To remain positive in life when life gets you down. As a saying goes "good things happen to those who wait".

Last two years have been a roller coaster of ups and downs. If you get to know me you will discover these things for they have really defined who I am. I love what I do and the people I get to work with on a daily basis. I love playing and doing things with my son. Also if you do not like children or do not want any you need not continue reading.

Every Saturday at 4pm I get together with a group of friends at the same bar and just relax and bs for a few hours or watch the game from there.

I also am an INTJ.

I am looking for someone special who will not only be my best friend but my partner in crime, figuratively of course, as well. Someone who knows what they want and not afraid to stand up and fight for it. I could list qualities but I would rather say I am looking for someone who has a strong sense of character and morals.

Currently I am a Lab manager/Assistant manager for Pearle Vision. I am training to one day be able to take over the store I am at when our franchise owner wants to retire. I am also in the process of starting my own non-profit organization which is going to take a lot of time to get setup. In the midst of all that I also am spending as much time as I can with my son as he is my number one priority.

listening, solving problems, handling stress, oh and i have large amounts of useless knowledge stored in my head=)

my eyes or my sarcastic sense of humor

-favorite books would have to be a series by Terry Goodkind and the first book is called A Wizard's First Rule. It was the first book that really struck an emotion cord with the villain.
-favorite shows would be The Big Bang Theory and The Walking Dead
-music is trickier as I like music from all over the board. If it has powerful lyrics I can relate to then I like it. Some of my current favorites right now would be Skillet, Celldweller, Rise Against, and Two Steps from Hell which despite the name is more classical music.
-Food hmmm lets just say I enjoy food. I love trying new places to eat and drink new beers/wines.

my son
my friends & family
good food
music
coffee

how to raise my son... deep philosophical questions... just random thoughts

depends on the week. I am either at home with my son playing or with friends relaxing

singing at work in my lab when no one is around

you want a long term growing relationship, like somewhat nerdy guys