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xenesthis

48 Salem, VA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:02pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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For much of my life, I traveled due to backgrounds in the military and airline industries. I have been to 22 countries and 43 states of the U.S., and lived in three foreign countries for a significant portion of time. I have lived a very interesting "Hemingway" life full of adventure, incredible experiences, travel and have an amazing appetite to live life to the maximum. With a successful background in the military, airlines, public relations, the exotic pet trade, and the helping professional or human services field, there are not too many things that I haven't done or places I haven't been to yet. I hope to find someone that appreciates this kind of background and/or has a similar one.

Below are some “deal breakers”, my preferences and list of my interests. I’m a very honest, straight-forward type of man. No wishy-washy, maybes, I will try, should, could or indecisiveness here. :) I mean what I say and I do it. I really do not like the shallow profiles on dating sites because it doesn’t tell you much about a person and their preferences. Of course, I also deplore the fake ones with profiles that don’t match the person when you meet them and the content doesn’t either. So, with this in mind, I’m putting up profile with some depth and honesty. I’m a very busy person with important things going on in my life, goals, commitments and balance. I will not reply to your message if you obviously did not read the contents of this profile, busted any one of my “deal breakers” and a vast majority of my preferences you do not meet. Sorry, we need to be compatible. Again, WE NEED TO BE COMPATIBLE. Please READ my profile well to ensure that we are BEFORE you message me. Thank you.

MY PREFERENCES: (you don’t have to have all of these things, but a having a majority of these things would make us more compatible);

• Caucasian, Asian, Latino or Middle Eastern woman ONLY.
• Your an outdoor, nature, wildlife lover (and you love primitive camping)
• You excercise/work out 2-3 times a week (when possible).
• You eat and cook with mainly healthy foods and value good nutrition.
• You enjoy things like mountain hiking/climbing, photography, traveling/sightseeing, gardening/landscaping, going to book stores, museums, zoos, nature centers, art galleries, watching movies, playing pool, bowling, cycling, inline skating, martial arts, skiing, swimming, walking, volleyball, working out, camping, and coffee and conversation.
• You have a well-rounded life with work, parenting (if that applies), friends, family, hobbies, church, volunteer work, sports, school, etc.
• You enjoy reading and learning new things.
• You like/love cats. (I have two Siamese cats.)
• You have an interest in and/or keep exotic animals.
• Politically/philosophically, your a moderately conservative Republican and/or independent
• You're self-motivated, set realistic goals and want to better yourself.
• You're self-sufficient, you have a job, your own car and place to live and not in major debt and about to start losing things.
• You have long hair, green eyes and large breasts. (Not required, but an attractive features I gravitate to.)
• You rarely use the words "maybe, if, but, try, could, or should". Your very conscious in ensuring most of your words and actions match.
• You like/love seafood.
• You believe in committing to a loyal and/or monogamous relationship with your man.
• I prefer a college graduate and/or your furthering your education now or in the near future.
• You're fairly intelligent. (This is a big turn on for me.)
• You have weekends off from work.
• You are proficient in being able to have disagreements and arguments by resolving differences and managing conflicts successfully in all of your relationships.
• You have a positive outlook on life and a daily zest to live it.
• I prefer a woman with kids grown up and out of the house and/or no kids. (I'm not 100% on this topic. Case-by-case situation).
• Be under 50 yrs. old. (IF your very attractive and healthy, you can be my cougar. :)

“DEAL BREAKERS” (IF you are any of these things and/or do any of these things, we are not compatible, so don’t even message me as we would not get along):

• You have been diagnosed with a significant mental health disorder such as being bipolar, borderline, antisocial, etc. and/or you have weekly or month appointments with a psychiatrist or psychologist.
• You consume alcohol in vast amounts and/or take ANY drugs and/or “medication” in order to cope with life and manage life's problems.
• You're currently going through a midlife crisis and/or still dealing with one.
• Your high strung and/or have extreme mood swings and resort to yelling, screaming and violence as your normal way of operating in life and/or coping with life’s situations.
• You have a felony record.
• You smoke or tell people they you are quitting, but years later, uh, are still smoking.
• You're extremely emotionally needy.
• You're only wanting a man for financial security and think his only purpose is to be a wallet.
• Your very over or under weight and obviously do not care about yourself.
• You own large and/or aggressive/loud dogs.
• You hate cats and can't live with them.
Your an extreme liberal in your political and philosophical views.
• You're into witchcraft, Satanism and/or any weird cult-type of religions or activities.
• You're covered in tattoos. (Uh, more than three would probably qualify here.)
• You're body is a pin cushion with many body piercings. (Uh, more than three would probably qualify here.)
• You ONLY listen to country music.
• You didn't graduate from high school and/or you don’t like to read or further your education.
• Your very promiscuous and/or have many "friends with benefits" and have been living that lifestyle for awhile.
• You can not have a disagreement or argue without resulting to yelling, screaming, threatening or violence.
• You have more than two divorces.
• You're bisexual.
• You're a Facebook or social media junkie spending more than two hours a day creating and/or getting caught up with drama.
• You have to have your mother or best friends make your decisions for you constantly (a guy ends up dealing with your mother and your girlfriends on every issue and/or situation). I'm sorry, I'm looking for an independent thinker that doesn't need mommy and your BFF to help you with everything.

I’m a very laid back, even-keeled type of personality. If your high-strung, please move on. I’m very easy-going, good at any conversation, very active, love to do things outdoors and love animals. Many of my female friends and past girlfriends would tell you that they like the following traits about me the most: intelligent, loyal, trustworthy, good listener and character. I've been called "easy on the eyes" too. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the helping professions or human services field. I'm also attending graduate school studying a Masters degree . When not working or studying, I like to work out, go nature hiking, swim, travel, and do some nature/wildlife photography.
I’m really good at
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Conversation, writing, speaking, computers, research, knowledge about nature, wildlife, history, geography, nutrition/fitness and creating art, organizing, sports, and romance.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Intelligence, nice shoulders and "rump". :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: seafood, Mexican, Italian, Greek, Asian foods.
Books: Many! Currently reading "Catching Fire" and "Beyond Good and Evil".
Music: '80s lover, but I listen to a wide range of music.
Shows: Cats
Movies: I like a wide range of movies especially action/adventure, military, history documentaries, some sci fi, horror, comedies and drama. Favorite movies: Gladiator, Dark Knight, Dark Knight Rises, Crimes of Passion, The Deer Hunter, Casino, The Notebook, Hunger Games, Happy Gilmore, Apocalypse Now, Legends of the Fall
You should message me if
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IF you made the time and effort to read my profile and think we could click, sure, send me a message and let's see what happens.

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