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  • Ages 18–42
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My details

Last online
Oct 6
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Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French, Arabic, LISP
My self-summary
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I should start by saying that right now my free time is fairly limited at best, due mainly to work and I generally have to schedule things with some notice. Also I am in a long term open/poly relationship, that will not be changing.

The frivolous details are that I'm a machinist and designer (though lately I've been working as a high purity pipefitter and probably will for quite a while), I'm a proficient blacksmith, photographer and shibari/kinbaku practitioner. I like things where the technical and artistic meet. I enjoy obsessing over minuscule details and components, drafting pencils, vacuum tubes, tri-x, micrometers, grain size, carbon content, etcetera.
What I’m doing with my life
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For a living I'm installing high purity acid lines in a clean room. For the last year I have been working mostly six day weeks so my free time is limited . When not at work I spend a lot of time working art work or reading. Most of my artwork lately has been either photography, sewing or metalwork. On the rare occasions time allows I perform or lecture on shibari.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a reasonable photographer and excellent printer (wet darkroom).

I have made a few sets of swords that are now in museums.

I am also reasonably good at deconstructing shibari and kinbaku structures and cross referencing them with the TCM/CCM model of the body.

Fixing nagging problems by abstract but often very apparent means.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm more reserved then most people would expect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books about engineering, photography, analog electronics, chemistry, Chinese medicine or cooking. I also like a number of books by William Gibson, J. G. Ballard, Philip K. Dick (but beyond them I don't read much scifi) and a few comic books/graphic novels by Will Eisner, Garth Ennis, Frank Miller, the Hernandez Brothers. I also like/read/look at a lot of photography books and monographs.

I read about 45-60 books a year and about 4 of them are fiction. I've also been reading more comic books of late.

Industrial / Classical / Neoclassical / Goth / Punk / Jazz
Wumpscut, Throbbing Gristle, Switchblade Symphony, NON, Voltaire, Portishead, Bjork, Fad Gadget, The Cure, The Dead Boys, Virgin Prunes, Man is the Bastard, D.I., Agnostic Front Conflict, Suicidal Tenancies, Sisters of Mercy, Nine inch Nails, Big Black, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Rasputina, Debussy, Hypnoskull, Converter, Mentello and the Fixer, Stravinsky, Bach, Devo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, books, my dark room, my soldering iron, an occasional night off, my three legged cat. I can apparently live without more than 3 hours of sleep a night.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next project.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately getting ready to work on Saturday morning. Otherwise I've been going to the Filmbar or City of Madness fairly regularly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I will admit to things that are very private if they are relevant or I am asked politely.
You should message me if
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You enjoy communicating in more than 160 character blocks, you are accepting of poly relationships. And you possibly want to discuss photography, shibari or industrial design. Something along those lines.