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28 Santa Cruz, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:07am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
'ello! My name is Bergen or Bear for short.

Open-minded Nuetral good male. High level geek of multiple disciplines. I'm confident, but know my shortcomings and how to admit when I’m wrong. Either INTJ or INFP depending on my mood.

Creative by nature and tend to be at my happiest while doing art.

I'm loyal, romantic and affectionate by nature. Looking for a partner in crime who is avoids the dating game and rather is going to be direct, open and willing to not take life too serious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Keeping busy with life and putting one foot in front of the other best I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Massage. sous chefing, art specially digital mediums. I enjoy small-scale metal work, especially jewelry
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intelligence, followed by my geeky side.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tend to play sandbox and creative games. Currently Minecraft, skyrim and saints row series.
steak and mash, Fettucini alfredo, Hawaiian pizza and sushi.
Prefer fantasy, sci-fi and horror, love atmospheric rich worlds.
Tend to be horror or darker in tone. Anything Post-apocalyptic will geek out. Love all J horror.
Adult swim, Mythbusters, and documentaries. HGTV for background noise. Although tend to prefer gaming or movies.
Most, mood depending. Generally prefer psychedelic rock, 80's power ballads and classical. Feel free to ask me more or suggest anything. I go through lot of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First, Art is my lifeblood. I thrive on creativity. Second, cuddles. I love being affectionate. Third, my cat, he is my best friend. Fourth the friends I do have I am very close with and could not do without. Fifth would be pair of good headphones and 6th- tech. I am a gadget geek.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a bit of mad innovator. Always coming up with systems and devices to make my life easier. Prefer to invent rather than innovate, but that is hard to do these days.

Also- How to communicate in a way that will get responses. The assholes on this site have made that quite a tricky thing sadly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually gaming and hanging out or at live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1) I'm pretty 'quirky' but in an endearing way.
2) I have decently good memory yet very selective recall.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you liked what you read and want to talk more to see how our chemistry is. Especially if you are night owl, I'm always interested in meeting others with same nocturnal schedule.