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xoxodave

35 Boston, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), Other
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there! I'm Dave!

I love biking every day, thinking about high and low tech solutions to every day problems, and diverting items from landfills.

I love to think big and take on crazy projects. I once helped build a raft with a large bouncy castle on top of it for a friend's birthday party. The vessel could hold the weight of 30 people and we sailed it 3 miles down the Charles River outside of Boston, singing sea shanties and drinking beer. And last autumn, I co-organized Boston's First Annual Cranksgiving Bike Ride. Over 160 riders showed up and we collected over 2500 pounds of food for the Greater Boston Food Bank. I'm always looking for new big projects to take on!

I split my time between Boston and New York City but will be 100% Boston-based through mid-August.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
1) I'm a builder. I've built websites, houses, boats, art busses, pizzas, and pedal powered agricultural equipment, .

2) I help collect and re-distribute hundreds of books each month with ReLitNY, a NYC-based non-profit that I am heavily involved in. We focus on redistributing books in areas that are underserved by their local library or the neighborhood has recently suffered a library closure. Literacy is power!

3) I am addicted to volunteering. At least a few times a week I volunteer my time doing things like helping younger learners improve their math and science skills, handing out food at a shelter/food pantry, or loading bicycles into a shipping container with Bikes Not Bombs.

4) I bike anywhere and everywhere, regardless of weather. I enjoy doing group rides with Times Up!, Transportation Alternatives, and the Boston Bike Party.

5) During the warmer months, I am an avid gardener and I volunteer my time with a multitude of community gardeners and ecological non-profits. I am also a certified NYC Citizen Pruner and can legally prune any tree in New York City.

6) In general, I do what I love and love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Making "it" happen.
2) Making out.
3) Lifting up extremely heavy objects (bend at the knees, not at the waist!).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I give ridiculously awesome hugs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, On the Shortness of Life by Seneca, Hard Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World by Haruki Murakami

Movies: Fight Club, Inception, Gravity, and 2001: A Space Odyssey

Television: Battlestar Galactica, Halt and Catch Fire, Silicon Valley, Broad City, and Shark Tank

Music: Neutral Milk Hotel, Girl Talk, and the Wu Tang Clan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Physical affection / cuddling / sex
2) Bikes
3) Pictures of cats with fat stacks of money
4) Sriracha sauce
5) Delicious beers (the hoppier the better!)
6) Impossible challenges to overcome
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bikes
Sex
Social justice
Gardening
The upcoming technological singularity
How to reduce my ecological footprint and divert items from landfills.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably doing something that involves biking, beer, music, and/or power tools.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was a real handful growing up. I caused my mom more than her fair share of grey hairs but she supported me the whole way. She gave me the freedom to do what I wanted and to make my own mistakes but also the reassurance that if I got myself into more than I could handle that she would have my back. I think I turned out all right.
You should message me if
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You're emotionally available and up for adventure! Wishy-washiness blows. If you don’t follow your heart then we probably aren’t going to get along. I’d much rather do the wrong thing and be super happy than be righteous and boring and drab.