I believe one must be honest, but respect someone's feelings. You can debate, but you don't have to make low blows. Try not to judge someone for past mistakes, unless they repeatedly continue doing the same thing. I'm a non-violent person, I don't name call, however I may make a smart ass comment or snide remark. I'm not gonna say I'm a nice guy, that's usually the funeral dirge for any hope of a relationship anyway. Hell, you could think I'm a douche bag. But that's your decision to make.
I'm usually content just driving and talking, or watching a flick. I wanna chat about a movie we just watched. I wanna know how your day was while we share a good meal. I want someone to go on a vacation with. Someone willing to try new things and not afraid to talk nerdy to me.
Much like Bilbo, I want someone to go on an adventure with.