots.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
movies, books, wandering aimlessly downtown, theatre, the beach, quiet nights, my moleskin notebooks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to make a life for myself in this city, as I have just moved to Toronto.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
lost. Can somebody find me?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you think I am worth your while.