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29 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Irish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As much as I don't care for labels, I definitely identify as a complicated introvert. I can be shy and nervous or talkative and boisterous depending on the crowd and situation. People are usually confused by this but I'm almost always quiet at first. I am engaging when engaged.

I've been described as cartoony on more than one occasion.

I am INFJ, the rarest of personality types. (apparently)

I don't take life (except a handful of super srs adult responsibilities) very seriously and I like to have fun as much as possible when I'm not being a homebody. I'm not really a party girl; I'd rather seek out unconventional fun.

I like my relationships like I like my produce: local and sustainable.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, full time. Living, part time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying the wrong things.

Having awkward conversation.

Being weird.

Being accident prone.

But I've been told that's part of my charm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my bluntness.

That I "seem fun"... If there is a more passive aggressive euphemism, I haven't heard it yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
While I think having some of these kinds of things in common is somewhat important, I don't think listing them out like I'm writing some kind of dating resume is really for me. I'd rather learn these things about each other naturally.

But I am into rock and roll and it's many subgenres and I'm a horror nut.

I am mostly vegan/vegetarian. I'm a pretty decent cook and I have a weakness for an amazing dessert.

I always take recommendations...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat
CTA pass
Adhering to the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fluffy kittens with big pink bows.

Why people feel shame.

Why am I not outside right now?

Deleting my OKCupid profile again.

My next experiment.

How I can improve myself.

Getting out of my own head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Learning to speak my native tongue.

Listening to pop songs about death.

Getting weird.

Wrestling my mind...or maybe a bear.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Once I thought I had mono for an entire year but it turns out I was just really bored.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're easy to talk to and hang out with.

You're open minded.

You want to create something together.

You're a little ridiculous.

You're emotionally present and available.

You're not a total killjoy.

Your idea of adventure goes beyond going to the bar.

You want to knit/crochet while watching B-movies.

You like/relate to this song: