xnoctrnalx
33 Jersey City, NJ
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My self-summary
"If you like what you see and read, then please hit me up, don't be shy, I'm not.
Take a chance =) You'll never know what you'll get"

Here I am, Hello.
You know, sometimes I just wish my close friends would be my lovers, I mean I already love them to death. I'm definitely always looking to meet new people and the man of my dreams. just a heads-up, I'm gay and pretty masculine. Please, those who are self-righteous, ignorant, and close-minded (you know who you are) I want no part of that, but I'll still get to know you as long as you're willing to be open, honest and connected. I'm an open person myself, straight forward and outgoing. I love intelligent conversation and interesting people. I have a positively intense personality, certainly not shy by no means, I don't deal with drama and I practice the 100-0 principle in every relationship (http://www.100-0principle.com). The truth is, people seem to love me, and I love people back.

I am Loving , Powerful, Inspiring and Sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
I know exactly who I am and what I am, i don't play games and I'm pretty focused on achieving everything i want in life. Most of the time I wanna blast music and/or chill with my friends but I do enjoy sporting events, dinning, NYC night life, video games, Broadway shows and movies. I'm just in love with the fun and freedom of life. Mainly, I work, workout (lift, run, and swim), surf the web, play video game's or randomly watch TV. And I work in business management.
I’m really good at
Kissing & loving. conversation, Listening, Giving advice, Being polite, Being honest, Being a friend, Understanding people, being nonjudgmental, Foosball, Swimming, cooking, video games, laughing, making friends, being a boyfriend. I'm also very much a Scorpio.
***UGH, actually I'm going through an identity crisis, since the unveiling of the new and apparently revised zodiac calendar, I'm am now a LIBRA.... BUT I will say, I have many Scorpio tendencies, though from what i read, Libras are pretty kick ass too =)~
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm such a promoter, I only like doing fun things, I'm definitely a leader not a follower, I have A.D.D. and get distracted by shinny things. Maybe my intense stare, people seem to get lost in my gaze. Maybe my ear piercings or tongue ring. Once I start talking sometimes its hard getting me to shut up, yet sometimes I'm quiet and like to observe. Maybe my boyish good looks or fun sense of humor and sassy sarcasm. Maybe my 5-o'clock shadow or my head-to-toe trendy style. Maybe my inability to hold back a smile or a hardy laugh when something slighting funny pops up. Eventually you'll realize I'm a joker and enjoy making people laugh. Maybe my soft lips during a kiss. Maybe it's something deeper, Maybe it's my soul. Maybe people notice me, Maybe Not. Either way, I know that I DON'T fade into the back ground and I DO want to be noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a. Harry potter, the school for good and evil trilogy, Anything by James Patterson (Alex Cross) , Robert Ludlum write some crazy action packed books (Jason Bourne). Nelson Demille "Up Country", Nicholas Evans "Smoke Jumper", John grisham wrote some cool books. b. Donnie Darko, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Shawshank Redemption, Forest Gump, Almost famous, Boondock saints, Resevior Dogs, Ocean's eleven, Kill bill vol 1&2, Blow, SLC punks, Glory days, Half baked, Rock Star, Nepolian Dynimate, Devil's rejects, And any horror film that actually makes my skin crawl. c. Dave Matthews Band, Relient K, Guster, Dispatched, O.A.R, Led Zeppline, The Beetles, Sublime, Sanctus Real, Jimmy Hendrix, red hot chili peppers, greenday, lady Gaga ..... Groove armada, loui devito, global djs... listen to anything really, I know its so cliche. D. I really like sushi and chicken Caesar salad but essentially anything that tastes good or made by me, I love food =)~ (Now i'm hungry, thanks okcupid) ohhh I'm an excellent cook and love showing off my skill, any takers?
The six things I could never do without
My ipod, My friends, My water, my computer, good times and cell phone...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and when I'm going to find the man I was born to be with. Music and emotion, soooo Mainly sex, I kinda need some every now and then, jk'ing. I'm not into hooking up too much, but you can try to persuade me... But mostly thinking about what I'm doing in the next minute.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working or alone playing some music, watching a movie, playing some video games or reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really want a close knit circle of gay friends, I don't have many and i'm sick of 'straight' parties. I like watching cartoons and anime and I cry easily whenever something sentimental pops up. I'm a bit vulnerable, just without the drama, tho I can be dramatic =)
oh and i seem to fall in love with random people 50x a day.
You should message me if
If you'd rather stay in watching movies on Netflix and playing video games, ordering take out and ignoring the outside world while in bed all day.
Or.
you like what you read.

I'm James btw.
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