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29 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
Asian, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a documentary photographer, a former professional baker/pastry chef, a tarot card reader. I am moved by ruinenlust and have a case of wanderlust. I'll be on the road soon. I used to work in the food industry and really enjoy experiencing food. I will eat anything.

I listen to massive amounts of music. I'm quite passionate about it. I go to shows often. I'm trying to improve my guitar skills and I want to get an accordion and perform on the street.

I'm really weird. Let's be open here.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking photos of everything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good person. I am not always rewarded for it. Sometimes I get punished for it. I still try to treat people right. That's important to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I fist-bump as my way of saying hi and wear a lot of black.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: My two favorite novels are Pale Fire by Vladimir Nabokov and The Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov. Homage to Catalonia. the Sorrows of Young Werther. The Stranger. Frankenstein. The Road. 2666. The Savage Detectives. Zeitoun. Flannery O'Connor. Kahlil Gibran.

MOVIES: Murmur of the Heart. La Dolce Vita. 8 1/2. The Diving Bell and the Butterfly. City of God. Basquiat. Rushmore. Nits of Cabiria. Juliet of the Spirits. No Direction Home. Pineapple Express. The Proposition. Les Bonnes Femmes. Henry and June. Films by Wong Kar Wai, Mira Nair, Jim Jarmusch, Werner Herzog.

SHOWS: It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. Fringe. Arrested Development. I don't have a lot of time to watch the telly. I would watch more if I could.

MUSIC: Jay Z. The Decemberists. Portugal. The Man. Bon Iver. Nick Cave. The Zombies. Basia Bulat. Bat for Lashes. Vashti Bunyan. Ted Leo. Lots of indie, folk, and hip hop. I'm getting into French accordion and musette

ARTISTS (noticed others doing it): Matthew Barney. Laurel Nakadate. Vincent van Gogh. Spalding Gray. Francesca Woodman. William Eggleston.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Definitely not no zombie apocalypse. Don't be ridiculous. A robot uprising is the more imminent threat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out on dates, or bro-ing out on man-dates, or doing neither which explains why I'm on this website.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Pizza turns me on.
You should message me if
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You built this city on rock-n-roll.