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xocomil

46 / M / straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am fervent, confident, and clever.

My Self-Summary

I like the word passionate to describe myself, but it could just be my own self delusion. I am not typically a half way kind of person, I tend to be all in or not at all. This is great if we share the same love of adventure, travel, playing etc. It doesn't mean I won't try new things, I do all the time. I'm not inflexible, maybe just a bit OCD. When I like something I tend to really learn about it and immerse myself in it. The good thing about that is I can fix almost anything, built my own house, taught myself about computers and now make a living at it.

I'm a vegetarian because I love animals but don't think people that eat meat don't. I strive to give others the freedom I desire in being who they are. Judgment is all about my own limitations and I'm more interested in growing then sitting safely in judgment of others thinking there is such a thing as a "right" way people should be. People are as they are, thinking they should be other than that is just a way to argue with reality, which I find to be a good waste of time.

I have one of those life stories that you read about in the book of the month club or would hear from one of Oprah's weekly guests. I used to think it defined who I am but as I grow older I realize it's just a story, like everyone has. It has taught me some things about myself and life and I wouldn't trade any of it.

I suppose all of this adds up to some contradiction, which I think those who know me would agree is a good word for me. I'm very confident and tend to be a leader in most things I do. I am somewhat competitive but more so w/ myself than with others. I communicate better than most. I guess I should admit here that I worked as a therapist in my former career but I'm hoping you won't hold it against me. I love to play but have a very deep work ethic. I've spent the last 6 years holding down two jobs but I'm far from a workaholic. I will blow off work for a good powder day faster then most. I travel a lot, it's one of the most enjoyable things in life and I love sharing it with others. I believe strongly in family and like spending time with mine.
I don't follow sports except for cycling, I can't stand watching ESPN, but I do golf, bike, kayak and snowboard. A lot.

I've been married and would be again if it were right but it's not my primary objective. I'm here because I enjoy companionship and this is a way to open up that possibility. I'm not afraid of where any relationship that moves my heart takes me.

There you go.

What I’m doing with my life

Working a job I love, living in the city but escaping to the mountains. Riding my bike, snowboarding, golfing. Spending time with friends and enjoying the house I built.

I’m really good at

snowboarding, biking, riding motorcycles, visualizing and buiiding houses, computers.

The first things people usually notice about me

I like to communicate.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Love Mexican food, anything Tarintino, David Eddings, Elliot Patterson

The six things I could never do without

1000 thread count sheets
My bike
Great sound in my car
Internet
My family and friends
my pets

I spend a lot of time thinking about

staying in the present

On a typical Friday night I am

working on a project, going to a movie, out with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

whatever

You should message me if

You are fit and like to play. My off time is about being active, yoga, biking, snowboarding, kayaks.