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xenigma

37 / M / straight / Available

Sydney, Australia

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Ethnicity
White
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5' 10" (1.77m).
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Short-term dating, Casual sex
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Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
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Graduated from college/university
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Education / Academia
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Languages
English

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I am intelligent, athletic, and a considerate lover.

My Self-Summary

Errr... intelligent, successful, healthy and a bit silly. I love cerebral activities, as well as jokes, exercise, nightclubs, fresh air, people who are in some way refreshing, obtuse conversations, intellectual argument, kissing, foreplay and underwear. In bed, I can be sensitive and/or raunchy, but my enjoyment of sex is dependent on my partner's satisfaction.

What I’m doing with my life

Creating things which pay the bills, playing music, enjoying the camaraderie of team sport, organising stuff and nonsense, watching comedy and building aesthetically pleasing contraptions.

I’m really good at

Developing ideas and persevering. Music is important but any promise unfulfilled. Jack-of-all-sports, master of none. I love to chat and joke when socialising, but can go a little quiet when new creations or plans are occupying my thoughts. I can get on with a lot of different people - I enjoy their enthusiasms.

The first things people usually notice about me

In order, probably.... A smile. I'm in pretty good shape, I'm open and interested in people's ideas, loves and beliefs (but can be a bit antisocial if they have none of the above). I'm fairly knowledgeable. I'm opinionated and a bit sharp. I can be easy to get on with, but sometimes impatient. I don't listen to bllsht and generally shut my trap if I don't know the facts. I like to get a reaction, but I think I have (finally) grown out of being provocative.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Not pap or pop, otherwise a lot of things.

The six things I could never do without

My mind (although without it would you miss it?)

I don't tend to miss things when they are not there. I just get on with what I have.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Details.

On a typical Friday night I am

Avoiding routines.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm new to this.

You should message me if

Most of my commitment is to someone who isn't interested in 'outside' experiences. I still believe that variety is the spice of life, and feel that it is time to dip my toes in the water again before too many years pass by. If this seems to fit your bill, drop me a line :)